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beautiful, it just needs a poop bun
I love when she does these, just reading the questions is quality entertainment
(don't bother watching her actual video)
View attachment 621745 Sure, here's the updated image.
She lives in cognitive dissonance at this point, she could choose to recover but her body is so wrecked at a young age it is irreparable her knees must be fucked.
I love when she pretends to have discriminating tastes.
I beg to differ on shit hand in life.
We don't even know how true her background is, but she was given -every- chance and then some by the system. She actively decided to get to this size, she actively picked to not take advantage of programs to help her.
In America, those who supposedly got the shit hand at birth, often can get the most help. She easily could have been saving the lunch money she got, but she was already cramming two meals into her mouth. She could have gotten scholarships etc, decided to become a deathfat for yt shekels.
Hamber managed to drop out of college, and I suspect it was because it took to much time vs eating 24/7. Her wake up call to change her life will be that brief moment of clarity when her heart stops and then it's over. She'll never take the road that leads to being healthier, because it requires work and to break an addiction she won't even acknowledge.
Gives her no right to harm people and animals. And from what we know she had one of the best experiences in foster care..fuck her. I give her no room or sympathy.Because in America we have such a bootstraps mentality, which has up sides and down sides, it’s easy to think that people like Amberlynn should be doing far better than she is. Some people rise above terrible childhoods as adults. But for every person who does, there are many more who don’t. Every success story makes us think that if person 1 managed to overcome a bad upbringing, then people 2–10 should be able as well when really we should accept that success in this regard is the exception that proves the rule.
AL was removed from her home for years and aged out of the foster care system. She had a lot of resources available to her but much of those resources were spent to undo the harm done to her before the state took over. Only extraordinary cases of abuse and neglect result in such removals and no other family members stepped in. So we don’t really have to know the details - her time in foster care shows horrible shit went down at the hands of her parents.
AL stalled out at a young age - she gorges and shops because that is how she soothes herself because no one took the time to raise her during the time when most kids move on from feeling the only form of control or comfort they have comes from food. To think that such a human being would have been capable of having the planning skills necessary to save extra lunch money in grade school rather than cram it down her mouth in the form of generally gross school lunches is really optimistic. She was a kid. She’s chosen to remain infantile as an adult but she’s in good company. The vast majority of people who are raised in foster care after being taken from their druggie parents end up like AL. All that differs is where they got stunted in their development and their maladaptive coping mechanisms. And I would wager none of them had the home training prior to being wards of the state to know how to save money and how to care for themselves in a positive way.
It’s one thing to expect her to grow up and save her own life now, though she s still stalled out. It’s something else to genuinely think that she would have flourished so well in foster care after a childhood of at least severe neglect that she should have saved her extra lunch money against a future rainy day.
We can agree to disagree that she is retarded.Because in America we have such a bootstraps mentality, which has up sides and down sides, it’s easy to think that people like Amberlynn should be doing far better than she is. Some people rise above terrible childhoods as adults. But for every person who does, there are many more who don’t. Every success story makes us think that if person 1 managed to overcome a bad upbringing, then people 2–10 should be able as well when really we should accept that success in this regard is the exception that proves the rule.
AL was removed from her home for years and aged out of the foster care system. She had a lot of resources available to her but much of those resources were spent to undo the harm done to her before the state took over. Only extraordinary cases of abuse and neglect result in such removals and no other family members stepped in. So we don’t really have to know the details - her time in foster care shows horrible shit went down at the hands of her parents.
AL stalled out at a young age - she gorges and shops because that is how she soothes herself because no one took the time to raise her during the time when most kids move on from feeling the only form of control or comfort they have comes from food. To think that such a human being would have been capable of having the planning skills necessary to save extra lunch money in grade school rather than cram it down her mouth in the form of generally gross school lunches is really optimistic. She was a kid. She’s chosen to remain infantile as an adult but she’s in good company. The vast majority of people who are raised in foster care after being taken from their druggie parents end up like AL. All that differs is where they got stunted in their development and their maladaptive coping mechanisms. And I would wager none of them had the home training prior to being wards of the state to know how to save money and how to care for themselves in a positive way.
It’s one thing to expect her to grow up and save her own life now, though she s still stalled out. It’s something else to genuinely think that she would have flourished so well in foster care after a childhood of at least severe neglect that she should have saved her extra lunch money against a future rainy day.
While you're right about people in general, I think most of us have little or no sympathy for her because of her decisions now as an adult. She supposedly has plenty of money, has all the time in the world, has a girlfriend that's along for the ride and willing to do apparently whatever Amber wants, she acknowledges several serious issues and has been told/warned about several others... And she does nothing but shit on people.Because in America we have such a bootstraps mentality, which has up sides and down sides, it’s easy to think that people like Amberlynn should be doing far better than she is. Some people rise above terrible childhoods as adults. But for every person who does, there are many more who don’t. Every success story makes us think that if person 1 managed to overcome a bad upbringing, then people 2–10 should be able as well when really we should accept that success in this regard is the exception that proves the rule.
AL was removed from her home for years and aged out of the foster care system. She had a lot of resources available to her but much of those resources were spent to undo the harm done to her before the state took over. Only extraordinary cases of abuse and neglect result in such removals and no other family members stepped in. So we don’t really have to know the details - her time in foster care shows horrible shit went down at the hands of her parents.
AL stalled out at a young age - she gorges and shops because that is how she soothes herself because no one took the time to raise her during the time when most kids move on from feeling the only form of control or comfort they have comes from food. To think that such a human being would have been capable of having the planning skills necessary to save extra lunch money in grade school rather than cram it down her mouth in the form of generally gross school lunches is really optimistic. She was a kid. She’s chosen to remain infantile as an adult but she’s in good company. The vast majority of people who are raised in foster care after being taken from their druggie parents end up like AL. All that differs is where they got stunted in their development and their maladaptive coping mechanisms. And I would wager none of them had the home training prior to being wards of the state to know how to save money and how to care for themselves in a positive way.
It’s one thing to expect her to grow up and save her own life now, though she s still stalled out. It’s something else to genuinely think that she would have flourished so well in foster care after a childhood of at least severe neglect that she should have saved her extra lunch money against a future rainy day.
Of course it doesn't give her that right but I wasn't talking about her being a shit girlfriend or a shit pet owner. I was discussing how it may be somewhat irrational to have expected AL to have immediately recovered enough in foster care to have the presence of mind and capability of saving money or taking full advantage of resources made available to her.Gives her no right to harm people and animals. And from what we know she had one of the best experiences in foster care..fuck her. I give her no room or sympathy.
My comment was not an exoneration of who she is now. We can all agree her life is a shit show and she has some resources now to correct it. But do you really think that it's absurdly common to be born to two addicts who have both gone to prison at some point, suffer neglect or abuse so badly you are removed from the home permanently, with none of your extended family willing or able to take care of you? Mental illness, abuse and addiction themselves may be common but Amber's specific set of circumstances are not common. They were pretty extreme and even the brightest, most self-aware person will have trouble having a normal life, even with therapy, after such an upbringing.While you're right about people in general, I think most of us have little or no sympathy for her because of her decisions now as an adult. She supposedly has plenty of money, has all the time in the world, has a girlfriend that's along for the ride and willing to do apparently whatever Amber wants, she acknowledges several serious issues and has been told/warned about several others... And she does nothing but shit on people.
It's one thing if you don't know you have problems, or you know but you can't afford help. Neither of those apply to her. She could at least try to improve her life but she'd rather cling to being a victim. That's why I can't stand her.
We all have problems, y'know? A lot of us probably dealt with abuse or addiction or mental illness. They're all absurdly common. Most people, in my experience, at least make an effort to have a better life as adults.
It’s been almost a year since I found this land whale.
She has fallen so low this year:
1) she was walking so say 8,000 steps, and now she can’t even stand for 2 minutes.