FursuitSerialKiller
kiwifarms.net
- Joined
- Aug 21, 2019
its almost as if the fandom is full of mentally ill/low self esteem autistic who don't know any better besides COOMing *surprised pikachu face*.
A bit of a broad brush.
It just feels like the most visible people (I refuse to use the word clout) have very curated public personas meant specifically to appeal to others, rather than being about self expression. They also tend to have a lot of money to spread around, and with that, probably a lot less real problems.
There are some that speak up on social issues from real experience, but there's a fucking lot of posturing too.
I'm not saying shit about autism because it's not my place to. Abuse of fetishism seems more relevant.
Its worth repeating that more balanced furries don't seem to need to broadcast it, it's just a hobby even if they're into kink. They have balance. Lifestylers are almost universally suspect and untrustworthy.
I just wish people would address the content issues. Skirting the line of zoophilia and pedophilia for people who won't ever cross the line is like a big flashing "welcome" sign to people who *will* cross the line. Furs don't want to address that. It's too threatening to what they service so much validation from.
It's consistently disappointing.
Personally I'm wondering right now if there's a way for myself to still enjoy furry content without having to engage the fandom at large. I used to enjoy cons and some events, but really REALLY bad experiences and abusive people have just tainted it for me and it's hard to see any of the actual good.
Cliff notes version: hobbies are good, fandoms are bad.