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I would say you do have rose lenses on still--at least one, if not both. What you're describing is noble, but also pretty optimistic.
Is it unreasonable to say that you also come to love someone based on who they are? I’m sure lesbians do. It’s love for a reason.

I don’t think it’s rose-colored glasses but I’ll take the optimism. I guess I am optimistic that there is still hope in our dying world. The black-pill is a horrible thing to deal with it’s like a pit of depression and resentment that makes a heart physically hurt.
I’d prefer to try and attempt to make things better.
 
I know youre a baiting y chromo but being against women’s rights and freedoms is not feminist
Thats pretty specious. Feminists can call anything they want a right or a freedom, and say anyone who is against what they've labeled rights and freedoms is anti-Feminist, sexist, misogynist etc.

And is that definition on the official Feminist charter FarmVille mentioned? If not, then it's just, like, your opinion, man.
 
Thats pretty specious. Feminists can call anything they want a right or a freedom, and say anyone who is against what they've labeled rights and freedoms is anti-Feminist, sexist, misogynist etc.

And is that definition on the official Feminist charter FarmVille mentioned? If not, then it's just, like, your opinion, man.
No rights and freedoms are rights and freedoms. And yes being against women’s liberation is misogynistic.
I am in your walls watching you now as we speak
 
That's a lot of stuff to reply to.
I had time. :)
The thing is, the apolitical (and very niche) flavors of feminism you mentioned are well, politically irrelevant.
I didn't say that the example views were completely apolitical, just that legal and political rights are varyingly focused on, depending on which feminist theory/strain you look at. For some, that's all it is; for others, it's much more interior-focused; and for others, it's different mixes of both. And I brought that up because this thread is called, "Feminism discussion thread," yet 99% of the commentary, particularly but not only by those negatively disposed to what they think feminism is - usually poorly defined (or intentionally or negligently erroneous) characterizations of "libfem" and "radfem," or just lumping it all together to declare all feminists are either sluts ("libfem") or insane man haters ("radfem"), or "based anti-trannies" (TERFs, I guess, though seems like that might be a misnomer, but that's another discussion), is dedicated to scattershot anti-woman comment.

Another reason I included examples of feminist viewpoints that are not focused solely or primarily on rights activism was that "feminism" is commonly discussed or casually understood as whatever is the current loudest political voice. Today, two supposed feminisms typically juxtaposed (though not always rarely accurately characterized or at least not fully captured) are "libfem" and "radfem."*

*I'm amused but not really in a positive way by the constant references to Andrea Dworkin, who was an outlier and extreme even among her sub-type of feminist thought in her active years. Her views were taken literally by few in the broader spectrum, though the very fact of her radicalism did open conversations and worked to shift some underlying assumptions. She was just one perspective (on men, on women, on feminism, on society) among many, not a spokesperson for all of feminism. I'm not sure she was even representative of all of radical feminism back in the day. She was loud, radical, and sensational (not in a bad way, but also not in a practical way). So seeing her words/views constantly cited lately (both positively and negatively) without any broader perspective and treated as a day-to-day guide or set of immutable truths or beliefs rather than as a provocative theory/theories is...frustrating, to be imprecise about it.

Again, this thread is called, "Feminism discussion thread." A discussion of any topic needs to start with agreement on what exactly is being discussed. "Feminism" is the antithesis of monolithic. Even the various "waves" (which, btw, aren't even sharply defined after the second wave - pick a source and it will say there have been three waves, and another will say 4) are only loosely bound by general focus, not by theory or by goal or ideal future state. Poo-flinging random declarations of male superiority isn't a discussion of feminism - that is (amusingly and annoyingly made live), exactly the point: feminism isn't about you, and a "Feminism discussion thread" isn't about male anything. Likewise, it isn't a "discussion" to run in and respond to, say, a TERF laying out the trans-exclusionary rationale with a comment that it's what women deserve because slutty feminists created the tranny menace and so die, bitch. A TERF's focus has nothing to do with that - afai understand, the TERF thing is specifically about "women's spaces," even though that typically flows into or maybe is based on more rad characterizations of male-female dynamics. Lobbing the "slutty 3rd wavers fucked you all, and you deserve it because you're women and call yourselves feminists" grenade is just shitposting or looking for any wedge of an opportunity to shit on women in general - not a discussion or debate. A good-faith debate means assuming positive intent and approaching the discussion with the same.

In the interest of discussion, I tried to distill down the common notion among the various permutations of "feminism": women's innate humanity and the conceptual, inherently equal worth and quality of women and men as human beings.

I'm not referring to whether men and women are "the same," "equally as good as a group at everything as the other group," capable or incapable as a group or as individuals of outperforming the other sex - just starting with the inherent human value point. On that concept, I am interested in whether anyone considers that basic concept (just the essential one, to start) objectionable, absurd, contemptible, radical, offensive, wrong, or whatever. If so, I'd be interested in why.

If that core concept is "wrong," then for folks who have that view, there's no need to get into anything more specific.

If, on the other hand, that concept is a common ground for the discussion, then it is possible to discuss different theories or operational goals that are feminist in nature.

And we live in an era of nearly overt power seeking and group interests legitimization.
Yes, but does that change inherent worth of a whole class (sex/gender) as members of the species?

Power-seeking has shown to be a general human tendency - whether done overtly or implicitly, by brute force or the power if money, by direct assertion or by attaching to others who assert on others' behalf. Which path, if any, to select is bounded by things like geopolitics at the nation-state or other organizational level, but does not need to be bounded philosophically by sex, if that's what you were getting at (not sure I understood your point with this).

"Humanity" is also nearly irrelevant. We can all acknowledge that the bantus, Amazonian tribes and Sentinelese are human, because if we take one of their women, and we put her in Cairo or Oslo, she will be able to reproduce with any male of any ethnic group. That alone guarantees belonging to the human species.
Problem is, inside the species there is a lot of variation and on an intellectual and cultural level, some people are very familiar and close to you, while others are nearly alien.
OK...not seeing where you're going with this, in context.

Also, being a human alone does not guarantee you any rights or privileges, as it's obviously visible from various wars and historical state oppression of groups they dislike, which continues to this day.
Humans are imperfect, complex, and frequently compromise certain principles for others, sure. That doesn't change essential truths about the worth of each human. Civilians dead due to war are understood as an inherent consequence of in-the-ground war, and anyone the least bit intellectually honest recognizes that the loss of life that way is still the death of human beings. Humanity as a whole reckons with this, and that's the reason there are international agreements about the laws of war. Plenty of individuals disagree and/or place the larger goals (whether those goals are honorable or despicable) higher than the consideration of human life, or just dgaf about people, but on the whole, humanity recognizes at least a theoretical or moral value to life.

Being strong and a great warrior also does not guarantee anything, as you will get old and careless, and you will face annihilation eventually. It's an endless cycle of competition, people rising to the top, and people failing.
I think this is all that matters in the end.
BTW, I don't "believe" in hierarchy, I just notice that it is inevitable.
I agree with you, to some degree (though not sure to what degree), but some people take the inverse view and try to use the fact of hierarchy - whether rational, well-founded, or based on anything objectively ptovable, or not - as proof of natural moral superiority. Again, another topic altogether.

There is no society without hierarchy on the planet. Even the communist society that I was born in and which allegedly pursued the uprooting of unjust hierarchies only placed different people on top.
It's obvious that once it's clear that hierarchy is inevitable, you want to end up as high as possible, but more importantly, you will struggle to never, ever be at the bottom where anyone can shit on you.
Congratulations: you're a feminist. :)
 
Thats pretty specious. Feminists can call anything they want a right or a freedom, and say anyone who is against what they've labeled rights and freedoms is anti-Feminist, sexist, misogynist etc.

And is that definition on the official Feminist charter FarmVille mentioned? If not, then it's just, like, your opinion, man.
Rule of thumb: If there is a responsibility tied to the right, it can be considered as such.

Having the right to vote means we all have to be responsible for who is in charge.
Right to abortion even means we have responsibility to be diligent to our bodies with whatever choice.
 
She’s just another Camille paglia esque conservative that wants to be imflammatory by callling herself a feminist while saying she’s against women’s freedoms and making that into a “feminist” ideal. It’s a very popular grift lots of women do it like Christina hoff summers

If its a grift, it's not a good one, financially speaking. I don't think she is that well known or popular.


Thats a funny take. But I guess nobody really likes pitbulls.
 
If its a grift, it's not a good one, financially speaking. I don't think she is that well known or popular.



Thats a funny take. But I guess nobody really likes pitbulls.
Sorry to say, but a lot of self hating women like this don’t grift for popularity or money, they do it for male attention and to be seen as one of the good ones. It’s scary how much some women just need to let misogynistic men walk all over them
That’s a tranny isn’t it? Passing off as a feminist thinker.
Nah she’s the very first fujo. She’s a woman just a dumb one. It’s unfortunate because she’s an og and has been this since like the 90s
 
Is it unreasonable to say that you also come to love someone based on who they are? I’m sure lesbians do. It’s love for a reason.
I'm not saying that people choose who they fall in love with, because they often can't. But I will say that a woman who loves a man is already risking more than a woman in love with another woman. You say "based on who they are", but you'd be surprised by how well some people can hide, and how long they can do it for.

This is horrible advice to give to anyone, but have a scroll through Reddit's sex and relationship forums. When you're with a man, it may be years before you know whether you've picked up a porn addict, or a rapist, or a pedophile, or an autogynephile, or a domestic abuser, or a john, or a serial cheater and commitmentphobe. Can women be these things? (I'm mentioning this because I know that someone will.) Sure, in theory. But to pretend that the chance and the risk is the same would be negligence of reality.
The black-pill is a horrible thing to deal with
True
I’d prefer to try and attempt to make things better.
Just a thing I'd like you to clarify if you can: when you describe changing "things" and making "things" better, what do you mean exactly--women? men? society? the standards for straight partnerships?

Another thing I'd like to ask, if you're comfortable sharing it, is whether you're presently in a relationship, or looking for one. I think that has an effect on your response to this question.
 
So why the fuck are you seething when different groups pursue their own self-interest above yours?
Just prove you have what it takes to get to the top or fail trying.
Are you lost, sweetie? Because you're starting to remind me of the chavs in the Holocaust Denial Thread and Race Realism threads. Woman is not a race.
She was loud, radical, and sensational (not in a bad way, but also not in a practical way). So seeing her words/views constantly cited lately (both positively and negatively) without any broader perspective and treated as a day-to-day guide or set of immutable truths or beliefs rather than as a provocative theory/theories is...frustrating, to be imprecise about it.
I liked what Andrea had to say. If she seems paranoid and excessively angry at men, she had every right to be. She was prostituted by her boyfriend against her will and then he'd beat her if he thought she was withholding cash. This happened in Amsterdam in the 1960's.
just starting with the inherent human value point. On that concept, I am interested in whether anyone considers that basic concept (just the essential one, to start) objectionable, absurd, contemptible, radical, offensive, wrong, or whatever. If so, I'd be interested in why.
Yeah... if AgendaPoster isn't trying to espouse a might makes right viewpoint, or a you-ladies-need-a-man-like me viewpoint, or an appeal to nature fallacy, then I really would like to know what he means, without the weird obfuscating and nebulous language he adopts when I sense he's trying to uh, post his agenda.
 
Nah she’s the very first fujo. She’s a woman just a dumb one. It’s unfortunate because she’s an og and has been this since like the 90s
Bruh wtf.

Why the hell is she calling herself trans then?

women? men? society? the standards for straight partnerships?

Another thing I'd like to ask, if you're comfortable sharing it, is whether you're presently in a relationship, or looking for one. I think that has an effect on your response to this question.
All of the above. I think we came out of a period of particularly unhealthy marriages even the stable people of the baby-boom were too hush-hush on extremely important topics such as sex life, biology, and life in general. A lack of passing on why they practiced things the way they do. Like robots basically. Mainly they weren’t open enough. Communication is so neglected.

I am in a long-Term relationship. It’s been years with the same man. We‘re very integrated into each other‘s families. Out of the honey-moon phase as well.
 
Perhaps, but she does tick some of the boxes: She is against porno, surrogacy, prostitution, troons etc.
Nice light, optional boxes you have there. Does she lift the heavy boxes:
Women's suffrage?
Birth Control?
Early term elective abortion?
Late term therapeutic abortion?
Marital rape?
Date rape?
Women's enfranchisement (e.g. right to own property, real estate, a bank account, credit card, a cell phone plan, drive a car, move about in public unmolested, etc.?)
 
Why the hell is she calling herself trans then?
She’s a self hating lesbian that constantly asserts that faggots are better than lesbians and that shes a gay man trapped in a woman’s body. She’s such an unrepentant faghag she unironically signed the petition supporting nambla and proudly states that she supports gay men raping children. She’s a real loser and she calls herself trans because she genuinely wants to be a man. It’s sad
I hope this is a joke lol, imagine believing you're accomplishing something by having a 24/7 hissy fit about men on a gossip forum.
Yeah it makes me happy
 
She’s a real loser and she calls herself trans because she genuinely wants to be a man.
So what are some thoughts about women who troon out to be men?
Are they the ones who are the most self-hating in your eyes? Are they coerced by men into that life? What’s going on with it?

This can be a general question too.
 
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