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🍗 Deathfat Amberlynn Reid - 600 pound pathological liar and U-Haul lesbian moving in with her next live-in maid/nurse/girlfriend.
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Citron
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In my opinion our gorl is a clear-cut case of histrionic PD. People with this PD are all about getting attention, positive or negative. For example a borderline like Foodie gets extremely upset at negative feedback; they can't handle criticism. Histrionics are happy to get any attention at all, hence why Amber has had an open comment section for years, filled with endless negative comments, yet she's not bothered by it. Sometimes she'll make a video about all the terrible "hate" she's receiving, yet it's clear from her body language that she's not upset about it at all and is simply using these complaints as a means to get even more attention from well-meaning viewers that don't yet understand her pattern. Histrionics use their body to get attention, usually in a seductive manner, but Amber has gone the other way and is using an extremely morbidly obese body as the means to get that attention. People with this PD are overly theatrical and dramatic in the way they express themselves, displaying rapidly-shifting and shallow emotions that are perceived by others as insincere, and they use language in an overly dramatic and imprecise manner. This is in line with the strange way with which Amber uses vocabulary, making up words and pronunciations at times. Histrionics desperately latch onto relationships and rely on their partner to do tasks for them that they would be fully capable of doing on their own. They perceive their relationships to be more intimate than they actually are, and are overly suggestible. They're cognitively flighty and continuously use distraction to avoid introspective thought because coming face-to-face with their internal lack of identity and depth perturbs them, and as a result of this avoidance of thought they don't develop a richer internal world nor a more sophisticated way of interacting with partners beyond mere attention-seeking. Even the endless diagnoses that she happily claims she suffers from ultimately insert themselves into the histrionic pattern of attention-seeking; they're not real. She has one true diagnosis, this one. Even if she complains of subclinical mood issues, for example depression or anxiety at having to be alone i.e. having to face the emptiness of her being, they flow from that initial diagnosis.
A lot of therapists and psychologists are not very good at their job at all. They're not perceptive. It's possible that so far in her life Amber has only met these middling therapists. From what we've seen she typically doesn't stay with a particular one very long so it's possible the therapists that could have figured it out eventually aren't given enough time with her to piece it together. It seems unlikely that she was diagnosed with all the things she claims she was diagnosed with, though, that could be Doctor Google. Ultimately it seems like she's willing to fess up to any and all diagnoses except the one she actually has.
A lot of therapists and psychologists are not very good at their job at all. They're not perceptive. It's possible that so far in her life Amber has only met these middling therapists. From what we've seen she typically doesn't stay with a particular one very long so it's possible the therapists that could have figured it out eventually aren't given enough time with her to piece it together. It seems unlikely that she was diagnosed with all the things she claims she was diagnosed with, though, that could be Doctor Google. Ultimately it seems like she's willing to fess up to any and all diagnoses except the one she actually has.
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In Amber's "The Truth About the 89lbs" (or whatever that vlog was called), Amber hinted that her dieting was causing her to engage in anorexic behaviour (without actually using the word anorexia). She talked about cutting up her food into 'teeny-tiny pieces' and even thought about/"tried" throwing up (once), but couldn't do it. Oh yeah, and Amber heavily restricted herself to only eating about 700 calories per day ... on the weekdays. She admitted to eating a lot more on the weekends (and for her to have lost 89lbs in 7 months as she claimed to have, 'a lot more' would have been about 10,000 calories every weekend when you do the math). So yeah, at the very least, "anorexic behaviour" (in quotes) could be placed on the list.
@Skinless Nugget:
Amber's also hinted at night terrors without using that specific term (which sounded more like sleep apnea, but Amber has insisted that they were DEFINITELY from TRAUMA). It was the reason why she said she couldn't sleep alone; she'd get night terrors about having her rain-petals eaves-dropped. These complaints were separate from her complaints of dream elements bleeding into her waking vision, so it probably deserves it's own line on the picture.
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I don't know. I mean, these are excellent examples of why she would fit into HPD... but it's hard to ignore the "splitting" and rapidly shifting and unstable emotions, as well as the complete lack of self which are also pretty strong indicators of BPD. She also shows enough of the NPD traits to be classified as that as well:
- grandiose sense of self-importance
- preoccupation with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love (and she expresses all of these).
- need for excessive admiration
- sense of entitlement
- interpersonally exploitive behaviour
- lack of empathy
- envy of others or belief that others are envious of them
- demonstration of arrogant and haughty behaviours or attitudes
- recklessness and impulsivity (not nearly as bad as the average ASPD individual, but I don't know if that's because she's a less reckless person, or because she's too dependant on others to be as reckless as your average ASPD).
- chronic boredom
- difficultly understanding the mental state of others
- difficultly understanding how others are affected by her actions
I think when thinking about Amber, we need to kinda view her "mentulz" (personality) like a giant shit you find in your front garden. Sure, you could dig through the shit to try and find partly digested items, or analyze it's size and pile formation to try and determine what dog left it. Was it a St Bernard? A Malamute? A Great Dane? A giant raccoon that took a dump 3 times larger than normal because it got into the spicy indian takeout from your trashbin? But in the end... it's just a giant, steaming, stinking, disgusting pile of shit, and you'd treat it the same way you'd treat any giant pile of shit. Ya know?
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What she's never had...
Common Sense.
Accountability.
Brains.
Common Sense.
Accountability.
Brains.
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* Tact
* Discretion
* Street Smarts
* Appropriate Emotional Intelligence/Maturity
* Restraint
* Delayed Gratification
* Sex
Witch Bitch
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Dont forget violennnnnt (on any level they can be), playing the victim, and They also love taking their meds just long enough to fuck their brain chemistry more then never finish. Sounds like amber<3
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A lot of therapists and psychologists are not very good at their job at all. They're not perceptive. It's possible that so far in her life Amber has only met these middling therapists.
Are you saying that the best and brightest in the field aren’t setting up shop in a mall in Somerset, Kentucky? Whuuutt??
Are you saying that the best and brightest in the field aren’t setting up shop in a mall in Somerset, Kentucky? Whuuutt??
dfranki723
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I think the rapid change in moods and unstable emotions she displays should be taken with a grain of salt. She's a bad actress, she likes to act out her ''manic'' phases, her ''depressive'' phases, her ''angry fuck the haydurz and world'' phases.
I believe the biggest indicator of her wild emotions being an act is the voicemails left to Norma. Nobody who struggles with regulating emotions would speak in such a calm and emotionless manner when angry or upset with someone, especially considering we know how deeply offended Fat Hamber was by Norma's supposed lack of fucking gratitude. That was the ''in private'' Amber, the real Amber and I bet that's how she exists every hour of the day, we just don't get to see it.
The only believable emotion I've seen from her is anger. The rest of it just looks to be part of her ''I'm troubled uwu'' act. Even her happy moments are awfully inauthentic.
I believe the biggest indicator of her wild emotions being an act is the voicemails left to Norma. Nobody who struggles with regulating emotions would speak in such a calm and emotionless manner when angry or upset with someone, especially considering we know how deeply offended Fat Hamber was by Norma's supposed lack of fucking gratitude. That was the ''in private'' Amber, the real Amber and I bet that's how she exists every hour of the day, we just don't get to see it.
The only believable emotion I've seen from her is anger. The rest of it just looks to be part of her ''I'm troubled uwu'' act. Even her happy moments are awfully inauthentic.
Turd Fergusson
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I am with you as far as her emotions. We never see her being "real". Amber is always acting for the camera to suit her narrative. She has been separated from Jade likely before July. My guess is that it happened in May, just after she quit having bariatric surgery, and she is still moping along saying that she misses her so much. She is really not missing her, she misses the convenience of having a carer driving her around, cleaning, etc. Her saying that she wanted to marry her is disingenuous; Jade told her that they were not getting married. Living with Amber for a few months, I bet Jade realised how a nut-case Amber is.
Amber is conscious that the mood swing is for the viewers. She might be raging like Chantal, but we will never see it on her channel. Amber, like Chantal, is not interested in getting better. She likes the way she is and would not have it any other way. The only thing that irks her is that she has not found another carer yet.
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Mentioning how useless therapists probably are to Amber has nothing to do with the quality or quantity available, it has everything to do with how personality disorders work.
A bit of PL, having the unfortunate experience of being married to, and subsequently leaving a true NPD, I don’t believe they’re capable of really changing. My ex has been with therapists, life coaches, etc for years and has a whole community of “enlightened” idiots that buy into his every word. To a true narcissist, therapists and the like aren’t a tool to fix their obvious inability to maintain healthy relationships, they’re an audience. Talking about themselves endlessly is one of their favorite pastimes. Having a therapist or psychologist that is there to do nothing but focus on you is an ego trip, until it isn’t, then they find a new one. Exactly how every other relationship they have goes. She fits this pattern exactly. Even the endless collection of diagnosis is just another way to manipulate.
She won’t ever find the “right” therapist, just like she won’t ever find a real partner.
Imo Jade handled the breakup expertly. She let ALR believe she was still on the hook and wouldn’t really leave her. She even used ALR’s totally real GF she fell in love with on the internet as a reason for her being so “hurt” she couldn’t get over it. Then she helped with the move and the second Jade drove off, she was free. ALR couldn’t fuck her over with the apartment and now she’s methmomma’s problem.
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She said on a livestream with Becky that she was more street smart instead of school smart.
she sounded like a smug condescending cunt on Normas voice note. She was probably laying in bed recording it.
Also this is a great “true amber” moment
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Why don't we have a life plus Cindy thread ? That's a lol cow if there ever saw one
I don't think she was thinking she was keeping Becky from grieving . She didn't think of Becky or her needs at all. All Becky was is her live in caretaker to her. Amber only thinks of Amber's needs. She doesn't see other people as being people with needs
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I agree, but at the same time, Becky could've just said, "I'm going to my family, hire a nurse for a few days, you lazy, fat bitch."
But Becky has no ba(e)ckbone. Or she just didn't want to lose her abuse induced income. So, fuck Becky. No sympathy from me.
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Hambutt looks like a Cousin ITT melting shit emoji covered in greasy hair. That hurple de derpling away she did while Eric laughed was wild.
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Or alternatively “Hey, Eric and Ricky? Best friends since high school or whatever? It’s time for you to earn your subsidized rent.”
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Portuguese knuckles looking great.
Basically made pork jerky in air fryer.
Her frowning fish face lines are so funny. I’ve made it a point to smile more than usual lately because good god lol.
YOU CANT FIT IN A CAR TO DRIVE IDIOT. Lol. Even if she could… she’d total a car in the first 2 months, either from hitting someone or crushing struts.
She’s spiralinggggggg. No prospects of love, middle of Oklahoma before winter.
Pack it up ladies, this winter shall be as barren as her.
Basically made pork jerky in air fryer.
Her frowning fish face lines are so funny. I’ve made it a point to smile more than usual lately because good god lol.
YOU CANT FIT IN A CAR TO DRIVE IDIOT. Lol. Even if she could… she’d total a car in the first 2 months, either from hitting someone or crushing struts.
She’s spiralinggggggg. No prospects of love, middle of Oklahoma before winter.
Pack it up ladies, this winter shall be as barren as her.
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Maintenance guy came, listened to the dryer, turned white and had to leave the room.....
FatAl doesn't wanna take the "easy way out" although that's the only direction she knows. Also is too lazy to put her own quarters into the washing machine. Apparently to her "doing laundry" consists of watching the clothes spin around in the dryer.
So very boring. Do yourselves a solid and skip away....