Everybody is safe around me. To my own surprise many people, even strangers, feel comfortable around me. Tell you a story.
Happened not long ago. I went to get my groceries. I got thirsty (no, not that way!) so I got myself a bottle of coke. It was a nice, sunny spring day so I decided to enjoy the weather for a while longer. I sat down on a bench, opened my coke, lit up a cig and allowed myself to get lost in thoughts. Suddenly a nervous man appeared in front of me and said something like: "
Hello, I have social anxiety. My greatest fear is talking to strangers and I try to overcome it by talking to people. Would you tell me something about your fear?" I was amused by this unusual situation, creeped out a little by how intimate the question was and full of admiration for boldness of this guy. Of course I couldn't reward his courage with a lie so I told him my second greatest fear (it's very abstract and very difficult to use against me) and recommended him a movie ("Dread" -
IMDB - a movie with premise similar to our conversation) and we went our separate ways.
So, someone who fears people in general wasn't afraid to talk to me, that's how non-threatening vibes I give.