denysdemontfort
kiwifarms.net
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- Jun 19, 2020
It is interesting to think about how if Abby got that patchy chest tat covered up and a couple makeup lessons, in addition to her improved wardrobe, she would seem like a pretty average person now. She's been one of my favorite trainwrecks to check in on for years but she's just an emotionally stunted woman dealing with mental illness by... getting shitty tattoos and dressing weirdly. The only people she's possibly hurting are her parents who seem more than happy to placate her phases. In the past she's seemed a lot more unstable but I'm not really seeing it anymore.
That group would probably say she's doing harm to the trans community by being wishy-washy with her identity but for someone like Abby, I feel like it's more about her struggling to find an "Abby" that fits. I don't think she's doing it to be malicious or even for attention. I think she's just hoping something will click and all her problems will be solved. A lot of people with mental illnesses of any sort do the same with shit like medications, making themselves a chore wheel, getting a new job, etc. Shit, people without mental illness do it. The FB group is so fucking butthurt over someone trying to figure themselves out and why? Because she's let people into her life and shared info with them? They need to get a fuckin' grip.
That group would probably say she's doing harm to the trans community by being wishy-washy with her identity but for someone like Abby, I feel like it's more about her struggling to find an "Abby" that fits. I don't think she's doing it to be malicious or even for attention. I think she's just hoping something will click and all her problems will be solved. A lot of people with mental illnesses of any sort do the same with shit like medications, making themselves a chore wheel, getting a new job, etc. Shit, people without mental illness do it. The FB group is so fucking butthurt over someone trying to figure themselves out and why? Because she's let people into her life and shared info with them? They need to get a fuckin' grip.
What will her next obsession be? Maybe birds since she can't keep the fuck away from jailbird Boss Hogg??