that's not awful trolling, that's facts. I'm sorry if I hurt your fee-fees with my geography, why don't you get your mom to make you some hot coco so you can feel better.
No, but you can talk to someone online from a different country and then meet them in person if you like them. And I don't worship rapists, but I'm sure I can find someone for you who does. I have a lot of weird friends.
I could also theoretically be a match with somebody from my country, which would make things a lot easier. Except I can't, since I'm living in a feminist shithole and no women wants a decent man here.
As for for feminism and rape, feminism makes women look for morons. In time this produces children so stupid and feral that they don't care about any consent and just rape the first woman on the street they see.
Well that's why I said it could work for you to pursue something meaningful outside of your country. It's a sacrifice but I guarantee you it can be worth it, I've seen it happen to friends of mine.
No, you missed my question entirely, but I'll explain further - I live in a country that eastern women won't come to, while women from countries west of me are even more worthless, if that's even possible.
Sorry, I haven't been able to get in touch with her (she went out of town recently but she'll be back this weekend) but I was trying to tell her to make a reddit account. She said that's what she wanted to do before so that you guys could talk and get to know one another before you start giving personal information out. I'll let you know when she does and I'll give you her username so you guys can exchange pictures, talk, whatever
Just understand one thing. I don't care about talking to her, really. I am extremely intolerant, impatient and coarse. I am interested in her coming over here after the most brief talk. I have no interest in her personality or anything. In fact, I know there is none and that being interested in anything more than sex with a modern Western women gets you insane hatred.
So are you just looking for a sex doll...? If that's the case, why don't you buy one? It would make you less angry about the world and not having a woman to lie down, shut up and take your cock.
Also, you might be surprised to find that you actually enjoy many aspects of her personality. She's a very unique person. Did you not consider this before you shut down the idea of giving it a shot to get to know her on at least a semi-deep level? She's a very generous person with her sexual partners; she has no issue dropping her pants at any given moment to please whoever she is with. However, she does not sleep around and wouldn't come to meet you without first developing some kind of a bond first.
I don't want a sex doll. I just think modern western women are repulsed by men wanting them for anything but sex. It is sad, since I'd like a soulmate, but true. There isn't a bigger example of this than my first gf, who was an extremely specific person and the closest I've ever met in terms of intelligence compared to me.
So what happened? She left me after 8 months before we even had sex and lost her virginity to some brain damaged dirtbag who never called her back. So much for asking women for more than sex.
No, that's just an example of a girl who was al pari with me intellectually. I had plenty of bad experiences but none of them were so close to me in terms of personality and intellect.
My point is that I don't care about your friend's personality. In fact, I am in great fear that I will be arrested if I try anything but sex.
And again, she would be very willing to have tons of sex with you if she got to know you first. You have some flaws but I do think she would like you as a person. She likes to be challenged and to discuss issues like the ones you're passionate about. She's also interested in the type of guy you are because she feels that she can relate to that as she has been deeply hurt in the past; she knows how cold and inconsistent people can be and how it plays negatively out in a relationship. If you're not at all interested in getting to know her as a human being before she considers going to see you in order to have a physical relationship (which would be a ridiculous move if the person she is going to see won't even take a chance to get to know her) then I will tell her you're not interested.
She's also interested in the type of guy you are because she feels that she can relate to that as she has been deeply hurt in the past; she knows how cold and inconsistent people can be and how it plays negatively out in a relationship.
But I don't want to get hurt anymore. In fact, by now I have developed such a mindset that I no longer can.
Sorry, I just can't take a woman seriously anymore.
Even if I met a non-western woman I'd just have her like I have a submissive dog and would look for friendship somewhere else.
It's sad but that's what society created out of me.
I really can relate to your pain in this article you wrote. I can see why you're so guarded now; I feel that I understand where your attitudes toward women come from since you've had an experience that seem to justify it. However, I'd like to ask you to consider the idea that you're making an incredible generalization based on the negative experience you had. For example, my marriage is based on the things that you say don't exist in the western world and the relationships that exist in it. My husband is the most gentle person I've ever met in my entire life; he shies away from confrontation, anything that has to do with violence toward myself or others, anything that could possibly hurt another being at all (if he can help it, of course.) Because of these qualities, I am insanely sexually attracted to him. It's not even his looks at all (which, according to the standards of society, are not good although I see nothing wrong with his appearance) - I'm demisexual, meaning that I can't become sexually attracted to a person based on looks. I do have a high sex drive, but I'm not attracted to many people at all. In order to achieve that with a person, I must first form an emotional bond that is unique enough for my libido to 'heat up'. Simply based off of his gentle, sweet, genuine qualities, I am very attracted to him more than anybody I've ever been attracted to before. So, knowing your opinions on the western world and women like myself who live in it, how do you interpret the information I just gave you about myself and my marriage?
But other than that, I'm glad you've admitted that all of this is simply a defense mechanism that keeps you from feeling the pain that you've had to endure and probably continue to experience. I don't believe that you're actually this extreme or that you can't grasp the concepts that I'm throwing at you; it's simply easier for you to pretend that the world is exactly the way you spell it out to be. If it keeps you from getting hurt again, then why not? Right? Also, it allows you to act out some revenge on your exes who hurt you. You now have this platform to preach to the world that people who are similar to your ex are bad and not deserving of love, and some people may listen to you and avoid those people as well. I wonder if you feel fulfilled in doing this or if it has just kept you above water so that you don't suffer from a complete breakdown.
I say all of this with respect, of course. I'm simply giving you my perspective on this situation.
But other than that, I'm glad you've admitted that all of this is simply a defense mechanism that keeps you from feeling the pain that you've had to endure and probably continue to experience. I don't believe that you're actually this extreme or that you can't grasp the concepts that I'm throwing at you; it's simply easier for you to pretend that the world is exactly the way you spell it out to be. If it keeps you from getting hurt again, then why not? Right?
Not really. You actually can't understand them so realizing that keeps me from being hurt.
Just like realizing I will likely die if I jump from a 20 store building keeps me from doing that. It doesn't mean I actually wouldn't die if I jump.
Why does that make you laugh...? I don't understand. I'm trying to engage in an honest conversation with you but you seem to be making fun of me instead. Also, you didn't answer my question about your opinion about my marriage...but if you're just going to mock it, then I would rather not. If you'd like to give me a real, honest and respectful answer then I'd like to see it.
It makes me laugh cause you're a woman. To say that you can relate to my experience in any way is just disgusting. In terms of dating/sex/relationships you were spoon fed with a golden spoon all of your life while I was starving and eating shit to survive.
DO YOU UNDERSTAND? The idea that you can relate to me is the craziest fucking thing I have read in a while. And I read a lot of crazy shit from idiots online.
Just because I'm a woman doesn't mean I haven't been badly hurt in the past. Also, I wasn't just referring to myself...I have many important loved ones in my life, most of whom happen to be male, and I've seen them go through similar things while I've helped them through it. You're shutting down my perspective despite the fact that you hardly know anything about me and cannot open your mind to the idea that I might understand more than you think.
If your major issue is who you can have sex with, then maybe you should try not to prioritize sex. I understand that it's a natural biological function and that you have urges; but again, I know many men who have successfully lowered the importance of it in their lives. They either take another route (again, fleshlites, sex dolls, hookers, etc.) or they simply disciplined themselves to make life okay without getting laid all the time. If you're angry at the world, at women, at an entire hemisphere of the globe because of sex, then maybe you should consider changing the only things you can control. True, you have little control over the desire to have sex...but again, there are options for you. You cannot control the things you choose to direct your anger toward, and that only makes you more angry. You're going through a cycle that only has negative outcomes for you in the end.
My mayor issue is that I can't leave the femisphere to find a wife. I am telling you about sex because that's the only thing you, as a western woman, can understand. If I were telling you about relationships it would be like telling my dog about Hegel - a waste of time.
I am not being "defensive" because I'm vulnerable but because you have no fucking idea what you're talking about.
Your notion that you could compare yourself to me, who has never had anything and would kill millions to get a fucking blowjob, let alone a wife, is insane.
And yes you define what I can and can't understand based on where I live. Do you shut down everyone you have a conversation with? Also, I'm curious, if you're so frustrated with me then why are you still talking to me?
And yes you define what I can and can't understand based on where I live.
Yes. I wasn't always like that but then realized that virtually all western women are crazy. In most mainstream sources you hear these dumb Pollyannish stories about people realizing how they were wrong to have some prejudice.
I suffered a reverse process, in which I realized I was wrong not to have prejudice.
Do you shut down everyone you have a conversation with?
No. Just women who say that they can relate to a pain of a male incel.
if you're so frustrated with me then why are you still talking to me?
If you haven't figured it out yet, your messages stop being read quite early in my reading of them.
I told you what to read so you may understand mine. Darkness - feb 26.
I don't need to read your thoughts to know what they are. I've seen all of it maybe a million times before I started cutting those saying the crap you do off.
That last sentence didn't even make sense. And yeah, I'm familiar with your ideology too. I've read about this quite extensively. But my point is that if you're not going to take the time to read my points then I won't read yours. It's called a respectful conversation where both sides are heard. You don't know how to do that because you think you're the only one with something of value to say. That's all your opinion, and you seem to think pretty highly of yourself. I think you could benefit from deflating your ego a bit.
ash, the post i linked to doesn't say a single word about my ideology. it is about my life and experiences with women. i am often told it is my most poignant and disturbing post.
But your ideology was formulated around your life and experiences. Again, I'd be happy to read it if you actually engaged in a discussion with me as an equal.
In fact, while my ideology was helped by these experiences what framed my views were certain books and studies. It is crucial that you read the Darkness post. I think you will understand why I react the way I do. I have been through hell. There is no way I will ever be healthy or normal again.
I'd be interested to read it, but again, you haven't addressed my main concern with moving forward in this conversation. Also, I've been through hell in my life as well. You may not think it from talking to me (as you seem to think you have me figured out with you generalizations) but I've endured one of the most brutal upbringings that I know of (not that you'd be interested, though.) Our struggles may be different, but I guarantee you that I'm no stranger to hardships. That's why I'm patient with people who are broken; whether or not we have suffered the same, I do know what it's like to bathe in the pits of severe depression, frequent thoughts of suicide/homicide, etc. (which stem from bad genes and multiple traumas on either side of the coin, or at least I'm assuming is the case with you as well.)
But anyway, my offer is still up if you'd like to address my concern I expressed in my last messages.
Well, I can understand you have had horrible experiences but my point still stands - you can't relate to a male incel.
It's sad but it is how it is. If I had most other problems you could relate but a male incel to a woman is like bull seeing red - you go fucking crazy. I am sorry if this sounds harsh but believe me, I had to learn the hard way.
but you don't need any particular insight to know this isn't true, especially with somebody as ruthless as i am. i will show you my recent conversation with somebody.
Yeah exactly, that's not ruthless. You're a wuss to scared to do anything but sit on a forum, that's pretty much the opposite of ruthless. You're an asshole with an opinion like everyone else on the internet. Congratulations.