The arguement of troons having "earned the right to be a woman" always boils down to the dumbest stereotypes. Yes, a trans woman probably puts in a lot more effort to look "womanly" than I do. He probably needs to get surgery, slather his face in makeup, practice having a feminine walk and mannerisms, fill himself with hormones, and dress with delicate attention to his bodytype to be barely passable. On the other hand, I could walk outside in a men's T-shit and jeans and people would still know I'm a chick. I don't have to act womanly because acting female isn't what makes someone a woman, you just are.
Troons think if you go through the social rituals of being female that makes you female, that being male or female is reduced to arbitrary ways you dress and talk. People would be seething if troons said women with buzzcuts in men's clothing are less of women because of the way they act, but that is the implication at play here. If we equate femaleness to acting in a way stereotypical of the female sex, you are saying all women who don't act female are less of women for it. We're bringing back old school sexism in the name of appeasing trannies.