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When my three-year-old cousin was told, "you're just a little girl,", she said, "No, I'm not, I'm a (First Name)!" LOL
Eh, most trans people I've talked to knew something was "off" since they could remember. I don't think it's something that happens all at once. However, even if that's the case, there's a difference between say, letting a kid cross dress when they're at home (really, kids like to play dress-up anyways, how is that any different?) and putting them on puberty blockers. If the kid wants to play pretend, and have another "identity" at home, whatever. But having them do it medically yet? Fuck that. We don't let people give their kids tattoos, and you can have those removed. At the very least, wait until they're teens to let them start seriously consider transitioning. (I've talked to people who do have trans teens. They say it's pretty rough, even though they DO support them. It must suck to see your kid go through something like that.)
Plus, if I had a kid who was trans, I wouldn't push him or her out into the spotlight. Not out of shame, but because really, would you want to be known as "That Trans Kid"? Even if the kid IS trans, don't force them to be an activist, either -- they can decide that for themselves too.
Thank you for expressing it better, that's what I meant earlier.
I believe that there are early signs, but that doesn't mean you should put your Kids on medication that strong that early. It seems very risky.
(Especially since there are very, very few clinical studies on what meds to to children. Almost all meds I've seen so far state they're not meant to be given to children below 12-14 years. And I'm talking normal stuff like cough syrup here.)