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It's worth pointing out here that one of the only consistencies ADF has had in his life is his fascination/creepy obsession with BDSM, but pretty well exclusively as the submissive partner. Apart from one or two violent stories about killing men (including one where his female Mary Sue killed his male one), he's never had any interest in dominating others. Professional doms are a thing, both legal and illegal, but I've never heard of professional subs.
So if ADF is whoring himself as a BDSM sex worker, I doubt he's being a dom.
So if ADF is whoring himself as a BDSM sex worker, I doubt he's being a dom.
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For someone who's sexually assaulted as much as he claims to be, it makes sense for him to try to start making money from it.
Of course it also doesn't make any sense for people to suddenly decide to start paying for it.
Of course it also doesn't make any sense for people to suddenly decide to start paying for it.
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what i'm thinking is that out of the two shops he visited this weekend, he may have gotten some under the table job doing menial tasks and he now calls himself a "sex worker" (even if he is telling the truth at all)
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Maybe someone hired him to loiter around a competitor's store to repulse any potential business.
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Professional_submissive
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-lov...-really-like-to-be-a-professional-submissive/
They apparently are a thing. Doms are more well known, but you can be a professional sub.
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You asked for it. Here's a bondage journal he posted several years ago on "bondage safety."
BE COOL ABOUT BONDAGE SAFETY!!!
So, did anyone get any good toys from Santa this year?
Cool, then it is time for the journal you all have been waiting for:
Felicia-hime's Guide to YAOI/YURI BONDAGE SAFETY!!!
BTW a little YAOI WARNING: If you don't like homosexual relationships OR GAY PEOPLE PERIOD, DON'T COMMENT, FLAME/SPAM, AND LOOK AT THIS JOURNAL!!!
ZERO TOLERANCE FOR FLAMES/SPAM DISCLAIMER:
Felicia-hime has been in a real foul-ass mood because of Prop 8 in Yaoifornia...so if you damned homophobes who think it's your damned business to tell me who I should fall in love with and decide to willingly ignore the aforementioned yaoi warning and flame anyhow, I'll flag those comments as spam and report you to staff! YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED!
Felicia-hime here for another journal about Yaoi/Yuri relationships!
I know I tend to draw a lot of bondage stuff in all my artwork, paddles, handcuffs, and the like. But I want you guys to know a few pointers about Bondage Safety.
First, you need what Bondage/BDSM is:
BDSM is a complex acronym derived from the terms bondage and discipline (B&D, B/D, or BD), dominance and submission (D&S, D/S, or DS), sadism and masochism (S&M, S/M, or SM). BDSM includes a wide spectrum of activities and forms of interpersonal relationships. While not always overtly sexual in nature, the activities and relationships within a BDSM context are almost always eroticized by the participants in some fashion. Many of these practices fall outside of commonly held social norms regarding sexuality and human relationships.
Many activities can be found under the umbrella of BDSM, which include — but are not limited to — forms of dominance, submission, discipline, punishment, bondage, sexual roleplaying, sexual fetishism, sadomasochism, and power exchange, as well as the full spectrum of mainstream personal and sexual interactions.
An important distinction is that BDSM is not a form of sexual abuse — although some BDSM activities may appear to be violent or coercive, such activities are conducted with the consent of all partners involved. BDSM relationships and practices are exercised under the philosophy of "safe, sane and consensual" (SSC), or the somewhat more permissive philosophy of "risk-aware consensual kink" (RACK).
Activities and relationships within a BDSM context are characterized by the fact that the participants usually take on complementary, but unequal, roles. Typically, participants who are active – applying the activity or exercising control over others – are known as tops or dominants. Those participants who are recipients of the activities, or who are controlled by their partners, are typically known as bottoms or submissives. Individuals who move between top/dominant roles and bottom/submissive roles – either periodically within a relationship, or from relationship to relationship – are known as switches.
BDSM is often practiced within the context of a limited and defined encounter known as a BDSM scene. Such scenes often have ritualistic aspects, complete with modes of behavior, forms of address, codes of conduct, dress codes, and many other aspects of theater and role playing. As such encounters are often – but not always – at least partly sexual in nature, people outside of BDSM have a tendency to view it as a form of "kinky sex".
Some participants incorporate aspects of BDSM into their everyday relationship(s) with their partner(s), especially those who practice dominance and submission or power exchange (especially Total Power Exchange). For these individuals, BDSM is part of their lifestyle and in some discussions is referred to as "The Lifestyle".
If you are a Seme that is interested in me, here is a list of BSDM items I would enjoy placed upon my person:
> A BED! (OR A DUNGEON! )
> Bondage Equipment, DUH (I can provide some of it -- 9 times out of 10, I play hard to get. So, you'll need to overpower me and tie me up)
> Cuffs/Shackles ( Leather or Steel work for me)
> Collar (Again, leather or steel -- I have a preference for locking posture slave collars)
> Ball Gag
> Rope (in case you don't have cuffs and shackles)
> A whip, riding crop, and/or cat-o-nine tails
> A yaoi paddle (I'll bring mine!)
> Romantic music playing
> Protection and Lubricant (YAOI, BUT YAOI SAFELY!)
> An ability to tickle me to death
But a minute, Mr. Seme, you need to know how to use these items, SAFELY!
Safety First, Last and ALWAYS
Done correctly with a loving partner, bondage and BDSM can be beautiful and fulfilling for both the submissive and the dominant.
Bondage is a physical activity which can constrain and put pressure on the body of the submissive, so like any other physical activity, it is necessary to follow some common-sense safety procedures to minimize the risk to the participants. If you try bondage at home, it must be your over-riding priority as well.
Nothing in these guidelines guarentees the safety of the participants.
I am not medically qualified, and you should seek medical or specialist advice before doing anything you aren't sure about. They are not exhaustive, nor definitive. They are just intended as some sensible starting guidelines to bear in mind. Only thought, common sense and responsible behavior from those present can ensure the safety of all concerned.
Aside from the general advice related to Safer Sex, BDSM sessions often require a much wider array of safety precautions than typical Vanilla Sex (sexual behavior without BDSM elements). To keep all acts within the framework agreed upon by all participants, a commonly accepted set of rules and safety measures has emerged within the BDSM community.
To ensure consensus related to BDSM activity, pre-play negotiations are commonplace, especially among partners who do not know each other very well. These negotiations concern the interests and fantasies of each partner and establish a framework. This kind of discussion is a typical "unique selling proposition" of BDSM sessions and quite commonplace. Additionally, safewords are often arranged to provide for an immediate stop of any activity if any participant should so desire. Quick and reliable response to safewords is an imperative for safe BDSM. In case of voice constraints of the bottom, eye contact or hand signs might be the only means of communication and are therefore of very high importance for safety.
Practical safety aspects are of tremendous importance. It is highly important during bondage sessions to understand which parts of the human body have a risk of damage to nerves and blood vessels by contusion or have a high risk of scar development. Using crops, whips or floggers, the top's fine motor skills and anatomical knowledge can make the difference between a satisfying session for the bottom and a highly unpleasant experience, possibly including severe physical harm. The very broad range of different BDSM "toys" and physical and psychological control techniques often requires a far-reaching knowledge of details related to the requirements of the individual session, such as anatomy, physics, and psychology.
It is necessary to be able to identify a bottom's psychological "freakouts" in advance in order to avoid it. Such losses of emotional balance due to sensory or emotional overload are the most common SM emergency. It is extremely important to follow his or her reactions empathetically and continue or stop accordingly.
ALWAYS use a "Safe Word" as a form of signal to let your partner know that it's time to stop from the bondage session. Try not to use words like "please no" , "stop now" , "i can't take it anymore" , as these phrases could be mislead as having too much pleasure.
If you're going to be gagged in the bondage session, discuss a body language with your partner to replace the safe word instead.
And common sense guidelines you should already know with bondage!
During bondage scenes it is the duty of the Master to take care of the submissive. It’s your responsibility to watch for any breathing problems or signs of circulation problems. Watch not only for lack of breathing but hyperventilation.
Make sure you can remove the ropes fast and have bandage scissors available to assist you in cutting the ropes, if necessary. Practice tying and untying the knots you are going to use.
Never use rope of a smaller diameter than 1/4 inch and for safety reasons never use ropes smaller and 3/8 inch without practice.
Never obstruct the throat with a rope by crossing a rope across the front of the neck. Figure out how to make the rope cross on the back side of the neck. Never tie a rope around the neck.
Take care in the amount of strain on joints (wrists, knees, back, neck, elbows, shoulders, etc.)
Watch out for constriction of nerves and blood vessels. Watch for signs of tingling, numbness, abnormal color, or coldness in extremities.
Never leave the submissive in bondage alone and unguarded.
Check the ropes as you are tying for tightness. Always leave it loose enough to get one finger between the rope and the slave's skin. Check ropes often to insure they don’t tighten because of body swelling or twisting.
Communicate with the bound submissive from time to time and insure he/she is O.K. Use a safe signal to allow her to alert you of a problem.
With more coils of rope used around the body or extremities there is less chance of cutting off circulation because there is more surface area used.
Limbs fall asleep in two ways, lack of blood circulation and pinching nerve paths. Be aware of both ways.
If you use a gag on the submissive your responsibility for observing increases. Remember, the risk always increases with a gag.
Some different ways that are used to bind a slave:
a) limit movement but it don't immobilize. (Handcuffs, Leg Irons, and some straight-Jacket)
b) binding body limbs to each other or the the torso (tie legs together or arms to body).
c) spreading parts of the body apart using a device. Often called tieing a slave dowm. (tie legs apart to bed post or spreader bar). A slave can be standing or laying dowm with this type of bondage.
d) Using special bondage furniture or other regular furniture to ties the body to. (such as chairs or St. Andrew's cross).
e) suspension sondage - suspending the body in the air by attaching the ropes to eyehooks in the ceiling or a bondage frame.
f) wraping the body with saran wrap or cling film. This is often called mummification or cocooning.
g) vacuum pump that removed air from a container and restricts slave's movement.
h) verbal bondage - The slave is only told to not move and can't until the order is recended (yes, even that counts as bondage) .
Let me tell you something, there is no feeling that feels so good; and in some cases, it feels better than sex. That feeling of helplessness when cold, steel handcuffs and shackles are clapped around wrists and ankles. And you surrender yourself completely when a collar is placed around your neck, and that feeling of being your boyfriend's slave...
Whoever is lucky to be my perfect male mate, after He is willing to make certain sacrifices, is willing to give the individual attention I desire, and wins my trust. That certain someone will have the treat of making me the 'uke' in the relationship. I do misbehave a lot, I do need punishment and 'training' every now and then to keep me in line.
Have fun and be safe, for I am corrupting you all again with dirty ideas!
Felicia-hime
So, did anyone get any good toys from Santa this year?
Cool, then it is time for the journal you all have been waiting for:
Felicia-hime's Guide to YAOI/YURI BONDAGE SAFETY!!!
BTW a little YAOI WARNING: If you don't like homosexual relationships OR GAY PEOPLE PERIOD, DON'T COMMENT, FLAME/SPAM, AND LOOK AT THIS JOURNAL!!!
ZERO TOLERANCE FOR FLAMES/SPAM DISCLAIMER:
Felicia-hime has been in a real foul-ass mood because of Prop 8 in Yaoifornia...so if you damned homophobes who think it's your damned business to tell me who I should fall in love with and decide to willingly ignore the aforementioned yaoi warning and flame anyhow, I'll flag those comments as spam and report you to staff! YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED!
Felicia-hime here for another journal about Yaoi/Yuri relationships!
I know I tend to draw a lot of bondage stuff in all my artwork, paddles, handcuffs, and the like. But I want you guys to know a few pointers about Bondage Safety.
First, you need what Bondage/BDSM is:
BDSM is a complex acronym derived from the terms bondage and discipline (B&D, B/D, or BD), dominance and submission (D&S, D/S, or DS), sadism and masochism (S&M, S/M, or SM). BDSM includes a wide spectrum of activities and forms of interpersonal relationships. While not always overtly sexual in nature, the activities and relationships within a BDSM context are almost always eroticized by the participants in some fashion. Many of these practices fall outside of commonly held social norms regarding sexuality and human relationships.
Many activities can be found under the umbrella of BDSM, which include — but are not limited to — forms of dominance, submission, discipline, punishment, bondage, sexual roleplaying, sexual fetishism, sadomasochism, and power exchange, as well as the full spectrum of mainstream personal and sexual interactions.
An important distinction is that BDSM is not a form of sexual abuse — although some BDSM activities may appear to be violent or coercive, such activities are conducted with the consent of all partners involved. BDSM relationships and practices are exercised under the philosophy of "safe, sane and consensual" (SSC), or the somewhat more permissive philosophy of "risk-aware consensual kink" (RACK).
Activities and relationships within a BDSM context are characterized by the fact that the participants usually take on complementary, but unequal, roles. Typically, participants who are active – applying the activity or exercising control over others – are known as tops or dominants. Those participants who are recipients of the activities, or who are controlled by their partners, are typically known as bottoms or submissives. Individuals who move between top/dominant roles and bottom/submissive roles – either periodically within a relationship, or from relationship to relationship – are known as switches.
BDSM is often practiced within the context of a limited and defined encounter known as a BDSM scene. Such scenes often have ritualistic aspects, complete with modes of behavior, forms of address, codes of conduct, dress codes, and many other aspects of theater and role playing. As such encounters are often – but not always – at least partly sexual in nature, people outside of BDSM have a tendency to view it as a form of "kinky sex".
Some participants incorporate aspects of BDSM into their everyday relationship(s) with their partner(s), especially those who practice dominance and submission or power exchange (especially Total Power Exchange). For these individuals, BDSM is part of their lifestyle and in some discussions is referred to as "The Lifestyle".
If you are a Seme that is interested in me, here is a list of BSDM items I would enjoy placed upon my person:
> A BED! (OR A DUNGEON! )
> Bondage Equipment, DUH (I can provide some of it -- 9 times out of 10, I play hard to get. So, you'll need to overpower me and tie me up)
> Cuffs/Shackles ( Leather or Steel work for me)
> Collar (Again, leather or steel -- I have a preference for locking posture slave collars)
> Ball Gag
> Rope (in case you don't have cuffs and shackles)
> A whip, riding crop, and/or cat-o-nine tails
> A yaoi paddle (I'll bring mine!)
> Romantic music playing
> Protection and Lubricant (YAOI, BUT YAOI SAFELY!)
> An ability to tickle me to death
But a minute, Mr. Seme, you need to know how to use these items, SAFELY!
Safety First, Last and ALWAYS
Done correctly with a loving partner, bondage and BDSM can be beautiful and fulfilling for both the submissive and the dominant.
Bondage is a physical activity which can constrain and put pressure on the body of the submissive, so like any other physical activity, it is necessary to follow some common-sense safety procedures to minimize the risk to the participants. If you try bondage at home, it must be your over-riding priority as well.
Nothing in these guidelines guarentees the safety of the participants.
I am not medically qualified, and you should seek medical or specialist advice before doing anything you aren't sure about. They are not exhaustive, nor definitive. They are just intended as some sensible starting guidelines to bear in mind. Only thought, common sense and responsible behavior from those present can ensure the safety of all concerned.
Aside from the general advice related to Safer Sex, BDSM sessions often require a much wider array of safety precautions than typical Vanilla Sex (sexual behavior without BDSM elements). To keep all acts within the framework agreed upon by all participants, a commonly accepted set of rules and safety measures has emerged within the BDSM community.
To ensure consensus related to BDSM activity, pre-play negotiations are commonplace, especially among partners who do not know each other very well. These negotiations concern the interests and fantasies of each partner and establish a framework. This kind of discussion is a typical "unique selling proposition" of BDSM sessions and quite commonplace. Additionally, safewords are often arranged to provide for an immediate stop of any activity if any participant should so desire. Quick and reliable response to safewords is an imperative for safe BDSM. In case of voice constraints of the bottom, eye contact or hand signs might be the only means of communication and are therefore of very high importance for safety.
Practical safety aspects are of tremendous importance. It is highly important during bondage sessions to understand which parts of the human body have a risk of damage to nerves and blood vessels by contusion or have a high risk of scar development. Using crops, whips or floggers, the top's fine motor skills and anatomical knowledge can make the difference between a satisfying session for the bottom and a highly unpleasant experience, possibly including severe physical harm. The very broad range of different BDSM "toys" and physical and psychological control techniques often requires a far-reaching knowledge of details related to the requirements of the individual session, such as anatomy, physics, and psychology.
It is necessary to be able to identify a bottom's psychological "freakouts" in advance in order to avoid it. Such losses of emotional balance due to sensory or emotional overload are the most common SM emergency. It is extremely important to follow his or her reactions empathetically and continue or stop accordingly.
ALWAYS use a "Safe Word" as a form of signal to let your partner know that it's time to stop from the bondage session. Try not to use words like "please no" , "stop now" , "i can't take it anymore" , as these phrases could be mislead as having too much pleasure.
If you're going to be gagged in the bondage session, discuss a body language with your partner to replace the safe word instead.
And common sense guidelines you should already know with bondage!
During bondage scenes it is the duty of the Master to take care of the submissive. It’s your responsibility to watch for any breathing problems or signs of circulation problems. Watch not only for lack of breathing but hyperventilation.
Make sure you can remove the ropes fast and have bandage scissors available to assist you in cutting the ropes, if necessary. Practice tying and untying the knots you are going to use.
Never use rope of a smaller diameter than 1/4 inch and for safety reasons never use ropes smaller and 3/8 inch without practice.
Never obstruct the throat with a rope by crossing a rope across the front of the neck. Figure out how to make the rope cross on the back side of the neck. Never tie a rope around the neck.
Take care in the amount of strain on joints (wrists, knees, back, neck, elbows, shoulders, etc.)
Watch out for constriction of nerves and blood vessels. Watch for signs of tingling, numbness, abnormal color, or coldness in extremities.
Never leave the submissive in bondage alone and unguarded.
Check the ropes as you are tying for tightness. Always leave it loose enough to get one finger between the rope and the slave's skin. Check ropes often to insure they don’t tighten because of body swelling or twisting.
Communicate with the bound submissive from time to time and insure he/she is O.K. Use a safe signal to allow her to alert you of a problem.
With more coils of rope used around the body or extremities there is less chance of cutting off circulation because there is more surface area used.
Limbs fall asleep in two ways, lack of blood circulation and pinching nerve paths. Be aware of both ways.
If you use a gag on the submissive your responsibility for observing increases. Remember, the risk always increases with a gag.
Some different ways that are used to bind a slave:
a) limit movement but it don't immobilize. (Handcuffs, Leg Irons, and some straight-Jacket)
b) binding body limbs to each other or the the torso (tie legs together or arms to body).
c) spreading parts of the body apart using a device. Often called tieing a slave dowm. (tie legs apart to bed post or spreader bar). A slave can be standing or laying dowm with this type of bondage.
d) Using special bondage furniture or other regular furniture to ties the body to. (such as chairs or St. Andrew's cross).
e) suspension sondage - suspending the body in the air by attaching the ropes to eyehooks in the ceiling or a bondage frame.
f) wraping the body with saran wrap or cling film. This is often called mummification or cocooning.
g) vacuum pump that removed air from a container and restricts slave's movement.
h) verbal bondage - The slave is only told to not move and can't until the order is recended (yes, even that counts as bondage) .
Let me tell you something, there is no feeling that feels so good; and in some cases, it feels better than sex. That feeling of helplessness when cold, steel handcuffs and shackles are clapped around wrists and ankles. And you surrender yourself completely when a collar is placed around your neck, and that feeling of being your boyfriend's slave...
Whoever is lucky to be my perfect male mate, after He is willing to make certain sacrifices, is willing to give the individual attention I desire, and wins my trust. That certain someone will have the treat of making me the 'uke' in the relationship. I do misbehave a lot, I do need punishment and 'training' every now and then to keep me in line.
Have fun and be safe, for I am corrupting you all again with dirty ideas!
Felicia-hime
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You can have your SSI and SSDI direct deposited. In fact they strongly encourage it.
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That's to well written to be his work alone, he has taken some one else's work and edited it.
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NSFW or anyone, but this is what he copied:
http://www.queerlife.co.za/test/blogs/94-qulcha/3204-bdsm-culture.html
http://www.queerlife.co.za/test/blogs/94-qulcha/3204-bdsm-culture.html
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It's so obvious he wishes with all his might that he was important enough to get death threats or have a hit on him. It would be the top of the victimhood ladder.
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Know what's the best thing about Phil? You can put the dumbest, most inane shit in this thread and he'll absolutely believe it. Not only will he believe it, but all his asspatters will encourage his beliefs. At no point does anyone say "No ADF, soldiers aren't canvassing the woods for you while state troopers in helicopters take potshots at you. That's Rambo First Blood. That's fiction. You're being trolled." Instead they tell him a vast CIS conspiracy of white males out to ruin the life of a homeless weirdo is a perfectly reasonable thing to believe in.
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In addition, the fact that he actually seeks out and glorifies being oppressed shows he doesn't really understand it. People don't choose to be gay, or trans, or nonwhite... they're born that way and encounter negativity as a result. That's what makes them victims. They didn't seek out this situation. Phil does. He aches for oppression and piles it on any way he can, thinking that he's joined some exclusive club.
The moment being a victim is something worth striving for, is the moment you're no longer a victim.
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Maybe I could. Stranger things have happened. Maybe you could.
Phil can't, though, because he's a completely unmarketable commodity.
There's also that whole "work" part of "sex work" that rules out Phil.
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The obvious seeking out of oppression seems to be egotism combined with the apparent BDSM sub fetish.
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It's weird as fuck that he's a sub considering how aggressive and angry he is.
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Not really in my opinion. He's loud and angry but only on facebook where he doesn't have to face the reality of the kind of beat down tons of hate speech could get him. In real life he's most likely a huge wuss who doesn't like confrontation.
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