I'm listening to the Becky video. I have mixed feelings. First, Amber deserves to have every past girlfriend call her out and have her lies and evil behavior thrust into the light.
Becky says Amber didn't give her any money for the livestreams because Faline didn't like it. Amber did end up giving Becky $100 for a UHaul, which covered its costs for a single day. Becky was struggling to get everything packed and ready within one day and was crying because she didn't have any money for one more day. Amber laughed at her about how little money she had.
Becky also describes Amber using her money against Becky as a control tactic and how much Becky took care of Amber. After Becky injured her back, Amber told Becky to quit her job because it would be so much better for her health, so Becky did. After Becky was healed and wanted to go back to work, Amber told her, "Well, I need you here [at home] with me. I need you to take care me and the animals."
Whenever Becky saved up the little change she got, Amber would ask, "Is that the funds you're saving for when you leave me?"
Becky said whenever she went to visit her family, Amber would stay at home and time her. If Becky wasn't back before the timer ran out, she would fight with Becky about it for the rest of the night. The next time Becky wanted to leave to see anyone else, Amber would guilt trip Becky and say things like "You don't care as much about
me as you do other people."
I'm vibing with her spilling little details about what an Empath Queen Amber is, while threatening Amber to spill worse things. "I will no longer stay silent if you try to say lies about me." "I have so many gross things I've seen you do, both to me and to people in my life I've kept quiet about because those things are embarrassing or have something to do with very personal matters. Despite how you've treated me, I still have empathy. However, if you want to lie about me, I won't hold back. I'll be brutally honest about things I know about you."
I vibe with that. I thought Becky was finally getting a spine when it came to Amber and thought "good for her."
I got annoyed when Becky brought up the GoFundMe for her car saying she used every cent of the $2,000+ mostly for the car and only "a little bit of money for things like bills" except the $12 that Amber demanded for Netflix. I was there when it all went down. I was in the Becky discord with Rafe. I read all of Becky's explanations on her own Instagram account as she mocked people who were angry that she only spent $250 on the car and the rest of the $2,000 on vague 'bills.'
Before: $250 went to the car, $12 to Netflix, and the other $1700+ to unexplained 'bills' that she heavily hinted went to Amber
Now: Most of the money went to the car, $12 to Netflix, and a "small amount left" on bills.
People were in an uproar saying things like "I didn't send you money to fix your car just so you could immediately give it to Amber!" I remember Becky panic explaining on Instagram how she had pre-planned spending only $150-$200 for car repairs because she knew someone (I forgot if it was a family member or friend but it was a guy) who was a car mechanic of somesort and he'd be able to fix it up for one or two hundred dollars. So that made it okay.
She complained she'd need more money because whatever he did didn't totally fix the car, the car was worse off than expected, and she was on the verge of losing her job if she didn't have a working car. To make matters worse, she attached her CashApp everywhere on IG. People on Instagram, the subreddits, etc were giving alternatives for her situation instead of mooching, like how she could get a job at the Walmart or fast food restaurants that were within walking distance. People even attached Google Maps of her location and all the places she could work without a car. People suggested if Becky got a bicycle or just walked she could at least exercise some of the lard off.
I have mixed feelings. On one hand, I'm here for Becky dropping Amber tea, no matter how cold. But I'm also not surprised when Becky drops lies of her own because she's too lazy to remember the lies she told in the past, and using the cheap victimization manipulation tactics while staying in a perpetual state of self-inflicted helpless delusion.
Edit: Becky ends the video talking about her area getting a big snowstorm, having to go in for surgery, testing positive for Covid, her car crashing and her insurance not covering rentals, not being able to go into work as often so is struggling financially, all this happening recently so don't you want to give more money? She talks about her anxiety about not being able to go into work, worried about getting fired from her job, and not having a car. She points out her Cashapp link is in the description.
Edit2: After checking for receipts before I head out the door, I noticed Becky had originally claimed to have spent $250 of the $2,000+ on the car. I originally said $200 instead of $250.
