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"Emotional soul searching." She's being gaslit. No one "comes out" as poly. It's not a sexuality. They want to bone other people and found the right group and terminology to facilitate their desire. I'd be interested in seeing just how quickly her husband talks about a new partner because I wouldn't be surprised if he already has someone waiting in the wings.
 
Lydia of Whiterun said:
"Emotional soul searching." She's being gaslit. No one "comes out" as poly. It's not a sexuality. They want to bone other people and found the right group and terminology to facilitate their desire. I'd be interested in seeing just how quickly her husband talks about a new partner because I wouldn't be surprised if he already has someone waiting in the wings.
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She isn't being gaslit because that would assume that only the husband was in on it - however the's a full poly community that's backing up what he says (and books! don't forget those) and to say that they are all wrong would be un-#woke.

She's being emotionally blackmailed into joining a cult; with her husband holding himself hostage.
 
None of these people have any self-respect or security at all. If my significant other wanted to bring someone else into the relationship it would be over right away
 
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Wow, it's almost as if he's in an emotionally abusive relationship with someone who is a raging hypocrite/narcissist and should drop that chick.
 
Lydia of Whiterun said:
Wow, it's almost as if he's in an emotionally abusive relationship with someone who is a raging hypocrite/narcissist and should drop that chick.
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I wonder if he has a hobby or behavior that perhaps would make her think he's less of a man or perhaps likes being abused on some level?

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Someone alert the science geeks: r/polyamory has the world's largest collection of bipedal invertebrates :story:

Lydia of Whiterun said:
Wow, it's almost as if he's in an emotionally abusive relationship with someone who is a raging hypocrite/narcissist and should drop that chick.
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Tanner Glass said:
I wonder if he has a hobby or behavior that perhaps would make her think he's less of a man or perhaps likes being abused on some level?

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> She's a narcissistic bitch fucking a homeless drug addict in the same house as her family lives
> He's a spineless cissy boy faggot who probably sprung his AGP-fueled crossdressing on his family with no warning
>They both agreed to a poly relationship to try to fix their irreparable dysfunctional coupling

No heroes here, only villians
 
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That's just a way of telling her he's been cheating, in a manner that makes him look like the victim. Trying to group being polyamorous with sexualities is one of the most exceptional and manipulative things I've ever seen.
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I mean, basically same shit as Stacy coming out as into cucking her male partners once she realized fatter dicks existed, but she also wants his financial aid or a backup plan.
 
Ugh, I just sat and read this entire thread and it got me right in the feels; I kept switching from :story: to :feels: and back again as it went on.

I had a friend in her early 20s who was into poly and kept asking people why they weren't comfortable with the idea, or even discussing the idea. Her attitude was that monogamy = "territorialisation" and that it's natural for people to want to fuck around, poly/open relationships just allow it to happen without cheating.

I told her that I didn't like the idea because I don't want to be lying in bed at home, alone, depressed, while someone I love is banging some random dude. I told her that I didn't want someone else to be getting the sex while I deal with all of the emotional difficult stuff. She said "oh but that's a bad poly relationship, most of them aren't like that."

I gave that a big X to doubt. We ended up agreeing to disagree.

I'm so glad no-one I've dated has ever tried to pull this bs on me. "If you don't allow me to bang other people, it's over." Like, what can you do in response to that? "Okay it's over" is the best response, of course, because by then it really is - but I can understand that if you love someone deeply you might want to try to cling on to whatever part of their life you can still have. And you just know that if the partner says "okay it's over", the poly person will be like "omg he broke up with me because he was too closed-minded to accept who I really am bawwwwwww".

I can't even with these people, as the millennials say.
 
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I mean, yeah, she already kinda blew it, but props for trying.

But not committing adultery is literally one of the Ten Commandments. Letting your fiancé sleep around on you is pretty clearly adultery. Why on earth would she think that that, of all things, is the best solution??
 
Tanner Glass said:
I'm not a religious scholar, but I'm pretty sure that you can't have pre-marital sex constantly for at least 5 years and then stop and have it still count as "respecting the religion/institute of marriage" - doubly so if your solution to the problem is polyamory.
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You don't have to be religious to read Aristotle... Who by the way says that vices are not ACTS, but HABITS.

Who the fuck would believe Groom Manwhore will control himself based on his word alone?
 
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