Opinion Discovering Values Within Hijab

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By Yanma

There are some people who view hijab as a kind of limitation or even as an oppression for Muslim women. At some point, it indeed looks like limitations. But as a hijabi, I prefer to call it boundaries.

The meaning of hijab isn’t just portrayed by the headscarf that covers Muslim women’s hair; there are also values and boundaries that Islam teaches through the wearing of hijab.

Personally, getting to know hijab and its meaning made me blown away even more by Islam. I was born into a Muslim family, and they are quite religious but not strict. To be honest, at that time I was doing my duty as a Muslim because my parents told me to, so I followed them, and people in my surroundings did it as well.

So, for me, it wasn’t because of the light. Then, there was the beginning of a period in a difficult time when somehow I started to understand more about Islamic values and their relevance in today’s life.

When I was a kid, I heard the commandment to cover the awrah for Muslim women, and the only reason I get for it is about self-protection. However, as I get older, there is a need to convince myself more so that I can get into the light. So, this is what I discovered regarding hijab:

Forms of Protection​

The main function of hijab is as a form of protection. Women are beautiful creatures, but they are easily sexualized by certain types of people. Also, there have been many stories discovered where women experienced violence, either physically or psychologically.

The commandment of wearing hijab only allows women to show their face and palms, so it will prevent women from receiving inappropriate gazes from the opposite sex.

This will keep women from any kind of harassment to any extent. Hijab says, “You don’t need to feel insecure.

Insecurity is the biggest thing that happens to most young women. Especially regarding their physical appearance. Nowadays, we know how bluntly women are demanded to be perfect. Social standards arise and make it worse. Personally, as a woman, I feel it, and so do the women around me.

For a woman, there must be a thought that we will be considered worthy if we look a certain way. Actually, it can bring a lot of burdens that can end up hurting them.

In Surah At-Tin verse 4, we have been reminded that,

Indeed, we created humans in their best form.

We were created in the best form, and there is no need to doubt that because Allah (SWT) already says it in that verse. As a Muslim woman, remembering the preciousness with which Allah has helped me put my focus on the inner aspects is very important.

Hijab comes to this issue not to make women hide their insecurity about their body parts and keep a feeling of shame about it, but to teach women the idea of accepting themselves and being just the way they are. It says that “you don’t need to feel insecure”, because you have been created in the best form.

Leadership Value​

Hijab might look opposite to the idea of how women should look in modern society nowadays. However, Muslim women choose to do so because the hijab has become a symbol of worshipping Allah (SWT) for Muslim women as well.

Furthermore, the dos and don’ts that Islam teaches can help women walk in society. It is because of the boundaries that they know how to control themselves. Living in society and understanding the issues in it makes more sense to me.

The reason women need to get protection emotionally, physically, and mentally is because women play an important role in forming the next generation. If a woman is broken, then the next generation will not develop well and may not even exist.

When women cannot get protection from their surroundings, Allah brings hijab in so that women can also learn about protection itself. What does it feel like in hijab? Metaphorically, hijab became a symbol of how Allah treats women gracefully and respectfully. He bestows crowns on them, like queens and princesses.

Women are special ones that need to be protected. They deserve to feel that way. So, as a hijabi, it feels like a queen or a princess.
 
would you say its also like christianity in the sense that adult converts tend to be the most deranged/prone to fundamentalism? I grew up pretty "strict" catholic in the sense that we went to mass each week, i did the sacraments, and both sides of my family have nuns/priests from a few generations ago. But I feel like whenever I have met an adult catholic convert they are completely insane and unlike any catholics who i knew in church or school brought up in the church.
It could be said so, but what you are talking about is well, the bare minimum of following Catholicism. An example of crazy adult converts of Catholicism is not the type of guy that gets a little too fire and brimstone about other religions, gays, troons, and all of the sort, but a much more insidious group, the groypers. We have a thread about them, look and tremble.


When you are a kid and you go to church you learn about everything from a child's perspective and so as you get older you kind of figure out how to manage the cognitive dissonance of having faith in God but not earnestly believing that jesus necessarily turned water into wine. You can parse the meaning from the literal story is i guess what i mean.
Well, that's...blasphemy. Look, this thread is not for this subject and I'm not good when argumenting a religious position, specially on the internet. But what I can say is that having faith is believing in the impossible, and faith is the core aspect of any and all religion. If one goes "this word actually meant this thing, and this actually was metaphorical, and this other thing was the real deal" as a layman, what one does is making a rash assumption without having even an iota of the context. Theology/religious studies aren't an entire field of humanities/philosophy for no reason.

And the ritualistic nature of mass, the call and response, the low effort group singing, the kneeling, shaking hands, i think all of that is actually very soothing for a lot of people because you can kind of turn your brain off and literally go through the motions and leave feeling good.
How a mass is done or not done is the least important thing of all of them. There's people that are there just for that, but a church is not a place simply to go and feel good. Attending mass just because it makes you feel good is an error, as there are not only places and clubs designed with that as their express purpouse, but because it treats a place and event dedicated to self-reflection in an undignified manner.

I have no idea how an adult not raised in the church can be brought into all that and not feel like they are in a scientology center being told about ancient aliens and told to hold onto that little machine they use.
Why do you think this way? And do you actually know why Scientology has such a bad reputation? There's massive differences between the two, and their only common aspects are that they both have the word "Church" in them, are exempt of paying taxes, and ask you to believe in something that's not readily obvious. If that's the only criteria for finding something as being impossible to believe as an adult, well, there's nothing that can't be part of that category when using the right framing
 
Why do you think this way? And do you actually know why Scientology has such a bad reputation? There's massive differences between the two, and their only common aspects are that they both have the word "Church" in them, are exempt of paying taxes, and ask you to believe in something that's not readily obvious. If that's the only criteria for finding something as being impossible to believe as an adult, well, there's nothing that can't be part of that category when using the right framing
Well this thread probably isnt going anywhere so i guess ill answer your questions here:

Broadly everything I mentioned is purely from my personal experience growing up in the church and encountering people who also grew up catholic. I wasnt referring to the groypers who I dont believe are actually even sincerely practicing catholics but are just disaffected children who need something more concrete than Nick fuentes' presence to justify their participation in the groyper thing. calling yourself "trad catholic" for these people is just a way to feel superior to the rest of a mostly securlar society and pretend that they are morally above having casual sex instead of internally raging about their lack of prospects. Its a very badly acted performance.

Blasphemy or not, this is how a lot of practicing catholics reconcile their faith with the realities of the world and their other intellectual pursuits. If you follow strict catholic doctrine you believe that you have to cleanse yourself of sins before dying in order to go to heaven. Do you know any Catholics who go to confession frequently enough to make that work? Most Christians in the United States believe that the only requirement for getting into heaven is to accept christ as your lord and personal savior. The "leap of faith" required to go to heaven is faith that Christ was the son of God who sacrificed himself for the sins of man. I dont understand your point about leaving it to the experts studying theology. Its not like any of their study has changed Catholic doctrine at all in hundreds of years. And the different interpretations of the bible and the importance of non-biblical doctrine is literally the catalyst for the creation of every non-Catholic sect, starting with Martin Luther.

Are you Catholic? Do you attend mass each week? Honestly you don't seem to really have much experience talking to Catholic people. Catholics love to talk about how great particular priests are at delivering homolies and how much they enjoy listening to charismatic priests who are funny and engaging. I'm telling you what the people I know in the Church have told me they experience and what I experience too. One doesnt attend mass because they have made an error, they do it every week as a necessary sacrament. One cannot live one day without sinning. You presume to know the thoughts and feelings of Catholic people. You speak with authority about how they experience or are expected to experience going to mass but how many Catholics have you even spoken to about this? Again, I can only speak to the honest dicsussion between people who I know who have been raised in the Church. Its like you dont even understand the point of any of this- you dont always do everything the right way or for the right reasons, nor is it expected of you. Priests frequently use their time giving the sermon to talk about the struggle people have to actually focus on thinking about church while they are at church because its a common struggle. And the struggle never ends. Perfection is not expected and confession is where you can talk about these feelings, atone, and then come back the next week and do it again. Why dont you ask your priest if he would turn away someone from mass or scold them if they told him that it makes them feel a sense of comfort to come, that they have faith in christ, but that they are worried about going to heaven if they cant truthfully say that they believe in every detail of the events of the bible. I'd be very surprised if he said "well they're blaspheming god just by thinking about this so id tell them they better cut it out and force themselves to feel like shit for being bad while they sit here or they arent even doing it right". I dont want to get into my personal feelings here about the amount of authority the Church gives individual Priests when it comes to counseling parishoners, but why dont you go to confession with 3 different priests and tell them all about the same sin of the mind that you struggle with regularly. You will get three different responses on how to atone. Which one represents the true will of God?

I'm not saying that Scientoloy is JUST like christianity lol. I made the comparison becuase an educated adult in a modern western country with no exposure to either would find them both ridiculous and fantastical. Thats not to say that conversion is impossible, but there is a reason why churches go abroad to places where people are desperate, poor, and uneducated to save souls. "God is dead" doesn't literally mean nobody believes in God, but rather that the modern world is set up so that the concept of real, all consuming faith in God is not necessary to function and even the devoutly religious know that there is no real earthly price to pay for not believing in God. Theres plenty of easier, more accessible ways for adults in the developed world to soothe their existential angst than to have faith in Christ, which means that the adults who DO decide to buy into it tend to be crazy. This is not a critique of christianity but rather the modern world.

The Catholic Church collected indulgences to purge sins for centuries anyway so maybe you should brush up on your own study of the church because Scientology's pay to play scheme is absolutely derivative of the Catholic system. And the scriptures of the bible are more than just not obvious- its all completely unprovable and happened when the world was comppletely different than it is now. To say that on paper chirsitianity is "more believable" than scientology in concept is ridiculous. The only difference between the two if you have faith is that one is real and the other is not. In fact, if you wanted to get pedantic you could probably argue that due to being a modern invention written in the 70s, Scientology is actually MORE believable than Christianity to a rational person if they were completely unfamiliar with both religions and read only the texts, since it was written for a modern audience. the difficulty for adults to join the church without having it in their life as a child have been a point of consternation for the Catholic church for literally over a century. A secular society makes it much more difficult to indoctrinate and convert adults. This is not my opinion, this is what the Pope says. My experience with adult converts being mostly crazy people supports this fact. My impression is that many tend to lack any interest in spirituality and act like total know it alls about the church dogma that they last learned about, as though their experience of converting and uncritically accepting everything as it is taught to them is how everyone experiences faith. Since they have spent their entire life before converting without having to grapple with their faith and religion as they came of age or figure out how to incorporate it into their understanding of life on earth, converts can sometime come across as being extremely arrogant yet clueless.
 
The way Islam is practiced in SEA is way different from how it is practiced in the ME, primarily because of its isolation from Sunni caliphates and indian sultanates. One could argue that's closer to the way Islam was done around the 12th century, as many of what one associates with Islam in the West are ottoman traditions (which include the crescent moon as a representative for the faith as well, before them, there was no such thing) that got widespread adoption thanks to the fact that the ottoman Sultan was also the Caliph. Couple that with the fact that wahhabism (who were the ones that started the "women wear all-black dresses" and similar other practices), started during the 18th century, was confined to the central areas of the arabian peninsula until WW1, and only became mainstream thanks to saudi oil money, well, they end up very different from what one thinks Islam is
SEA now having issues of the ME throwing a lot of money into it for both business purposes and to spread their Wahhabism nonsense around. PL but currently in SEA for work purposes and seeing more Arabs and SEA Muslims wearing the full black bin bag attire than I remember.
 
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