began dating at 16 and after rough family situations that I don't want to get into, began living together on our own shortly after. I came out as FTM 2 years ago and started testosterone right after. Before this, I identified as nonbinary for a LONG time. Early on in our relationship, my partner came out as gay and explained he didn't see me as a woman because of my gender identity (this is a good thing). He also came out as asexual during our relationship.
You can't be gay and asexual. To be gay is to be sexually attracted to men as a man. To be asexual means you don't feel sexual attraction. Your boyfriend lied to you and you believed it because you're fucken dumb.
... And he says "..I'm still fairly asexual, which doesn't help, but the sexual desire I do feel is for men with penises. I don't know why. Sex with you feels good, but it's nothing more than a stimulant. When we have sex I don't think about how hot you are or that it's some fantasy."
It sort of felt like my entire world ended.
I asked him "If I got phallo would that make a difference? I don't plan to, but would it change anything?" And he said "I honestly don't know... could you use it?". I've offered so many times to do penetrative things for him using toys and other things, he has always declined.
I asked if we weren't together if he'd be experimenting with cis guys... he said yes. I then asked "You always watch porn with cis men in it, have you ever thought about watching porn with trans men?"
No, he hasn't, because he is a gay man, and women with their tits cut off are not men.
...
I tried so hard to make this work because, although disappointing, I could compromise and work with him not feeling sexual attraction. But this ENTIRE time it was just me. It wasn't a lack of sexual attraction, it was a lack of sexual attraction for ME.
Yeah. You're a woman and he's a gay man. Is there some additional mystery here to which I am not privy?
I spent the last 5 years constantly feeling inferior compared to cis men, never feeling as attractive, worried he found them sexier. Time after time again he promised me that it was just my insecurities and that I was enough for him... it was all a fucking lie.
I know you don't mean that you can't change the fact that you're a woman, because you already think you're a man.
I am heartbroken, I am fucking angry and confused. As accepting and open-minded as I want to be, I will NEVER understand where he's coming from. I will never believe him when he promised me "I see you as a man and I know you are, my body just doesn't agree with me".
I open instagram for the first time in months. It’s a throwaway random account on a VPN, just follows cute animal and interesting art shit, so this in no way is an algorithm feeding me something based on the account interacts. There was a little ad for threads on the main feed. It was a few posts, but if you clicked on them, it prompted you to join threads. This post was the first in the horizontal list. Front and center. After a “What in the actual fuck” moment, I read the caption.
Notice the lesbian flag and the troon flag on each arm. 12. Going for an ADHD assessment which is clearly a desired diagnosis. It’s beyond parody.
This is the fuller profile. There is something deeply sick and wrong with millennials.
I open instagram for the first time in months. It’s a throwaway random account on a VPN, just follows cute animal and interesting art shit, so this in no way is an algorithm feeding me something based on the account interacts. There was a little ad for threads on the main feed. It was a few posts, but if you clicked on them, it prompted you to join threads. This post was the first in the horizontal list. Front and center. After a “What in the actual fuck” moment, I read the caption.
Notice the lesbian flag and the troon flag on each arm. 12. Going for an ADHD assessment which is clearly a desired diagnosis. It’s beyond parody.
This is the fuller profile. There is something deeply sick and wrong with millennials.
I open instagram for the first time in months. It’s a throwaway random account on a VPN, just follows cute animal and interesting art shit, so this in no way is an algorithm feeding me something based on the account interacts. There was a little ad for threads on the main feed. It was a few posts, but if you clicked on them, it prompted you to join threads. This post was the first in the horizontal list. Front and center. After a “What in the actual fuck” moment, I read the caption.
Notice the lesbian flag and the troon flag on each arm. 12. Going for an ADHD assessment which is clearly a desired diagnosis. It’s beyond parody.
This is the fuller profile. There is something deeply sick and wrong with millennials.
There's also a gay male flag one (the one that's blues and white), and aromantic. Can't make out a couple of the others. I had to rack my brain to recall a couple of those, and I've seen some shit. There is no way a 12 year old came up with those niche level flags on their own unless Mom is showing him those. Which, given that she wants her kid to have ADHD like her, makes that very likely.
Munchie-by-proxy is galactically more common than most normies will ever suspect, and this keeps our tranny threads alive, healthy, and vital exactly like trannies themselves are not.
Im a 26 yo trans girl who can't believe they're gone. I joined the army out of high school, did some time in iraq and somewhere along the way my parents stopped coming to see me and stopped calling. By the time I got out of the army the relationship with my folks was nonexistent, so when I came out as trans it took a while for them to find out. I didn't go out of my way to tell them at first but one day my father and I talked about how I had just met my now wife, and that she accepted me for me. I explained to him who I was and that was the day he told me he didn't want to see me anymore. He said we could call and talk to one another every now and again, but I wasn't allowed back at home. We stopped talking after that. My mom came to see me later on, and begged me to stop and come to my senses. Last year, she reached out to my wife asking to know me, the real me. We talked, and she clutched her pearls as I told her how I felt before vs after coming out, how much happier I was, and how I cared little for life until I found myself. But she kept to her Christian values that say its wrong, spouting off about how "there were never any signs" and how its really hard for her to accept me. So I gave up. It's been almost a decade since I left home. And now that I don't have a childhood home to go back to I can't help but feel my heart get heavy, and tears fill my eyes. It's just me and the family I make now, but as I look to the future, I want to be a mother, and my grandmother was the world to me, but my kids won't know theirs. There'll be less people in the world who love them because of me. Because me coming out really put the final nail in the coffin, and somehow knowing that its not my fault doesn't make me feel much better. I've since gone no contactish, she could still hit my wife up and I'd hear whatever she had to say but she can't call me directly anymore. Some days I wish she would. To have just one of the 4 parental figures that raised me in my corner would be enough to bring me to tears. To have someone to bring my life's achievements to who cares to see them feels like a pipe dream that I can't help but want.
TLDR some people shouldn't have kids. Not looking for advice or anything, I just can't hold it in anymore.
Key quotes:
... By the time I got out of the army the relationship with my folks was nonexistent, so when I came out as trans it took a while for them to find out. ...
... My mom came to see me later on, and begged me to stop and come to my senses. Last year, she reached out to my wife asking to know me, the real me. We talked, and she clutched her pearls as I told her how I felt before vs after coming out, how much happier I was, and how I cared little for life until I found myself. But she kept to her Christian values that say its wrong, spouting off about how "there were never any signs" ,,,
asexual. To be gay is to be sexually attracted to men as a man. To be asexual means you don't feel sexual attraction. Your boyfriend lied to you and you believed it because you're fucken dumb.
I open instagram for the first time in months. It’s a throwaway random account on a VPN, just follows cute animal and interesting art shit, so this in no way is an algorithm feeding me something based on the account interacts. There was a little ad for threads on the main feed. It was a few posts, but if you clicked on them, it prompted you to join threads. This post was the first in the horizontal list. Front and center. After a “What in the actual fuck” moment, I read the caption.
Notice the lesbian flag and the troon flag on each arm. 12. Going for an ADHD assessment which is clearly a desired diagnosis. It’s beyond parody.
This is the fuller profile. There is something deeply sick and wrong with millennials.
This woman has ADHD (of course), she has a therapist, the kid has depression and ADHD, she has 3 cats and a dog, the house is a mess, she's fat, you just know she's a walking emotional abyss desperately clutching at any scrap of online attention to give her a dopamine hit and distract her from the pointless whimsical crunchy mom life she's stuck in. Poor fuckin kid
The Bluesky trannies are sharing the following post, that shares a graphic reporting that the unemployment level for MtFs is around twice as high as the EU average:
Of course, this is all the cissies' fault, and has nothing to do with the fact that MtFs are unemployable freaks who, in the off-chance they manage to secure a job, will turn up to it unshowered, wearing cat ears and/or a maid outfit.
You can't be gay and asexual. To be gay is to be sexually attracted to men as a man. To be asexual means you don't feel sexual attraction. Your boyfriend lied to you and you believed it because you're fucken dumb.
According to Asexual/Aromantic people's logic, both definitions dont mean that you dont feel sexual/romantic attraction towards your partners, it just means you have very little of it. Honestly? Lets say we take their definition at their word, why would anyone want to be in a relationship with these people if they told you that they dont feel that romantically attracted to you? Unless they're going to pull the BS "You're the exception" then this sounds like a relationship that wont last long. It would be like if a homosexual said they're gay but made the exception to be in both a romantic and sexual relationship with someone of the opposite sex.
Of course, this is all the cissies' fault, and has nothing to do with the fact that MtFs are unemployable freaks who, in the off-chance they manage to secure a job, will turn up to it unshowered, wearing cat ears and/or a maid outfit.
So "cis" (both men and women regardless of sexuality and making up nearly the whole population)
roughly 4% unemployed (indicating the economy is not great but not totally terrible).
Which is significantly better than EU average, but about right for the USA right now.
There aren't really enough gender non-conformers to bring up the EU average,
so the main takeaway is the USA is better off right now,
Gay men and lesbians slightly better off than general population. Bi worse but not dramatically.
Maybe all within margin of error?
But there's a good possibility gender non-conformers are over-represented in the self selected poll sample,
which means the comparison to EU average is meaningless propaganda that proves nothing.
Munchie-by-proxy is galactically more common than most normies will ever suspect, and this keeps our tranny threads alive, healthy, and vital exactly like trannies themselves are not.
It’s gotten to the point where a LOT of universities are no longer accepting HEDS patients for instance (hyper mobile EDS), and it’s like an omg genocide according to the FTM girlies.
