I am not utterly confused about sex. In fact I would say more often it is the men who are confused about sex, or at least, how to make sex enjoyable for their partner. I don't know, because I have never had sex because I am autistic, overweight and pretty ugly, but from what I hear many men tend to just jackhammer the women they are with and entirely ignore foreplay, clitoral stimulation etc which is key to enjoyment and orgasms for women. Many of them are also fooled by a woman faking an orgasm.
I make a habit of avoiding most unfamiliar men because many of them (like
@Hikikomori-Yume) seem to have pedophilic/hebephilic urges. I think that most heterosexual men are fucked in the head. When you ask them what they love about women, usually they will mention how soft they are, how soft their breasts are etc. You know what is even softer than a woman? A prepubescent child. On top of the neotenous traits of women like short stature, high voice, lack of facial hair I am also not sure if it is porn or what but most of them prefer a woman who is hairless from the neck down and is a virgin. It seems like they want to penetrate something that is childlike.