The way AGPs claim that their paraphilia isn't only about sex but has a romantic/companionship component makes it more disturbing because that's what extreme paraphiliacs do. Many pedophiles/zoophiles use the same excuse and say that they truly love children/animals, which is why they should be allowed to rape them. When a fetish is so deeply ingrained that it affects a person's sense of romance and companionship, it's a very bad sign.
The troons in the clip keep mixing up "autosexuality" (a tiny amount of which could be seen as normal) with "autogynephilia" (a fetish that destroys people's lives). If a 15 year old girl has a romantic/sexual fantasy, in which she is herself, that's normal. If a 50 year old man has a sexual fantasy in which he is a 15 year old girl, he should see a psychiatrist. If a man likes fuck in front of a mirror, that's autosexuality and only slightly weird. If a man puts on women's clothes and jerks off in front of a mirror, that's AGP. The difference is that in the former case, the arousal is directed at the act of oneself having sex with another person, and in the latter it's directed at the idea of being a woman. One of the troons also claims that women having sex for validation is AGP. In reality it's unhealthy and a sign of low self-esteem and grooming (which can make people base their self-worth on how attractive they are), but not AGP.
In a way they're living proof that the classic HSTS/AGP typology is wrong though, since they're four classic early transition "HSTS" trannies who nevertheless have elements of AGP. IMO it's impossible to put trannies into boxes like this in 2024 2025, because early porn exposure, trauma and grooming complicate things.