If you're asking me, a good way to think of it is the cinema. I want to watch the film. Not deal with 6 year olds sprinting up and down throwing popcorn and maltesers everywhere, or teenagers scumbags who spend the film on their phone narrating the movie. I'm not even super autistic about it like some, but a little common sense would be nice.
This isn't even a unique idea. My local cinema used to have "seniors only" screenings of films, and I think the "family" screenings were intended for people with kids, but there's no equivalent for those between 18-65. No kind of "no phones, no kids, and no one coughing up a lung" screenings.
But like you say, the consoomers don't get this. It's like with Palworld. For years adult Pokemon fans have been demanding a darker, more grown up Pokemon game. When someone finally makes an unofficial one, it's a big hit, but then the Pokemon fanbase went mental, even mass reporting the game to Nintendo to try and get them sued. To go back to cinema, they'd want a adults screening to be just another place they can drink, smoke, and talk about sports, thereby defeating the thing I want which is to watch the film.