We need to talk about conversion therapy: I wanna become heterosexual and normal.

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I know this is gonna sound like some /pol/ tier shit, but I think there might be something to it.

Try nofap for 2-3 weeks and see how you start feeling near the end. See if you can fantasize about women. At the very least, it can't hurt to try.
 
If Op is serious....

Yeah ive read the Op thrice now. Its definitely trolling but for those who aint....

Look unless you plan to have a family its best not to have a sex drive. Sex devoted to anything other then creating children is a waste of your time. Partying it up only lasts as long as youre young and seen as desirable. Once that fades no one worth your time will want to form a long term relationship with you. That be right around the same time you'll want a family.

The reason you want a family is have children who will take care of you when you go senile and infirm as you get elderly.

This is why being gay is seen as wrong. It wastes time and your youth on something that be spent setting your self up for success in your golden years. The time spent with intimate relationship with the same sex is time you couldve been spending finding someone you couldve be making future children with. Children who could be your future care takers

The problem with getting older is more doors slam shut and the opportunies to get whats best for you (as a person) get slimmer as you age.


There are spirtual paths which focus on dealing with the sex drive. Best of luck.
 
For starters, you can stop thinking and referring to yourself as "LGBT" since at least three of those letters aren't you.
 
Gravityqueen4life said:
conversion therapy dont work. some people think it will make you straight but what it really dose is just you holding back your desire to suck dick.
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Masters and Johnson claimed to have success with talk therapy for adults that self elected want conversion.

They suffered backlash for it in time where people were supposed to march with the stonewall pedofags instead.

One of the reason christian conversion camps have pisspoor success is because they're usually ran by brainlets and people going to it frequently go under some coercion.

But if we put resources and thought into it, could we help people realign sexuality? Maybe to some degree. Now the resources are going to how to get people to troon out.

This does mean that though good methods may exist (if possible!), that they're not easily accesible in any case.

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The difficult part it seems to me in these kind of cases, is where is the line between a genuine "this thing led me down a bad path" and "I am unhappy with results so I hate myself".

Self hatred can result in such things as trooning out; but a homosexual in denial larping as christian is similar (if more reversable).

Hell said:
I'm a tranny (unwilingly) because I'm mental.
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No, you have to take responsibility. No matter the evil that may have surrounded you, you are the one that chose to become a tranny. Unless you were locked up and tortured like chelsea manning into it, you chose it.

You can't solve your problems unless you take responsibility. You obviously have a conscience guiding you and not wanting to be part of a nest of vipers any longer. You may be surprised at the kindness and understanding that you'll find outside of such nest of vipers and you're going to have to take some chances at new communities.

I mean the fact you're asking help on the kiwifarms is not an indicator that you'll have a good chance for success. You basicly aren't really asking either; you already know what solution you want to try. There may be no legal christian camps, but you can bet in almost any country in the world that there are christians willing to offer help. The whole point of a religion is putting it first, before laws. And there are probably legal ways of trying to deal with it anyways.

So just set this goal: try to talk with 5 different christians in the next two months about your problems.

Personally I'd try to find a psychotherapist that is not too lgbt enchanted instead, but you seem set on wanting to go the christian path. It's weird but the path you believe will work has more chance of working because of your trust in it.

Hell said:
I liked psychoanalysis. I regret I took Freud seriously.
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No kidding. I like the letter where he said he couldn't travel just now because he was afraid his patients might get better in his absence.

Or the guy who was trying to save his marriage and freud told him to divorce, remarry the wealthy woman who was threatening his marriage and give some of that money to freud. I guess there should be in a in freud's name.
 
Assuming you're not trolling, all your problems seem to be with the ideology of LGBT, not the sexuality itself.
If that's the case then there's really no issue here.
Who cares what the rainbow brigade does?
Just live your life and stop making yourself feel bad.
If you're not a deviant yourself then stop worrying about what people who happen to have the same sexuality as you do with their lives.
This is like those white people who are so ashamed of being white because someone who had a similar skin tone to theirs did something to somebody somewhere at some point, makes no sense.
 
I'm going to mirror what someone above touched on - The problem isn't your loathing of LGBT. Your problem stems from a loathing of self. Do yourself a favor and forget the whole gay, straight, trans bla bla bla for a second and go seek some help for your lack of self love. When we are not sure within ourselves, we become easily amenable by the environment that surrounds us. I suggest talking to a trauma psychologist, a hypnotherapist (if that's more up your ally), a somatic therapist etc...

It just seems like there is something huge that you are omitting from your post that could serve as the key to what is exacerbating your distress. The helplessness just screams childhood conditioning. Once again, I'll repeat myself. Figure out what is at the core of your self loathing and everything after that will begin to make sense.
 
You could try using cognitive behavioural therapy techniques, like whenever you feel attraction to men ask yourself 'does this really appeal to my values', 'isn't disobeying God a vile thing' that way you challenge your thoughts and replace those feelings with new ones. Maybe you can't make yourself hetrosexual but you might at least solve the attraction to your own gender.
 
OP, forget all of that shit. You're gay, if you don't want to be gay, go bum a woman and you're now Bi.

Now that you're Bi and comfortable, go shag everything that moves (wear a jonny) and enjoy yourself!

Lick a pussy,
Suck a dick
Bum a man
Fuck a chick

Enjoy!
 
DeadFish said:
Sex devoted to anything other then creating children is a waste of your time....

The reason you want a family is have children who will take care of you when you go senile and infirm as you get elderly.
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broke ; wasting time by enjoying your life in any way
woke ; making your kids wipe your ass while you slowly die of alzheimers
 
Sperghetti said:
For starters, you can stop thinking and referring to yourself as "LGBT" since at least three of those letters aren't you.
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Yeah, which one you are matters a great deal. Though I suspect writing it as 'lgtb' is a pretty big tell.

All the answers I'd suggest boil down to 'Go to a fucking therapist right now,' even if you're trolling. Mental health professionals aren't perfect by any means but trying to solve your problems properly is better than posting on a lolcow forum.

My general rule is, 'If you constantly feel bad, get some help for it. It is possible to not feel that way all the time, and doctors are there for helping you feel better.' The only real caveat is to point out that giving in to delusions is the opposite of solving problems, so don't let your mental illness make you harm yourself.
 
Hell said:
I don't really support the whole lgtb circus, but I cannot fix my sexuality either.

I have the idea that gays and trans people are technically mental, and that encouraging them to embrace sexual deviancy doesn't make them any favour. I'd like to voluntarily join a conversion therapy group to become heterosexual and normal, but the problem is that science still doesn't know how to fix lgtb people. I'm going to church and I'm done with Neopagan bullcrap, but I don't know what else can I do.

All I can say is that being lgtb is one of the worst things that ever happened to me in my life, no one really likes being lgtb.

I'd like to spend some time in a Christian camp, but they're banned in my country.

I just don't support "trans kids", gay adoptions and all that jazz, but I cannot be normal either.

I didn't kill myself because suicide is sinful, but I'm bored of being alive, and I don't legitimately wanna live more years. I'm not taking other people with me like Randy did.

The site is not "your personal blog", but I think debating the necessity of bringing conversion therapy back is important. There are lgtb people out there who legitimately wanna become heterosexual people and have a normal life. At least I never got any diseases, but I feel legitimately disgusted by the behaviour of the community. I don't want to be asociated to people who parade naked in front of children, but I'm a tranny (unwilingly) because I'm mental.

I want the vaccine to kill me at this point, lgtb ruined my entire life.

If a gay or a trans person wants to voluntarily join a conversion therapy group to not be gay or trans, why is it immoral to let this person become a heterosexual individual like the majority? Or at least to give a try. I think conversion therapy should be perfectly legal as long as it didn't imply physical or mental torture, and the patient could abandon the process at any moment, but trying to fix homosexual and transexual people is something I don't really see as immoral.

I just don't want to get AIDS, or anal cancer, or kill myself like a tranny.

People should have a right to abandon lgtb if they want to.

I don't really support lgtb. I don't like lgtb people even if I'm lgtb myself.

I just wish I had known all the things I know about lgtb when I was like 13yo, but they tricked me and they recruited me into a sect.

I know this a real literal hate site full of trolls, but I need serious help, and I don't really know what to do.

I expect hate and trolling in the comments because this is Kiwi Farms, but I'm technically serious about conversion therapy and Christianity.

I'm morally devastated.

Guys, I need help.
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Well, you've made the first and most important step: Acknowledgement. Now comes acceptance. You can't change the past as Rev Beg Bear would say.

Although, do not decide to buy some land and do mentalist streams where you misunderstand and misrepresent the bible. Unless you want to end up with your own thread on KF.

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Are you a gay christian?

www.moviets.comRowan Atkinson in a funny skit from Not The Nine O'Clock News in the 80's
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This probably won't help you, but it always makes me laugh...
 
Therapy! Therapy! Therapy! That’s all anyone on the Internet ever has to say for advice. How about do some work, dig deep and fix yourself? There’s not enough therapists in the world to fix all these autists... and most of the therapists there are, suck anyway. *grumble grumble* OP, you’re a faggot where, Iran? Someplace like that, anyway. Sucks to be you, bro, but you can’t change it. Your cross to bear is to figure it out.
 
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