Opinion Consumerism’s ‘final boss’: Diminishing self-worth

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Consumerism’s ‘final boss’: Diminishing self-worth
Daria Romaniuk / Nov 5, 2024

I was scrolling through TikTok the other night, and almost automatically, I came across an advertisement for a random product. After seeing that ad, I decided to count the number of advertisements I encountered during my time on the app.

Honestly, I almost always scrolled past them and mentally put them in the category of “not interested.” But as I kept going, I realized the endless stream of influencer promotions wasn’t just present in my algorithm — it was subtly affecting my thoughts about what I needed, wanted or even deserved.

Each video, with its innovative products and promising endorsements, felt like an invitation to join a lifestyle that would allow me to become a little more like the influencers who seem to have it all. Social media normalizes excessive spending beyond the necessities. Influencers promote sponsored content under the guise of personal recommendations, displaying unboxings that make it all look effortless yet necessary.

The appeal is quick but short-lived, leaving many with regret, mounting credit card debt, piles of impulsive purchases that quickly lose their appeal and the constant stress of keeping up with a culture that never stops consuming.

Hauls, in particular, cultivate a surface-level feeling that a full, happy life is just one shopping spree away. But for some viewers, trying to pursue these trends leads to financial strain. They end up with an endless pile of packages arriving at the door, each one with its own price tag and more interest on a credit card. impulsive

Buying what’s trendy today only to discard it tomorrow — in the hope that the next item will bring satisfaction — can trap people in cycles of spending and debt, constantly reaching but never quite arriving at that elusive feeling of being enough.

The constant pressure to keep up with what’s trending is also an emotional strain. This culture of comparison, where self-worth feels tied to what you own, leaves people dissatisfied and unfulfilled, even with closets full of things. It feeds into a consumer mindset that’s hard to break free from, where the next best thing is just a click away.

As we watch an influencer waving at us with a countless miracle product, it’s worth asking: are we really satisfied, or are we just chasing the high of the next purchase?

And is the price we’re paying in debt, stress and self-worth worth the minutes of excitement about new things? Maybe the most radical thing we can do is stop scrolling, step back and remember that our worth can’t be found in a shopping cart.
 
Damn, bitch. Just log off tik tok. Install an ad blocker. Holy shit.
 
Each video, with its innovative products and promising endorsements, felt like an invitation to join a lifestyle that would allow me to become a little more like the influencers who seem to have it all
Hauls, in particular, cultivate a surface-level feeling that a full, happy life is just one shopping spree away.
I can honestly say that while I've seen things that made me think "hey, that's cool", including many I had no need for and would be silly to spend on, I've never felt that consooming would help "join a lifestyle" or "become like an influencer", or any delusion that "influencers" had it all.

I genuinely feel for women, who seem inherently more susceptible to this kind of neuroticism, and lack a man to say "sweetie you're being ridiculous again, put down the credit card, log off, and let's go outside."
 
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seems like a big hole people are trying to fill with consumerism. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t think many of us are totally immune to advertising, but it must be very bleak to do ‘hauls’ of clothes or makeup, rather than think ‘well I need some new boots, let’s see what’s out there…’
. I’m just pondering which potato varieties to grow this year, and I’m browsing the seed catalogues and I guess that’s advertising too. I just want to grow some potatoes though, rather than live some kind of ‘lifestyle.’
 
. I’m just pondering which potato varieties to grow this year, and I’m browsing the seed catalogues and I guess that’s advertising too. I just want to grow some potatoes though, rather than live some kind of ‘lifestyle.’
Liar. You saw those Adirondack blues trending on potato-tok and thought they would make you seem interesting. We all know it.
 
Adirondack blues
*makes note to check of compatible with climate * yeah guilty as charged, nothing sexier than a spud.
I think a lot of this is a generational thing as well. I can’t bear TV or TikTok sort of stuff, it feels like being hit over the head with LOUD BRIGHT STIMULUS. My parents generation are still in the mindset that the one whatever they had for twenty years is just fine and frankly so am I. If I need a new whatever I will go look for one. I guess that opens you up to advertising too, but at least it’s need driven rather than want driven.
I have had people aghast that my winter jacket is twelve years old, I’m not sure why, it’s a classic style, doesn’t look outdated and is in good nick. I think some of it is also control. Having the latest gadget signals that you are part of a tribe/group/social caste that can afford the Thing. Being unbothered about The Thing means they don’t quite know where to put you which pits you in the box of potential threat, and potential threats are to be neutralised.
Women exert social control and compliance by this kind of group pressure policing. And when it’s done well you can see how it works - if it’s to hold people to standards. Shaming someone who lets their kids go to school unwashed in filthy clothes for example. It’s another one of these formerly useful instinct/hardwired behaviours that’s been hijacked to profit people
 
Its like reading a story about a boomer going broke buying shit from commercials and those shopping channels from like 40 or 30 years ago

Consumerism never changes
 
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