Pardon, as I'm new to this cow, but why does she pay for therapy? No coverage? Or is it because she isn't in the mental health care system?
To become part of the system she would have to properly be diagnosed and assessed.
@Dutch Courage -- Grief counseling and Cognitive behavior counseling are free, but she'd first need to either refer herself or get a family doctor to. Then (if called), she'd have to do more paperwork about why she feels she needs the limited spots to attend and then have two or three interviews.
They expect the clients to do homework with worksheets and booklets. It's a heavy process and this cow definitely doesn't have the attitude or aptitude to even step foot in the door.