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TLDR: An insecure idiot hooks up with an emotionally manipulative cunt and ends up more broken once things go south, as per usual
 
2-year old daughter
What in the world made her believe that she would be a competent mother. It sounds to me like one of those poor children who’s always being taken care of by her grandparents while her emotionally immature mother fucks around and neglects her own child.
 
What in the world made her believe that she would be a competent mother. It sounds to me like one of those poor children who’s always being taken care of by her grandparents while her emotionally immature mother fucks around and neglects her own child.
You answered your own question.
 
I find it a little odd that all these brand-new polys all seem to meet their partners "at a bar" or "at a party". Surely polygamy is not so common, and socially acceptable, that you can just randomly run into people practising it and have it come up in conversation. I feel like it's the sort of thing you'd really have to go looking for. So either they're lying to hide the fact that they met their fuckbuddies under much more degenerate circumstances, or you have a lot of polyamorous couples staking out bars and parties looking for easy targets to add to their house of madness. I'm not sure which is worse.
 
I find it a little odd that all these brand-new polys all seem to meet their partners "at a bar" or "at a party". Surely polygamy is not so common, and socially acceptable, that you can just randomly run into people practising it and have it come up in conversation. I feel like it's the sort of thing you'd really have to go looking for. So either they're lying to hide the fact that they met their fuckbuddies under much more degenerate circumstances, or you have a lot of polyamorous couples staking out bars and parties looking for easy targets to add to their house of madness. I'm not sure which is worse.
I knew someone at my work who was dating a poly guy at one point. It’s common enough now where it does pop up, especially if you’re meeting people at parties and bars where immature people who are just looking to fuck hang out anyways.
 
We got to talking about my ex and how he wanted to "be poly" but I didn't so I left him. Something my mate touched on, which I got me thinking is this: People who are poly are scared to be alone or single. They always need to have the next person lined up or as a fallback in case they, God forbid, end up single.

An inability to ever be single combined with an extreme aversion to commitment and a staggering inability to keep their pants on.

It's pretty much a symptom of poor executive functioning, which is why their lives tend to be complete train wrecks caused by tumbling down the slalom hill of terrible life decisions. Even outside of the poly thing.
 
I find it a little odd that all these brand-new polys all seem to meet their partners "at a bar" or "at a party". Surely polygamy is not so common, and socially acceptable, that you can just randomly run into people practising it and have it come up in conversation. I feel like it's the sort of thing you'd really have to go looking for. So either they're lying to hide the fact that they met their fuckbuddies under much more degenerate circumstances, or you have a lot of polyamorous couples staking out bars and parties looking for easy targets to add to their house of madness. I'm not sure which is worse.
I’d imagine it depends on how liberal/conservative your area is. Certain places are probably hives for this kind of thing.
 
I’d imagine it depends on how liberal/conservative your area is. Certain places are probably hives for this kind of thing.
I think they also hold matchmaking events specific to that community. They might take place in bars sometimes.
 
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Who could have seen this coming? Another poor woman being thrown away like tissue paper because her dickhead partner is too shit to keep it in his pants
Well maybe those feelings of selfishness is because you are being selfish by not paying enough attention to what is essentially your common law spouse.

The solution is to commit to a partner and stop being a degenerate piece of shit.
 
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Who could have seen this coming? Another poor woman being thrown away like tissue paper because her dickhead partner is too shit to keep it in his pants
Eh, she was the one more interested, until he found someone. Sounds like both are shitheads. She wanted him to stick around while she cucked him, and now has regrets once he realized he can get sex from others too.

So a normal level of trainwreck for r/polymory.
 
Wife experiences cognitive dissonance (thread) (archive)

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She could say "Darling, I love you with all my heart, but I also need other cocks. Don't worry, you'll be free to get other pussies. But try to don't get more pussy than the cock I get, that'd be toxic for me.
Oh, and if they are more attractive than me, they aren't good for you.
And be prepared for unwarranted, completely unnecessary emotional turmoil, jealousy, feeling of worthlessness and depression.
Oh, and check out this reddit thread that demonstrates of STDs aren't a real thing..."

That's the kind of talk every couple considering to open up the relationship should have. See if they want to still do it.
 
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