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huh. I wonder if trans men tend to be girls that had particularly early/shitty puberty. These things came in when I was 10 so I was in no way prepared for the, ahh, attention they bought and I recall wishing that I could do away with them. I never did cause I’m not nuts but it’s an interesting bit of psychology that I wonder if anyone has looked into? I’m pretty sure lots of girls who get early periods feel the same way. Dunno if this happens to all women, or guys for that matter, but adults treated me very differently once my body changed, never mind the comparisons my friends made to celebrities etc, and I can see how all this stuff happening at once could contribute to dysmorphic feelings.
A little late responding, and power levelling yadda yadda but I can say from personal experience this is a pretty solid theory. I was 8 when my breasts began developing, all I remember was the pain and soreness and my parents freaking out taking me to the doctor who was also quite surprised but assured them they weren't cancerous growths or something. I had a lot of shame and embarrassment about it at school plus attracted the gaze and comments of many predatory older boys and men, which was scary as hell to an 8 yr old. I used to wear oversized shirts and hunched a lot to try and hide them. Got my period at 10 which was similarly horrid. All this is to say, if I were growing up in this day and age with access to the troon cult online like many kids today, I think I'd have quite easily been sucked in and declared myself a boy so that I could somehow rid myself of all the embarrassing things that were happening way too soon for my child's mind. I was a tomboy anyway and we all know those aren't allowed to exist anymore. I feel truly sorry for children having to grow up in today's world. Eventually I was able to grow up and move past all that awkward 'dysphoria' type stuff as my mind caught up with my body but kids today don't get that chance. Poor fuckers.
 
A little late responding, and power levelling yadda yadda but I can say from personal experience this is a pretty solid theory. I was 8 when my breasts began developing, all I remember was the pain and soreness and my parents freaking out taking me to the doctor who was also quite surprised but assured them they weren't cancerous growths or something. I had a lot of shame and embarrassment about it at school plus attracted the gaze and comments of many predatory older boys and men, which was scary as hell to an 8 yr old. I used to wear oversized shirts and hunched a lot to try and hide them. Got my period at 10 which was similarly horrid. All this is to say, if I were growing up in this day and age with access to the troon cult online like many kids today, I think I'd have quite easily been sucked in and declared myself a boy so that I could somehow rid myself of all the embarrassing things that were happening way too soon for my child's mind. I was a tomboy anyway and we all know those aren't allowed to exist anymore. I feel truly sorry for children having to grow up in today's world. Eventually I was able to grow up and move past all that awkward 'dysphoria' type stuff as my mind caught up with my body but kids today don't get that chance. Poor fuckers.
I wonder if the trans thing period is to do with delayed/slow/early puberty... Maybe the 'dysphoria' would basically be the fact the people surrounding these kids don't align with them and it causes the "dysphoria". Humans are very socially complicit and subconsciously want to copy and be like everyone else.

Don't wanna be gross or powerlevel but i went through a weird puberty and can remember feeling a bit weird when everyone else looked WAY older than me (and acted more mature, i was like a child until 18 ) I didn't start until like 16... yeah... Lol. Some of what i felt was maybe what would be called "dysphoria" now.
 
Does anyone has any opinions on this "evidences" I've got from a Reddit troon as a gotcha? Any care to dissect it? Basically "transitioning is the only way to alleviate dysphoria!!".

https://docs.google.com/document/d/19xGowbPKoV9p-jCELkMo21zWADMUMzWrno05JBvFBnM/mobilebasic
What do you think of this?
I don't have the time yet to get through all the papers, so I just took a lot of the "kicker": "After controlling for minority stress and medical care, trans people have similar QOL (including mental health)" -- the paper the person points to says nothing of the sort, but is instead about the supposed benefits in patients' wellbeing after dick chops and facial feminisation. The author makes a mess labelling the papers he cites: there are two lists which I'll refer to as "first part" and "second part" respectively. Some other papers I sampled, such as [3] in the first part and [1] in the second part, are done by pressure groups with obscure methodology. Some studies, especially in the second part, are old (e.g. [3] (second part) following troons that trooned out between 1986-2001; [23], second part, includes cases as old as the 1960s), and therefore cannot reflect the troons we see now.

I'm curious about [13] (first part), which claims seeking religious and spiritual treatment for transsexualism increases suicidality, unfortunately the link is a deleted press release of the Williamette Institute.

This Docs also mention cultures with third gender as part of trans history.
Any pro-troon argument that brings up "third gender" is bunk. Even if some culture had a "third gender" that doesn't mean "failed men", it is a culture-bound phenomenon that cannot be applied to the Anglophone West. Why should it matter that some Paupa New Guinea tribe has 4566436 genders if we only recognize two? Even troons themselves recognize only two genders.
 
I wonder if the trans thing period is to do with delayed/slow/early puberty... Maybe the 'dysphoria' would basically be the fact the people surrounding these kids don't align with them and it causes the "dysphoria". Humans are very socially complicit and subconsciously want to copy and be like everyone else.

Don't wanna be gross or powerlevel but i went through a weird puberty and can remember feeling a bit weird when everyone else looked WAY older than me (and acted more mature, i was like a child until 18 ) I didn't start until like 16... yeah... Lol. Some of what i felt was maybe what would be called "dysphoria" now.
Wow, so anecdotal evidence here is suggesting that a puberty offset from ones peers could cause dysphoric feelings. Now I’m really wondering if this is something that can contribute to people feeling trans or genderqueer or whatever.

It would make for an interesting survey amongst people in the trans/queer community. And considering there is plenty of evidence showing puberty appearing at younger and younger ages it’s apparent why this is happening now.

It also suggests a way to help people in your life going through a dysphoric puberty. Not freaking out, teaching the kid how to buy appropriate clothing and talking to them frankly about how their body will be perceived might help them through all that. And that goes for 8yo girls with mature chests as well as 18yos who are still pretty short and child-like. And of course letting them know that their body is strong and wonderful even if it is a few years off the norm.
 
They reveal how very male they are with this. Not because it’s rapey, which it is, but because most females have a primarily responsive sexuality. We respond to being desired. And a significant % also have a contextual element to our sexuality, meaning everything that’s going around us at the time, and even for a while before, accumulates and increases/decreases sexual interest#. This is why women don’t use prostitutes. Not because we wouldn’t pay for the sex we want, but because no one can sell the sex we want, any more than you could package and sell any other honest human response to another human.

Most males have a spontaneous sexual response, meaning they’ll just...want to have sex. Nothing else has to be going on or not going on, they don’t have to be responding to someone else wanting to have sex with them. That doesn’t mean they don’t also enjoy being desired, of course they do. It just isn’t a requirement and it certainly isn’t the MAIN requirement.

So you can see how the vast majority of people who would be ok with being sexually tolerated rather than wanted are going to be male, or females on lots of testosterone actually having a legit effect upon them, as we know it does in TIFs. But even TIFs display how very female they are when they lock themselves in a bathroom at the chemsex party to cry about how unwanted and unwelcome they feel. TIMs may claim they’re sobbing and may even pretend to do so as part of their girl-mode, but their primary response is to rage and threaten.

This could also explain lesbian bed death. If you have two females who are following the typical female responsive sexual pattern, it’s obvious why things would fizzle.

# for example, I need clean sheets, an orderly bedroom, and my daughter occupied elsewhere, sleeping or whatever, her needs all met (I also need two AZO standards but I can pop those very quickly). But consider that those things are indicators of safety and a wholesome home and family. I am a married adult with responsibilities. I *should* want cleanliness and order, and I should want my child safe and settled and excluded from our sex life. If my husband didn’t like that I wanted to create and maintain a warm, clean, orderly, wholesome home and family life, he would’ve married someone else.

I‘m not going to lie, I never thought about it like that before, and now everything suddenly makes sense.

I wonder if the trans thing period is to do with delayed/slow/early puberty... Maybe the 'dysphoria' would basically be the fact the people surrounding these kids don't align with them and it causes the "dysphoria". Humans are very socially complicit and subconsciously want to copy and be like everyone else.

Don't wanna be gross or powerlevel but i went through a weird puberty and can remember feeling a bit weird when everyone else looked WAY older than me (and acted more mature, i was like a child until 18 ) I didn't start until like 16... yeah... Lol. Some of what i felt was maybe what would be called "dysphoria" now.

I think this is just more about being self-conscious than it is about gender dysphoria/ body dysmorphia. Puberty is a very hormonal time in a kids life, and high school is an extremely turbulent environment. Combining the two creates teen angst, and becomes one of the most emotional few years in their lifetime. Many subconsciously want to mimic others and fit in, but I’m not sure what that has to do with wanting to be the opposite sex.
 
I‘m not going to lie, I never thought about it like that before, and now everything suddenly makes sense.



I think this is just more about being self-conscious than it is about gender dysphoria/ body dysmorphia. Puberty is a very hormonal time in a kids life, and high school is an extremely turbulent environment. Combining the two creates teen angst, and becomes one of the most emotional few years in their lifetime. Many subconsciously want to mimic others and fit in, but I’m not sure what that has to do with wanting to be the opposite sex.
I think that’s where the disjoint happens. I specifically remember being 10, hating my breasts, hating how boys treated me anew and wishing that I could just make them go away. I even remember wishing that I could just “cut them off”.
Now take that feeling and age and put it in a place that’s telling you that you feel that way because you’re really a boy and that’s where the “wanting to be a man” comes from.

I eventually mentally grew into my body, so no harm no foul, for for a few years there, who knows if I had been fed the right material.
 
Troonology; where every man gets a period
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Parts of your ear were once proto gills. That means you're a fish. Now take a dive and don't come up again.
 
Parts of your ear were once proto gills. That means you're a fish. Now take a dive and don't come up again.
It is true that male and female sex organs are homologous (embryology is fascinating in my opinion!) but dimorphism happens around 5-6 weeks embryonic development, so really early on. There are plenty of charts that I woulnt link to cause I have no idea how Islamic that content would be considered, but clits and penis heads are homologous while the outer labia are homologous to the penis shaft. And in females the urniary system goes off and does it’s own thing.
But that’s not really much of an argument. Every part of my body is homologous with a part of a male body, only difference is the male body got a good dose of male hormones starting from early on. That includes bones, muscles, joints, everything.

want to have real fun, look into microchimerism. Specifically fetal microchimirism. A cis woman who has had male offspring has actual Y-chromosome cells in her body. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/18854114/
 
Wow, so anecdotal evidence here is suggesting that a puberty offset from ones peers could cause dysphoric feelings. Now I’m really wondering if this is something that can contribute to people feeling trans or genderqueer or whatever.

It would make for an interesting survey amongst people in the trans/queer community. And considering there is plenty of evidence showing puberty appearing at younger and younger ages it’s apparent why this is happening now.

It also suggests a way to help people in your life going through a dysphoric puberty. Not freaking out, teaching the kid how to buy appropriate clothing and talking to them frankly about how their body will be perceived might help them through all that. And that goes for 8yo girls with mature chests as well as 18yos who are still pretty short and child-like. And of course letting them know that their body is strong and wonderful even if it is a few years off the norm.
Honestly i'd love to see it investigated, it could seem likely. I recall seeing articles claiming that puberty is beginning at really odd times for some children (younger and younger) when compared to many years ago that it was a rarity for some to begin at the "wrong" ages.
 
What's wrong with me that I never gave a fuck about pyooberteeeee. Wherever I go, there's individual accounts by people who've had a bad time and also well-meaning, GC and/or pro-sanity people stating, "~~Everyone~~'s puberty is stressful, <this doesn't mean you should troon out>". What's wrong with everyone else. I don't remember if mine was early or late or on time. Menstruation was fun the first, like, half a dozen times or so (whoa science!) A tampon brand's ambassadors gave a lecture at the school and I aced their quiz on female anatomy and grabbed several boxes of free tampons. The only uncomfortable episode I remember, there was a girl complained to me that she couldn't wear a bra for some bullshit reason, and I sighed along but was grossed out. Like, keep that shit to yourself, I never paid attention to your bra or lack thereof and I'm not going to.
 
Troonology; where every man gets a period

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Sure, you may not develop definitive parts until later, but the sex of the child is determined immediately by the DNA upon being conceived. We just don’t know what it is until later on,

They look the same up to a certain point, because they’re both human fetuses. Shocking, I know.

Saying that they start out as female fetuses is a myth. Some may use the nipple argument, but the reason male humans and dogs have nipples is because the nipples get developed first. The reason male rats and horses don’t have nipples is because the genitalia gets developed first. It just happens to be which part gets developed first, but the sex of a fetus is determined immediately.

Also, this doesn’t even help their argument in the slightest. Your sex is determined immediately, therefore the puberty you undergo is already predetermined no matter how many hormones you take, and blockers just prevent puberty altogether, not give you “girl puberty”.
 
Does anyone has any opinions on this "evidences" I've got from a Reddit troon as a gotcha? Any care to dissect it? Basically "transitioning is the only way to alleviate dysphoria!!".

I've got it, so far most study that talked about positive outcome of transitioning is quite flawed due to inadequate control groups, no long term study (short term survey after transitioning will always yield positive result similar to other dysmorphia - due to the "high" and honeymoon phase).

This Docs also mention cultures with third gender as part of trans history. And I am from a culture with third gender myself and they don't really see themselves as "real women", most people don't either. Which is the greatest flaw if you're bringing up that being trans has essential truth that goes beyond the social category of being trans. These phenomenas are just culture bond.

https://docs.google.com/document/d/19xGowbPKoV9p-jCELkMo21zWADMUMzWrno05JBvFBnM/mobilebasic
What do you think of this?
"Third gender" varies from culture to culture but it almost always refers to one of two things:

1) gay men

or

2) shamans, who sometimes were forbidden from normal relationships for fear of their material duties interfering with their spiritual ones, or fear of concentrating the tribe's shamanic power in a single bloodline.

Besides, we used to think autistics were seeing ghosts so do we really want to start bringing up the beliefs of cultures still in the Stone Age?
What's wrong with me that I never gave a fuck about pyooberteeeee. Wherever I go, there's individual accounts by people who've had a bad time and also well-meaning, GC and/or pro-sanity people stating, "~~Everyone~~'s puberty is stressful, <this doesn't mean you should troon out>". What's wrong with everyone else. I don't remember if mine was early or late or on time. Menstruation was fun the first, like, half a dozen times or so (whoa science!) A tampon brand's ambassadors gave a lecture at the school and I aced their quiz on female anatomy and grabbed several boxes of free tampons. The only uncomfortable episode I remember, there was a girl complained to me that she couldn't wear a bra for some bullshit reason, and I sighed along but was grossed out. Like, keep that shit to yourself, I never paid attention to your bra or lack thereof and I'm not going to.
My puberty was fairly normal, I think. At least the parts related to my physical and mental development; never had a lot of awkwardness or weird growing pains or stunted development. Grew pubic hair before most of the other guys, if you must know. The real issue came from frankly being poorly socialized among my peers. I was a geeky loner who had problems making friends and no idea how to talk to girls, which eased up as I joined after school shit and was around other kids more.

Of course, I'm on a Ukrainian gossip site discussing tranny dumpster fires so I'm likely still improperly socialized.
 
Sure, you may not develop definitive parts until later, but the sex of the child is determined immediately by the DNA upon being conceived. We just don’t know what it is until later on,

They look the same up to a certain point, because they’re both human fetuses. Shocking, I know.

Saying that they start out as female fetuses is a myth. Some may use the nipple argument, but the reason male humans and dogs have nipples is because the nipples get developed first. The reason male rats and horses don’t have nipples is because the genitalia gets developed first. It just happens to be which part gets developed first, but the sex of a fetus is determined immediately.

Also, this doesn’t even help their argument in the slightest. Your sex is determined immediately, therefore the puberty you undergo is already predetermined no matter how many hormones you take, and blockers just prevent puberty altogether, not give you “girl puberty”.
Even if the fetus was "female" at some point... It still ended up developing as male.
Besides, if you're saying that you had a female fetus to justify the fact you're a "woman"... That means you're not trans. It would actually be all (actual) men who are trans, because they were female at some point prior.
Also for fuck's sake stop reducing periods to "I get moody once a month hehe". You're just faking it because you want to feel valid, anyway.

(Why do I always write in second person as if these idiots will ever read what I say?)
 
Even if the fetus was "female" at some point... It still ended up developing as male.
Besides, if you're saying that you had a female fetus to justify the fact you're a "woman"... That means you're not trans. It would actually be all (actual) men who are trans, because they were female at some point prior.
Also for fuck's sake stop reducing periods to "I get moody once a month hehe". You're just faking it because you want to feel valid, anyway.

(Why do I always write in second person as if these idiots will ever read what I say?)

Not to mention not all women get moody when on their periods. One of my friends gets tired as all living hell when on her period and sleeps about 15 hours a day, but she doesn’t get moody.
 
I‘m not going to lie, I never thought about it like that before, and now everything suddenly makes sense.



I think this is just more about being self-conscious than it is about gender dysphoria/ body dysmorphia. Puberty is a very hormonal time in a kids life, and high school is an extremely turbulent environment. Combining the two creates teen angst, and becomes one of the most emotional few years in their lifetime. Many subconsciously want to mimic others and fit in, but I’m not sure what that has to do with wanting to be the opposite sex.

I agree that it has a lot (if not mostly) to do with being self-conscious, but it's not necessarily about fitting in either - a teenager also might want to troon out to try to opt out of the inconveniences that suddenly arise from having a sexed body (that were never a problem during childhood), or because they don't think they can live up to the expectations attached to their sex. A boy might feel that he's not lovable anymore, that suddenly he might be read as a "pervert" by others. A girl might feel that she'll never be valued for her intelligence or her character anymore, just by her sex appeal or her capacity of having babies. Or they might become painfully aware of their physical shortcomings with puberty - like a girl with hirsutism who can't go a day without shaving and feeling her skin constantly prickly, or a boy who never gets past the first third of a school ruler.

I think most teenagers would never think about trooning out if it wasn't even an option, but once they realize that there's such a thing as trooning out, they should at least know about what it realistically entails - that no, you will never become a person of the opposite sex, no matter how hard you try and that your better option is simply wait it out; once your hormones stabilize, you become less emotional and you acquire life experience, you'll realize that you can still live a fulfilling life.

That was what happened to me. What saved me from trooning out once I found out that it was something people did (I was 14 back then, struggled with undiagnosed depression since I was little, was very self-conscious and felt really dysphoric but would never think about transitioning if I hadn't watched a movie about a troon) was 1) the fact transitioning wasn't easily accessible back then; 2) having access to mental health care without gender ideology involved; and 3) having access to accurate information about what to realistically expect rather than propaganda.

The latter was the most important, I think. I gave up rather quickly on transitioning when I found out I'd have to undergo a lifetime of medical interventions, go through a lot of surgeries (and the risk and the pain that come with them) just to look like a mockery of the opposite sex, become partially mutilated with a non-functional set of genitals that could go necrotic and I'd still have a lot of health issues from hormone therapy (back then you could still get accurate medical info without having any contact with trans ideology, no one said what you wanted desperately to hear, only the truth).

That was what made me accept there was no option other than accepting the body I have, and that I'd have to live with it. I eventually grew out of most of the dysphoria, learned to adjust my expectations, found out that most gender roles are completely optional anyway and even became content with what I am/have.
 
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Wow, so anecdotal evidence here is suggesting that a puberty offset from ones peers could cause dysphoric feelings. Now I’m really wondering if this is something that can contribute to people feeling trans or genderqueer or whatever.

It would make for an interesting survey amongst people in the trans/queer community. And considering there is plenty of evidence showing puberty appearing at younger and younger ages it’s apparent why this is happening now.

It also suggests a way to help people in your life going through a dysphoric puberty. Not freaking out, teaching the kid how to buy appropriate clothing and talking to them frankly about how their body will be perceived might help them through all that. And that goes for 8yo girls with mature chests as well as 18yos who are still pretty short and child-like. And of course letting them know that their body is strong and wonderful even if it is a few years off the norm.
My opinion has always been that late puberty or really just late physical development, e.g. height, lack of musculature, would predispose a boy towards developing something that could be labelled as "gender dysphoria." Moreover, I also suspect that this sort of experience could affect a boy's psycho-sexual development so as to increase the likelihood that they might develop somewhat odd sexual interests due to their feeling a lack of "plausibility" if you will in more normative sexual fantasies.

In general, insecurities over being insufficiently masculine or capable as a man are a trend in sub-set of troons, both AGP and HSTS types. That guy who is the personification of Shrek, /r/BarelyAPrincess(?) or something like that, is a really good example of this phenomenon. He wrote an absolute rambler of a life-story about how insecure he was as a man. You can't - of course - ever really trust AGP anecdotes but the whole story is so amazingly pathetic that I largely believe it and that he's only lying by omission (I don't remember him including the part where he commits the sin of onan while violating Deuteronomy 22:5).
Link: Shrek 5

Does anyone has any opinions on this "evidences" I've got from a Reddit troon as a gotcha? Any care to dissect it? Basically "transitioning is the only way to alleviate dysphoria!!".

I've got it, so far most study that talked about positive outcome of transitioning is quite flawed due to inadequate control groups, no long term study (short term survey after transitioning will always yield positive result similar to other dysmorphia - due to the "high" and honeymoon phase).

This Docs also mention cultures with third gender as part of trans history. And I am from a culture with third gender myself and they don't really see themselves as "real women", most people don't either. Which is the greatest flaw if you're bringing up that being trans has essential truth that goes beyond the social category of being trans. These phenomenas are just culture bond.

https://docs.google.com/document/d/19xGowbPKoV9p-jCELkMo21zWADMUMzWrno05JBvFBnM/mobilebasic
What do you think of this?

Pretty standard collection of basically all pro-troon research. Many dubious surveys, might be worth noting that surveys in general are a dubious form of a research in most situations.

Spends a fair amount on the Karolinska study as well, the "rebuttal" to which has, to me, never really made all that much sense. On the point of suicide rates, the author didn't find anything because the CIs are just huge so it's not saying that "differences in ... suicide attempts" disappear - it's saying absolutely nothing because your CI is 0.7-5.3 with a median of 2.0! And, for violence, the study itself says nothing for 89-03:
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This is the only place where FtM and MtF statistics are actually de-aggregated and for the aggregated stats, the issue is once again that the study basically just says nothing because the study is just woefully under-powered. In fact, the only reason you even get statistically significant results at all is because the OR is just absolutely insane in the early cohort, the adjusted OR for death by suicide is 5.8-62.9(!) with a mean of 19.1 (!!).
It is fair to criticize TERFs for over-interpreting the study or w/e but this interpretation is just a fundamental misunderstanding of null-hypothesis testing:
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When your CI is 0.7-5.3 and type something like this all you found was that you need to break out your undergrad statistics notes and do some revision.

Another unrelated thing I noticed:
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I don't think that I need to say anything about this.

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The source here is an NPR article that just says that they don't cause infertility in a throw away [citation needed] comment by Norman Spack. I don't believe there is any evidence on the consequences of long-term pubertal suppression in trooned-out kids. It's actually quite difficult to study the issue since prescription of puberty blockers seem to massively increase persistence rates and I imagine that desisters are liable to just drop off the face of the earth from a research perspective. Moreover, the flippancy over fertility due to the existence of preservation treatments is not really defensible. Fertility preservation is not even remotely risk-free especially when you are talking about potentially preserving sperm or eggs for 20 years. You can add to that the costs and high risk of failure especially for females.

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False conflation of sexual orientation; an identity that makes to a real underlying experience, i.e. that of arousal at images/situations/persons of a particular sex and gender identity; a nebulous notion that maps to nothing in particular.

This study I hadn't seen before, it is supposed to show something that brain function and puberty blockers but reading the abstract, you can't help but laugh. A follow up study is definitely in order, subjects ought to be the researchers though since they evidently need their greater brain function checked.

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The first link is to an Olson study which is pay-walled so I've downloaded it and attached it. The study is pretty well known but not what I would call a "large body of researching (sic)." It's one of those studies where you're not really sure what the thought process was in cooking it up since it's not clear that they really show anything or indeed that they could have shown anything at all. The basic gist is that they gave a bunch of kids IAT tests and they found gender-congruence which maybe sounds cool or something but IAT is notoriously complete nonsense and no one has any clue what exactly it's measuring either in this highly non-standard use-case or more generally as a tool for detecting bias. The other thing they did was basically see if the kids wanted to do girl things or boy things and wouldn't you believe it they found that they wanted to do gender congruent things! Now, if this all sounds fucking stupid that's because it is and Kristina Olson is a noted moron.

As an aside, 'gender identity' as a concept is basically pseudo-scientific, it is completely unfalsifiable and makes no predictions since literally anything is considered possible. In children, sympathetic researchers like Olson will often muddle it with gender expression (a theoretically distinct concept) as she does here (the second link in the above screenshot):
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Gender expression is often held up as evidence of the realness of the condition and in the aforementioned study is even used to argue that the subjects have stable cross-sex gender identities. But this raises the question of why you would invoke the idea of their possessing a "gender identity" different from their natal sex as opposed to saying that they just possess sex-atypical interests? That this could result in peculiar identification is eminently plausible since we know that young children often conceptualize sex/gender in very superficial ways, especially at very young ages. This is also gets at what I mean by gender identity just not making any predictions, if children were to display sex-congruent interests etc. then that would be fine since gender expression is not gender identity etc. and if they display gender-congruent interests then that can also be fine since their just expressing their gender identity.

In my view, the only reason that 'gender identity' as a concept exists to begin with is to deal with AGPs or really for AGPs to deal with being AGPs since AGPs like Serano play a significant role in popularizing the tripartite framework of gender identity/gender expression/sexual orientation. They obviously invented it to get around the fact that they are seldom feminine tending to be either few-screws-loose turbo-male lunatics or autistic nerds who are their own sort of masculine. Gender identity just lets you basically say that you are a woman because you say you are without grounding it in really anything or admitting the possibility that you could be talked out of the idea.

As a final throwaway point, I'm not sure that it's even clear that such a thing as 'gender identity' even makes sense as some kind of cognitive faculty or whatever have you. I don't really believe it fits at all in any widely accepted model of human cognition, or at least not any that I find compelling and there's no faculty that anyone would accept as being analogous to how gender identity is often framed.
 

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I agree that it has a lot (if not mostly) to do with being self-conscious, but it's not necessarily about fitting in either - a teenager also might want to troon out to try to opt out of the inconveniences that suddenly arise from having a sexed body (that were never a problem during childhood), or because they don't think they can live up to the expectations attached to their sex. A boy might feel that he's not lovable anymore, that suddenly he might be read as a "pervert" by others. A girl might feel that she'll never be valued for her intelligence or her character anymore, just by her sex appeal or her capacity of having babies. Or they might become painfully aware of their physical shortcomings with puberty - like a girl with hirsutism who can't go a day without shaving and feeling her skin constantly prickly, or a boy who never gets past the first third of a school ruler.

I think most teenagers would never think about trooning out if it wasn't even an option, but once they realize that there's such a thing as trooning out, they should at least know about what it realistically entails - that no, you will never become a person of the opposite sex, no matter how hard you try and that your better option is simply wait it out; once your hormones stabilize, you become less emotional and you acquire life experience, you'll realize that you can still live a fulfilling life.

That was happened to me. What saved me from trooning out once I found out that it was something people did (I was 14 back then, struggled with undiagnosed depression since I was little, was very self-conscious and felt really dysphoric but would never think about transitioning if I hadn't watched a movie about a troon) was 1) the fact transitioning wasn't easily accessible back then; 2) having access to mental health care without gender ideology involved; and 3) having access to accurate information about what to realistically expect rather than propaganda.

The latter was the most important, I think. I gave up rather quickly on transitioning when I found out I'd have to undergo a lifetime of medical interventions, go through a lot of surgeries (and the risk and the pain that come with them) just to look like a mockery of the opposite sex, become partially mutilated with a non-functional set of genitals that could go necrotic and I'd still have a lot of health issues from hormone therapy (back then you could still get accurate medical info without having any contact with trans ideology, no one said what you wanted desperately to hear, only the truth).

That was what made me accept there was no option other than accepting the body I have, and that I'd have to live with it. I eventually grew out of most of the dysphoria, learned to adjust my expectations, found out that most gender roles are completely optional anyway and even became content with what I am/have.
As someone who did identify as a transman after identifying as 'agender' in my teen years, there is truth to it being self conscious. Especially this part.
A girl might feel that she'll never be valued for her intelligence or her character anymore, just by her sex appeal or her capacity of having babies.
I believe I had a 'normal' puberty physically, but the environment I was in and peers that surrounded me were a lot of girls who have been sexually abused by someone or by another girl in the foster home. None of us had access to mental health care, and a lot of the older ladies were very sexually competitive and giving sexual advice to younger girls. Hobbies and interests were deemed as childish and for babies.
 
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