Yeah, Amber doesn't owe them anything. I'm not even saying Becky does, considering their past (they seem to have gotten to a better place with each other, however). This is why it's good to be independent and have your own, and if you don't, not to be supported by someone who isn't going to treat your loved ones like their own. Becky wouldn't be able to help her own self, unless it also fancied Amber. She's free to spend her money however she pleases, but Becky must ask, like a child. I don't know why anyone would choose to live that way. It's not like she has some loving partner who supports her and provides some financial security, Amber lays claim to everything, even other people's pets, family, and friends, ..let alone money and assets, there is little 'we' when it comes to what she feels is hers. Becky is going to come out of this relationship with a gap in her employment and little else to show for this period in her life.