My ex was pedo (not why we broke up). It wasn't his pedophilia that made him dangerous to society, and it didn't make him a bad person. It just was. We teach children from a young age to be themselves, and when they grow up and do that, we say they're fucked up....
I dunno, I guess people feel comfortable telling me this shit. I mean, my ex was the first one who ever came out to me, and we were just talking about why we never had sex (I've been figuring I'm A for a while now), and at first he tried to say he was impotent, but when I didn't make fun of him for that, he told me the truth. After that, when we were alone, yeah, he'd tell me if he thought a kid was sexy or not.