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I think that's really unfair. They're just portrayed realistically. They clearly love their son and try their best to deal with his outlandish behaviour.Also, does anyone else think that Calvin's parents are kind of shit? They have next to no interactions with him except to yell at him to get up, eat dinner, do your homework, or go to bed. He's six, play with your goddamn kid! He acts out because he wants attention, and he learned that causing chaos is how to get it. I don't buy the ADHD diagnosis.
I think it's best summed up with that comic where it's snowing outside and Calvin goes to his dad but he's working. Initially he tells him he can't play (as you would), but ultimately dad decides that playing is more important in the moment and goes to build a snowman with him, catching up on the work later. (and it's a beautifully done strip with no dialogue, all conveyed through the expressions - one of my favourite strips).
As a parent, I can tell you that's not what a "shit" parent would do. Of course Watterson could have written them to be perfect parents, but the comic is so much better because the parents are portrayed as imperfect, with flaws, but trying their best. It makes it feel a lot more real.
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Also, their grounded portrayal makes moments like that - where their love for Calvin shines through - feel more genuine and "earned". Of course a lot of the time they're annoyed by him, exasperated, irritated, or just too busy to deal with him. That's normal, that's life. But every now and them there will be a moment that makes it clear that they love the little bugger really.
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