Border-Line Personality Disorder

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If BPD is so scary and should be off society, why don’t they allow people to kill themselves? I never understood it tbh, seems far more humane than to let a dead person time bomb tick and god forbid- raise a family. Btw I have BPD so don’t think I’m trying to mess with people’s feelings here. I’m genuinely asking
 
If BPD is so scary and should be off society, why don’t they allow people to kill themselves? I never understood it tbh, seems far more humane than to let a dead person time bomb tick and god forbid- raise a family. Btw I have BPD so don’t think I’m trying to mess with people’s feelings here. I’m genuinely asking
BPDs don't actually kill themselves, they just threaten to. It's a Cluster B disorder for a reason, and that reason is attention-seeking behavior. They should be allowed to be euthanized, not MAIDed.
 
BPDs don't actually kill themselves, they just threaten to. It's a Cluster B disorder for a reason, and that reason is attention-seeking behavior. They should be allowed to be euthanized, not MAIDed.
? What’s maid? Sorry. And yes, I was talking about euthanasia. I will kill myself in the painless way possible. The whole point is stopping the pain.
I honestly understand why you think most of suicidal ideation is for the attention, but for many people like me the worst thing is people finding out. I have friends who died in a painful manner on a sudden moment, not leaving any signs, or anything, and I don’t think anyone deserves to go in pain like that, not even a cluster B-itch like me (heh)

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? What’s maid? Sorry. And yes, I was talking about euthanasia. I will kill myself in the painless way possible. The whole point is stopping the pain.
I honestly understand why you think most of suicidal ideation is for the attention, but for many people like me the worst thing is people finding out. I have friends who died in a painful manner on a sudden moment, not leaving any signs, or anything, and I don’t think anyone deserves to go in pain like that, not even a cluster B-itch like me (heh)

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MAID is medical assistance in dying, which is where people who have poor quality of life, and poor prognosis (how their illness will progress and how treatable they are), are able to approach healthcare workers to legally end their lives. It's a contentious issue for a number of reasons, and the collective ethics outside of terminal illness are yet to be decided. MAID is often reserved for people with diseases like multiple sclerosis (MS), stage 4 cancers, Huntingtons disease, and other illnesses that will only continue to cause increased pain and suffering, and loss of dignity, as the disease progresses towards its inevitably fatal ending.

In recent years there have been cases of young adults and other individuals recieving MAID for mental health conditions. For example, a young female fought for her right to end her life because she had suffered with lifelong untreatable depression. She was 29 and was supplied with posion and allowed to lie down comfortably, and die. Her name was Noa Pothoven, if you want to read more about her case, and learn how and why MAID was applied to her situation.

MAID will likely never be provided routinely to individuals with BPD, as the features of BPD make providing MAID ethically and in good conscience nigh on impossible. Firstly, affective instability (mood swings) causes the person with BPD to experience often overpowering emotional states, and that translates into impulsive behaviour. Secondly, when a person with BPD has low quality of life, this often stems from a mix of childhood adverse events, and remaining in an environment that either enables or triggers problem behaviours associated with BPD. Furthermore, the common presentation of individuals with BPD also carrying a dual diagnosis of substance misuse disorder, confounds attempts to establish any meaningful picture of their psyche, due to the impact of illicit drugs on their BPD symptoms.

Without even thinking of all of that, the greatest barrier denying BPD patients to ending their lives through a medical clinic, is the fact that BPD is treatable. Treatability is roughly understood by measuring a willingness to make mistakes, learn and apply new skills, accept a life of sobriety, and be stable enough to undergo a period of distress and change. Compared to more debilitating illness, such as bipolar or schizophrenia, BPD people are far more in control of their quality of life, are more often that not capable of finding some happiness or quality of life, and when willing and able, can transition through good help into a life they prefer to live over choosing a life of self destructive behaviour. In essence, BPD isnt consistently severe enough to warrant the ending of a life of someone with BPD. It neglects the potential for an individual with BPD to have a life worth living.
 
BPDs don't actually kill themselves, they just threaten to. It's a Cluster B disorder for a reason, and that reason is attention-seeking behavior. They should be allowed to be euthanized, not MAIDed.
This sounds about right for just about every BPD case I've witnessed over the years.

If they try, it's usually a half hearted attempt to incite guilt in others.
 
People with so called "BPD" are superior cuz we have adapted to extreme environments, if you never had the need to twist your psyche into hell configurations then you are boring and weak. Amen.
 
People with so called "BPD" are superior cuz we have adapted to extreme environments, if you never had the need to twist your psyche into hell configurations then you are boring and weak. Amen.
Come back and tell us that when you've finally succeeded in holding down a job for longer than a fortnight.
 
I came to this thread to read crazy stories about BPD women not expecting it to be funny but expecting it to be interesting. Instead I got a bunch of people power-leveling.

NGL I find it quite amusing. This thread is just filled with it.

Why do people go and tell people so much personal information about themselves on the internet?
 
People with so called "BPD" are superior cuz we have adapted to extreme environments, if you never had the need to twist your psyche into hell configurations then you are boring and weak. Amen.
Come back and tell us that when you've finally succeeded in holding down a job for longer than a fortnight.
Using maintaining a dumb job as a parameter for success in life is so normie bitch, I experience more intensity in one day than what you will feel in your entire life, that has its polarity and for weaklings like you it would be deadly, your eyes remained closed to the beautiful horror, you can't un-see the underlying horror of existence because it's real, you can't escape the heightened awareness that living alert for so long gives you. Keep sleeping normie.
Why do people go and tell people so much personal information about themselves on the internet?
Because it's fun
 
Using maintaining a dumb job as a parameter for success in life is so normie bitch, I experience more intensity in one day than what you will feel in your entire life, that has its polarity and for weaklings like you it would be deadly, your eyes remained closed to the beautiful horror, you can't un-see the underlying horror of existence because it's real, you can't escape the heightened awareness that living alert for so long gives you. Keep sleeping normie.
Enjoy eating out of garbage bins when your pimp gets jack of feeding your used up arse.
 
edit: I’m a fucking boomer , fuck
NGL I find it quite amusing. This thread is just filled with it.

Why do people go and tell people so much personal information about themselves on the internet?
why not? I am not working for / with you, no relationship- I have no shame with who I am because I didn’t choose it. I’m just able to control my behavior, which is something a lot of people can’t do with their neurotypical normy brain any way…
 
BPD and Borderline, avoid it like AIDs.

Hm, I may got A-paranoid and C-avoidant, which does explain why I love yangire type yanderes.

Which aren't bpd as sometimes claimed, as they are utterly predicatable, but more paranoid psycho stalkers. Even I can't deal with a BPDs moodswings. The unpredictability is what makes BPD so bad.

All the true crime I listen to at work tells me that bpd is basically a recipe for disaster a ticking bomb.
 
The people who suffer from it seem truly sad and pathetic. They are very lonely and they don't really have a "sense of self" to fall back on if they are rejected by other people. They have little to no developed sense of identity. In order to feel "whole" or even human they tend to latch onto other people. If they are rejected, they react with terrible anger and hatred.
I rank BPD as being in the same kind of category as Biploar Disorder: in the highest highs the patients can accomplish a lot, but the lows are also very low.

Some people, those with BPD especially, are almost as water in a container: they assume the shape of the people around them. If they lose a person they were relying on, they lose a piece of themselves, because they have no idea who they are without other people to define them. This is why BPD patients will try so hard to maintain relationships that may not even be good for them.

A little bit of this can be good. It's good to have a little anxiety to please your friends, so that those relationships stay current. It's good to be a little pissed off at your ex, because that stops you from going back to them. A little bit of changing yourself to match those around you can be helpful if it helps you fit in. It's good to have a slightly idealized mental image of the people you love, so when they fuck up you can forgive them.

Every psychiatric disease is basically an adaptation that's gone beyond the point of being helpful IMO. BPD is sad though because I don't think there's much for it. Your whole personality is fucked, what's to do about that? DBT? Yeah, sure, whatever...
 
BPD people should be treated exactly as pedophiles are for very similar reasons. The only cure really, honestly is death. They will destroy lives. It's basically medicalizing evil people.
 
That's one of the things I'm diagnosed with lol. It's basically spicy PTSD
 
BPDs are the superior partners and if you're a little ho too afraid of being stabbed in your sleep to fuck with them you're missing out on true unbridled love at a level you don't even comprehend, and settling for some muted washed-out "yeah we like each other I guess" level of domestic cohabitation.
 
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