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I am a gay guy.

Does anyone here feel like that they are sandwiched between two sides? On one side, I have a conservative family that opposes homosexuality. I am out to my online friends and some of my real life friends, but not what I consider “open”. On the other, most of the gay fags are riddled with SJWism. Monstrously high STD ratings, faggot parades where they show dicks and BDSM in front of children, and fucking ten guys a day.

I am all for free expression of sex and I understand that we are hardwired to have lots of sex. Hell, I’m not a prude myself. But how am I supposed to feel welcomed into a community that will likely get me an incurable STD and falls prey to far left talking points? It just doesn’t feel like it’s worth the effort and risk.

It is so frustrating to feel like I don’t belong. If I came out to my family, many would likely disown me for “being a heathen” even though I have never had sex or at least be uncomfortable with me. Yet the gay community - the one group that should accept me - will likely also reject me because I don’t believe Orange Man Bad or that it’s okay to be a big chaser. I am in a desert with no sign of an oasis. Perhaps most Kiwis feel this way too, albeit with other communities.

I will likely die without a sexual encounter. While that isn’t world ending, it’s not a pleasant thought to feel so alone all the time.
 
Nigger Man said:
I am a gay guy.

Does anyone here feel like that they are sandwiched between two sides? On one side, I have a conservative family that opposes homosexuality. I am out to my online friends and some of my real life friends, but not what I consider “open”. On the other, most of the gay fags are riddled with SJWism. Monstrously high STD ratings, faggot parades where they show dicks and BDSM in front of children, and fucking ten guys a day.

I am all for free expression of sex and I understand that we are hardwired to have lots of sex. Hell, I’m not a prude myself. But how am I supposed to feel welcomed into a community that will likely get me an incurable STD and falls prey to far left talking points? It just doesn’t feel like it’s worth the effort and risk.

It is so frustrating to feel like I don’t belong. If I came out to my family, many would likely disown me for “being a heathen” even though I have never had sex or at least be uncomfortable with me. Yet the gay community - the one group that should accept me - will likely also reject me because I don’t believe Orange Man Bad or that it’s okay to be a big chaser. I am in a desert with no sign of an oasis. Perhaps most Kiwis feel this way too, albeit with other communities.

I will likely die without a sexual encounter. While that isn’t world ending, it’s not a pleasant thought to feel so alone all the time.
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Don't mistake the "LGBT community" for all gay people. It's an image they like to promote but it's very far from the truth. In reality they just drive away the majority of nice, normal gay people. There's plenty of normal gay people looking for normal relationships. You'll find someone.
 
Where Do You Find Them? said:
Don't mistake the "LGBT community" for all gay people. It's an image they like to promote but it's very far from the truth. In reality they just drive away the majority of nice, normal gay people. There's plenty of normal gay people looking for normal relationships. You'll find someone.
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not only that but being a normal 'straight acting' guy will get you far more sane and attractive men than being a massive flamer. From what I've seen, handsome masculine men tend to avoid lisping flamers like the plague that they are, check out grindr and compare the profiles with genderspecial shit to those with something like 'masc4masc' and see who you'd rather fuck
 
The Final Troondown said:
not only that but being a normal 'straight acting' guy will get you far more sane and attractive men than being a massive flamer. From what I've seen, handsome masculine men tend to avoid lisping flamers like the plague that they are, check out grindr and compare the profiles with genderspecial shit to those with something like 'masc4masc' and see who you'd rather fuck
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I don’t have Grindr. I considered using it from time to time, but I never went with it. My main concern is what if my job catches me on the site? Granted, my profile would not scream “hookup,” but the site rightfully has a reputation for that kind of activity. The company I work for is not anti-LGBT, but expects a clean image (in a non-SJW way). Unlike this forum where I can post with relative anonymity, I would have to put out my real name with my address.

I’m all for making relatively close gay friends, platonic included, through Grindr, but there is still the issue of optics.
 
Are there not other gay apps for men? Lesbians have like 5 and they’re all infested with heterosexual couples and troons. I preferred just using the gay settings on the normal apps, like Bumble and Coffee meets Bagel.

This is can vary depending on location, but I have also found that more social oriented LGB groups on meetup will yield more normal gays.
 
Bisexual with a significant preference for women. I'd almost say lesbian but that's not really accurate cause I do find certain men attractive, but I don't like penises.
 
gay male here and never did it with other guy and never will cause I never met a likable gay
 
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Where Do You Find Them? said:
Don't mistake the "LGBT community" for all gay people. It's an image they like to promote but it's very far from the truth. In reality they just drive away the majority of nice, normal gay people. There's plenty of normal gay people looking for normal relationships. You'll find someone.
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Yeah on this topic, about 3 years ago I made the ritorded mistake of attending my local LGBT clinic/resource center's community hangout nights which reminded me exactly why I don't like to hang out with people whose only personality trait is their sexuality or gender. It was like the discourse side of Tumblr but IRL.
 
Vapewizard said:
Bisexual with a significant preference for women. I'd almost say lesbian but that's not really accurate cause I do find certain men attractive, but I don't like penises.
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I mean, would you sleep with a guy though? I can appreciate the aesthetics of an attractive man or woman, but I wouldn’t call myself bi because that appreciation only translated into a desire for sex if it was a woman.

And not to be cheesy, but now that I’m in a relationship, my sex drive has changed so that I can’t feel desire for any person- man or woman- except for my partner.

I imagine that’ll ease up when the novelty wears off, but I still cannot figure out how people pull off or even have a desire for open relationships.
 
Surf and TERF said:
I mean, would you sleep with a guy though? I can appreciate the aesthetics of an attractive man or woman, but I wouldn’t call myself bi because that appreciation only translated into a desire for sex if it was a woman.
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That's a good point. I guess I always just assumed that lesbians wouldn't find men attractive in any capacity.
 
Lesbian reporting!

I was so ashamed to admit that I liked chicks as a kid that I decided to go full Tumblr and become asexual. When I saw I didn't like men, I just couldn't accept that I liked women instead. Obviously, I grew out of it and realised I was being batshit and that I liked women and that was that. Still too anxious to approach any women I attractive or get feelings for, it's just a leap of faith that I can't bring myself to take. I don't go to any LGB or otherwise 'hang-outs' or apps, was thinking about trying one or the other... I'm not exactly desperate for a relationship, but it might be nice to TRY for one.
 
Surf and TERF said:
I mean, would you sleep with a guy though? I can appreciate the aesthetics of an attractive man or woman, but I wouldn’t call myself bi because that appreciation only translated into a desire for sex if it was a woman.

And not to be cheesy, but now that I’m in a relationship, my sex drive has changed so that I can’t feel desire for any person- man or woman- except for my partner.

I imagine that’ll ease up when the novelty wears off, but I still cannot figure out how people pull off or even have a desire for open relationships.
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I genuinely don't believe that people in open relationships are actually attracted to their partners. Either they don't find them physically attractive (due to things like hygiene issues, ugliness, fucked up teeth, etc.) or emotionally attractive (due to acting like a giant pussy or in other ways you can't respect). They don't actually desire an open relationship- these people desire a way to escape from their partner without getting labelled as a bad person for being "shallow." I've seen quite a few guys go from being in open relationships to leaving their partners for a new guy who they are now monogamous with.
 
Nigger Man said:
I am a gay guy.

Does anyone here feel like that they are sandwiched between two sides? On one side, I have a conservative family that opposes homosexuality. I am out to my online friends and some of my real life friends, but not what I consider “open”. On the other, most of the gay fags are riddled with SJWism. Monstrously high STD ratings, faggot parades where they show dicks and BDSM in front of children, and fucking ten guys a day.

I am all for free expression of sex and I understand that we are hardwired to have lots of sex. Hell, I’m not a prude myself. But how am I supposed to feel welcomed into a community that will likely get me an incurable STD and falls prey to far left talking points? It just doesn’t feel like it’s worth the effort and risk.

It is so frustrating to feel like I don’t belong. If I came out to my family, many would likely disown me for “being a heathen” even though I have never had sex or at least be uncomfortable with me. Yet the gay community - the one group that should accept me - will likely also reject me because I don’t believe Orange Man Bad or that it’s okay to be a big chaser. I am in a desert with no sign of an oasis. Perhaps most Kiwis feel this way too, albeit with other communities.

I will likely die without a sexual encounter. While that isn’t world ending, it’s not a pleasant thought to feel so alone all the time.
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I don't consider myself conservative. I'm definitely somewhere in the middle, but I feel this. Before the SJW nonsense I felt more left, but now I can't stand to be around any left-winger sjw. The problem is a good portion of the gay community, or at least the raging obviously out crowd, are flaming limpwristed dickshit homosexuals who think it's fine to fuck in public. So more often than not I don't feel like I belong at all. That also goes along with the orange man bad, everyone should be a socialist bs which I can't stand..

I've been single for a long time.. and it's depressing, but I feel like I'd rather be forever alone than fitting in with the rest of the community.
 
Nigger Man said:
I am a gay guy.

Does anyone here feel like that they are sandwiched between two sides? On one side, I have a conservative family that opposes homosexuality. I am out to my online friends and some of my real life friends, but not what I consider “open”. On the other, most of the gay fags are riddled with SJWism. Monstrously high STD ratings, faggot parades where they show dicks and BDSM in front of children, and fucking ten guys a day.

I am all for free expression of sex and I understand that we are hardwired to have lots of sex. Hell, I’m not a prude myself. But how am I supposed to feel welcomed into a community that will likely get me an incurable STD and falls prey to far left talking points? It just doesn’t feel like it’s worth the effort and risk.

It is so frustrating to feel like I don’t belong. If I came out to my family, many would likely disown me for “being a heathen” even though I have never had sex or at least be uncomfortable with me. Yet the gay community - the one group that should accept me - will likely also reject me because I don’t believe Orange Man Bad or that it’s okay to be a big chaser. I am in a desert with no sign of an oasis. Perhaps most Kiwis feel this way too, albeit with other communities.

I will likely die without a sexual encounter. While that isn’t world ending, it’s not a pleasant thought to feel so alone all the time.
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just try putting a dick in your mouth

like, a small one
 
Nigger Man said:
I don’t have Grindr. I considered using it from time to time, but I never went with it. My main concern is what if my job catches me on the site? Granted, my profile would not scream “hookup,” but the site rightfully has a reputation for that kind of activity. The company I work for is not anti-LGBT, but expects a clean image (in a non-SJW way). Unlike this forum where I can post with relative anonymity, I would have to put out my real name with my address.

I’m all for making relatively close gay friends, platonic included, through Grindr, but there is still the issue of optics.
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How would someone from your job "catch" you on grindr unless they were on there themselves? If they're actively seeking out people's profiles on dating apps to look for excuses to fire you, then it's a weird place to work and I'd probably be looking for other employment anyway, tbqhwy.
 
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