I love how Zach is out here basically screaming into the void that he does so much, he's sacrificing so much, but this is all... fairly normal stuff for someone to do for their partners even outside of a medical crisis? Doing things together like taking walks, looking up recipes they'll like and cooking for them, keeping track of the family bills? This is honestly small potatoes. It's nothing compared to what many (if not most) people do for their partners. Crying about how it's so hard for you to do these small things for your wife and you're not getting the recognition you feel you deserve for it on the internet is repulsive and disgusting.
And when you spend every spare second tweeting about how horrible a children's book author is for not agreeing with you politically, it really makes it abundantly clear that this stuff - the bare minimum, the small potatoes - is all you do for your wife.