Remember, John is also currently using a nearly decade-old photo for his profile pic, so the forward face he's presenting to the world is that of him in his mid-30s, and one that didn't even portray him accurately then. It's taken from far away, much of John's body is hidden behind the motorcycle, and he's angled his head and worn giant sunglasses in an attempt to hide the masculine features of his face. He also rarely posts any recent photos, so a casual observer would have that and little else to go on.
Here are some more "professional" photos from around that time, and John doesn't look any more "wonderful" in these either (and Amanda Warner apparently can't take a photo with her eyes open, lending credence to my theory that John stuffed her corpse and used her as a prop):
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And then there's this classic, which...well, I'll spoiler it so as not to make casual scrollers ill:
Finally, another one from the motorcycle shoot, and...hey, what's that?
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ENHANCE!
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A very womanly Adam's apple.