I was on one of the many dying sites she had made when I was rather young. I actually made some friends there that I still know, but the maintenance and staff on the site were incredibly shoddy and nothing ever got done because Dame was the main admin but only came in a few times each year and never made any other staff the admin so they could fix things up. By the time I was friends with some staff, they would mention how Dame had suddenly snapped and was acting completely different, like she would be way more blunt and condescending than usual, which I guess she used to be an okay person, but kept up her cringy bad girl phase and just started avoiding anything to do with her own sites.
I guess it happened to that one linked earlier with the dog anime, and another few where if she wasn't an admin, she was a mod, but I had only heard about the other sites she helped with from someone else and I can't even remember the names.
The staff member would then give me the usual news about Dame's crazy antics, but would try and talk her out of stuff. I think that's when Dame had finally made a Tumblr? She already had the DA and it was enough for me to nope the fuck out of there and not want to ever come in contact with her. On her tumblr one she just kept posting pictures of her sex toys, saying how quirky and silly she was for owning them, how good they felt, what she named them, spamming her wall asking people if she should try some up her butt... it was really weird. Then she got more and more into the whole SJW thing, which I'm assuming made her flare up with the typical insane mentality most of Tumblr encourages.
Basically the small group we were in never liked talking to her anyway because they were afraid of her and never knew how she was going to behave. She had mentioned to a staff member that she wanted to get rid of her virginity and was trying to find a guy to sleep with so she could get it over with, for no reason, and was thinking about the guy who was sexually harassing her at work because he would be an 'easy enough' choice. Then there were rumors she had gotten pregnant just so she could get an abortion, since abortion and her phobia of pregnancy are some of her key topics. Take that with a grain of salt since the person who had been my friend at the time was also a condescending psycho who may have been making it up. Being Dame, I wouldn't doubt it, though.
Dame also had a cat or knew of a cat that would get pregnant every year and have the babies in a tree stump right outside her house, right next to the street. Instead of taking in the cat and kittens or spaying the cat, she just kept commenting with sad faces about how the kittens would die from disease or being run over. I guess that happened for a few years but she never bothered to do anything about it besides use it as a sob story, which angered a staff member. Dame just used the excuse that she didn't have the time or money to take it to the pound or the responsibility of raising it, yet she'd mention it over and over, about the kittens dying or lying in her lawn, dead, just for attention.
Dame also had a phobia that kept her from sleeping properly for at least a year. The phobia was that middle easterners - no exact origin, just dark men in turbans - were going to kidnap her and make her into a sex slave. The worst part about this for her wasn't the rape or being abducted, it was that she would get pregnant over and over and have to take care of the babies. I also think her persona on DA looked incredibly similar to Nick Bate's with the purple top hat, suit, and really long dyed hair? She might've deleted that stuff from DA but when I saw Nick's drawing for the first time it reminded me of hers.
Basically she had always been an extremely angry, bitter and rude person from the start, but I guess she went apeshit after maybe five or so years? I had spoken to her once or twice and she just acted like she wanted nothing to do with me, but I didn't think much of it. I don't have much links or proof to show for these conversations since they were from my old email about five or six years ago, and since the fandom site went schizo itself, I don't want to go back into all that old drama if any of them see this thread to whiteknight her or something.
I dunno if any of this helped, but it might if more stuff gets dug up on her. She's basically been wired wrong for a real long time and I'm not very surprised to see her on here.
