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- Apr 23, 2014
As far as I've seen personally Asian parents come in two flavors. The "Are you doctor yet?" which involves relentless studies and micro management of the child's life even well into adulthood and the we don't care because we're cripplingly addicted to gambling kind.I'm sure he was always going to end up being a fucked up piece of shit no matter how he was raised, because a person like this is just fucked up in the brain. But I still stand by my statement that his parents are at least partly responsible for raising him like shit.
Your son is talking shit on the internet in a way that puts him and your entire family in danger, and you let him keep posting shit? You don't take his computer away? You don't make him apologize or punish him at all? You don't tell him "If you wanna be a free speech martyr, you can do that when you're 18 at your own damn house." ?
Your son decides he wants to drop out of Highschool and you let him? He's a minor and doesn't have a choice, he doesn't "decide" anything at that age, and as long as he's living under your roof and you're the one feeding and clothing him, you can always tell him to get his narrow ass to school or stay home and face some hell.
It's no wonder he openly, smugly proclaims his crimes and then acts shocked when he gets arrested or has his ass beat. His shitty parents taught him there'd never be any accountability or consequences for anything he does.
The second isn't completely neglectful so much as they're way too hands off and the kid can just do what they want.