🐱 Does size matter?

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Is it long enough? Thick enough? Hard enough? Does size matter?

“Why is the size of a penis one of the biggest sexual concerns?” she asks.

“Toxic Masculinity,” she whispers.

We live in a culture that correlates penis size to how masculine a man is and / or his sexual identity.

“AHHH! Patriarchy!” she screams.

So…Wait…DOES SIZE MATTER?


Whether you call it a penis, phallus, lingam, dick, cock, or any other name, we unfortunately live in a reality where everyone seems to be obsessed with penis size!

We see it in advertising, movies, and in dozens of studies that are conducted annually to determine if it is important, both to men and women.

Before debunking the stigma, here are some common phallus questions and answers.



When Does It Stop Growing?
The largest growth spurts occur during male adolescence, and continue until around 20 years old. From this point on, it is common for penis size to remain similar for the rest of a man’s life.

Although the growth of the penis occurs in this period, the rate may vary from one teen to another, and may be faster in some cases than in others.

Why is a Penis Crooked?
Penises can grow slightly from one side or the other, because the urethra does not always accompany the development of the rest of the organ, causing a slight curve.

However, if the curvature produces pain and impedes penetration during intimate contact, it is caused by Peyronie’s disease.

Is it Possible to Increase the Size of a Penis?
The size of the penis varies greatly from one man to another, and from one country to another.

In this way, it is difficult to determine an interval to assess whether the size of the penis can be considered normal.

However, for men who want to increase penis size, there are forms of “treatment” from pumps to creams to losing weight to not smoking.

What is a Normal or Average Penis Size?
In a Journal of Urology study, researchers found the following among the group of 80 men:

  • An average penis size length of 8.8 cm (3.5 inches) when flaccid (soft)
  • An average penis size length of 12.9 cm (5.1 inches) when erect (hard)
  • The size of a man’s erect penis was not correlated with the size of his flaccid penis. This means that men whose penises are different lengths when flaccid may have similarly sized erect penises. There was also no relationship between men’s age and their penis size.
The Journal of Sexual Medicine in 2014 said that out of self-reported summaries:

  • An average erect penile length of 14.15 cm (5.57 inches)
  • An average erect penile circumference of 12.23 cm (4.8 inches). This means the girth, width, or “fullness” around the base of the penis.
How Important Is Size?
The size of the penis is not as important as everyone thinks when it comes to sexually satisfying one’s partner.

Penis size isn’t that critical to sexual pleasure. If you are going to penetrate another person, dildos are much more reliable and you can select the size you want.

The MOMENT you put pressure on the penis to get hard, it’s ALL OVER! You may as well just book an appointment now, because you will get stuck in the anxiety loop.

Regardless of size, what is important to one’s partner is that the penis can stay hard for as long as it needs to. This is why I suggest the use of dildos.

Take the Pressure Off!
If you are performing for a female partner, just know that only 18% of women orgasm through penetrative sex alone. Therefore, make sure you have a lubricant and a vibrator.

Women sometimes take up to 20 minutes to get warmed up so don’t rush them! Your penis being hard isn’t the concern. It is your patience in her getting to experience HER pleasure.

So my answer to the question “Does size matter?” is “eh – not really.”

Size seems to matter most when the penis is too big or too wide. Depending on the time of the month, the cervix is located in different places.

This matters with vaginal penetration because too much length can cause pain while hitting the cervix. There is actually a sexual health device that goes on the base of the penis so that it cannot go in as deep to help fix this problem!

Another issue is when the penis is too wide, there may be an hour of foreplay needed so that other orifices are warmed up and relaxed.

If you were to ask me in my experience “within the therapy room,” when asking clients (women or those who enjoy penetrative sex with penises) to choose between what matters more, 9 out of 10 will choose girth (width/circumference) over length.

Out of all the clients I have seen over the last ten years, only about 5 out of 100 people state that they care about size at all. Usually, 3 of those 5 will be identified as bisexual or gay men.
 
In todays world, there are options for small guys to feel like a 16 inch pornstar if they want to. If it bothers men that much or is that much of a problem in bed, there are options, like sheathes. You can be like the following example and get over the size issue. There is no excuse to becoming one of these small penis humiliation dudes or cuckolds like you see with those on reddit.
For those with those waterbottle+/giganigga sized dicks...short of them finding a size queen, they have it rough. Not like you can shrink your dick or stick something on it to make it a more comfortable size.
 
this is a cope post
Not surprising there's guides on reddit for cuck-sleaves lmao

Anyway posting the definitive guide on what women want:
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Odd, but if ever there's a problem I just wrap my penor in hundred dollar bills and that seems to do the trick.
 
wow how the fuck has nobody TMIed about dick problems yet
 
This is the third time I've seen this subject in A&H.

And once again I will repeat myself: Watch Asian porn. There's no better cure to worrying about your dick size than watching a dude censored by a single pixel perform lewd acts.
 
Women are a fucking train wreck. That whole part of the chromosome that doesn't fall off and allow them to become the superior gender makes a real mess of things.

Not only do you have the greater variety of a second X chromosome making their vagina's work in a million different ways, their weak psychological standing causes child hood trauma to fuck up their sexuality even further.

On top of that, they are dumb, think all women should work the way they do, and if their peers talk about working differently, they assume they are lying, broken, or with a bad man.

So you have girls that can't cum, girls that can only cum from penetration, only clitorally, both of ways, girls cumming from anal, girls from just getting their nipples sucked, girls that need to be beaten, choked, demeaned, etc to get off.

But penis size is the problem.

Completely not absolute but probably close enough rules of the land:

If your packing under average, learn to eat pussy. Most girls can only get off that way, its much rarer that they don't like it, and usually they'll be content with letting you quickly take care of yourself with them afterwards(some are too sensitive after, so be brave, it's not gay if it's your own load)

If your with in an inch, up or down, of average most girls are going to be just fine.

Big dicks come with problems, a lot of girls don't actually like huge dongs. Those that do are probably trying to relive childhood abuse and they are going to come with a million more problems.
 
Let’s be honest, no one here has seen a real life female naked let alone had sex with them, so no, size doesn’t matter.
 
It doesnt matters... You dont get a woman naked by talking about your dicksize. and if she is naked, she doesnt care about size as long as its not tiny...
 
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