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Well, yes. But how many of them are those mythical majority of women who write straight couple fics? If you look into statistics of Ao3 the gay is twice if not thrice the size of the straight ships and the straight ship category is shared by both male and female writers.

Wattpad is known for it's... questionable quality, ReaderX(character) stuff and kid writers, so no "good straight couple" content here.

I'd expect even that to have changed in recent years given other recent trends
Yes. There are more male gooners writing now than before, although they usually branch out into visual novel stuff.

yaoi is an online phenomenon
Heated rivalry begs to differ. The book/comic section always had a section for this kind of thing. Gay fanfiction used to be printed in magazines before the internet. "Interview with a vampire" writer and similar women like her were also around before. I would say, the phenomenon *was* rather underground at the beginning but it grew and grew, especially with internet coming into picture. The image of it being this innocent online underground phenomenon is what lets these women play the victim, claiming their community must be therefore harassed for no reason.

If you talk to a fujoshit and give her a thought experiment how the dynamic in her ship would work if the mc was female, she will shoot it down. "It would never work like this between a man and a woman", "X as a woman would never end up in such situation", "B and X are more like siblings/friends". And it doesn't stop here, they police all potential straight ships in a similar manner. Suddenly it all becomes "creepy and questionable", "forced and X-normative" when it's not two yaaas king white twinks fucking. As if there is a certain npc checkmark list inside their heads. How a bish must be buttbroken in childhood to turn into this is better left unspoken.

You have to remember that the reason these race wars are so noticeable is that these people claim to be anti-racist.
I am sorry for missing this post but still want to reply.

Because yes! Yaoi girlies wear the anti-racist pin on their giant bagpack with pride among the endless pins alluding to some gay hentai they shlick to. They are also pround feminists! Rad fems even! Lesbians! Bisexual edgy dom loli mommies with gazilion of totally real female lovers behind their sleeves of all sorts of backgrounds and ethnicities!

Meaning, they love to claim to be all that they aren't. This is the ultimate weapon against a fujoshit. Call her a misogynist/straight woman obsessed with WHUITE cock and she breaks down. You are ruining her ultimate power fantasy, dawg!
 
AO3 is 53% female +[x]% genderspecials (likely women)
Wattpad skews 70% female
Literotica and Fanfiction.net skew closer to 50/50 though I'd expect even that to have changed in recent years given other recent trends

I'd also reiterate here that the reason actual printed smut catches more flak than yaoi, is because yaoi is an online phenomenon, and ergo mostly unknown to the average person.
A community survey with methodology explained (Archive) was conducted by a turbowoke AO3 poweruser with more fine-grained gender breakdowns (who constantly apologizes for treading on fragile woke toes with the question phrasing and demographic breakdown, even sneeding about responses that said "sex not gender" on the gender identity question lol).

The "are you a tranny" question and the "gender identity" question were broken down into different components, but the survey conductor helpfully provided a chart combining the data from the two questions.
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Assuming that every answer is honest and "Prefer not to say + All other responses" are female genderspecials, the percentage of males on AO3 (cis male + trans female) is 3,1%, while the percentage of females is 97%. Male genderspecials and "prefer not to say" may knock 1-2% percentage points off the female share at most, but it still means that in the best case, men are outnumbered by women on AO3 20:1.
No one is saying that lesbians can't enjoy m/m romance if they relate to it and vice versa with gays and yuri romance. What these people aren't understanding is the weird fetishizing that a lot of these women (who claim to be lesbians) do. If you like the romance that's fine, but if you create very NSFW art of the two guys having sexual intercourse or making out then can you call yourself a lesbian? This would be like if I as a straight guy made NSFW art of two guys, but still claim to be straight. You can't tell me that wouldn't raise eyebrows.
I consider this a weird double standard in favor of women as well, because if a straight man said he liked Heated Rivalry or whatever fagslop the fujoshis are gooning to right now, he would raise eyebrows too. The male logic of sexuality is very simple: being into any sort of faggotry means that you are not straight. Prison gays and gay4pays may be granted an exception, but this is still debatable. If a man desires traps or troons or anything that isn't a true and honest female with tits and a vagina when female options are available, he s a sexual deviant. Male sexuality also disregards self-identification and only considers biology, meaning that a man attracted to a no-HRT he/they pooner with her tits and pussy intact is still straight, while a man attracted to a she/her troon with the girlcock intact is not.

It seems like fujoshis are coping that their female sexual attraction is somehow different and multi-layered unlike le moidz' ooga booga me like boob and pussy and/or cock. They end up in AI hallucination reasoning loops with bizarre conclusions like "a lesbian can get sexually aroused by gay porn because she's actually into the emotions, not the two hung jocks". If we apply the simple male sexuality framework to them, we get a clear conclusion: "lesbians" who get off to any form of sexual content focusing on biological males with cock and balls are bisexual (also gets off to biological females with tits and vagina) or straight (males only). Simple as.
As if there is a certain npc checkmark list inside their heads. How a bish must be buttbroken in childhood to turn into this is better left unspoken.
The AO3 survey contained another alarming statistic: 90% of the userbase, which is 97% female and 68% white (79% if mutts, spics and kikes are included), identifies as LGBTQ+.
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This statistical anomaly within a white female supermajority paints a clear picture: AO3 and everything associated with it is a model example of social failure caused by destructive ideologies driven by female peer pressure. I would like to propose a Unifying Autistic Theory of Fujoshis originating from this principle to explain the explosion of fujoshism itself in the 21st century.
Current leading theories:

Fujoshis are gender non-conforming tomboy girls who feel uncomfortable with stereotypical gender roles, and don't want to imagine women in their fantasies because women remind them of female gender roles or Fujoshis are heterosexual women who want to see two hot guys instead of one hot guy - does not explain why yaoi is so feminine and aligns perfectly with heterosexual gender roles

Fujoshis are gender-conforming girly girls who feel inadequate when they think of Stacy, and prefer to write her out of their fantasies - does not explain why they can't be like BookTok and write relatable plain jane female self inserts

Fujoshis want to be NLOG - does not explain why they participate in a subculture full of other girls just like them

To address the flaws of the current leading theories, I would like to propose:

Fujoshis are heterosexual girls of all persuasions who have been browbeaten by woke leftism that being a traditional heterosexual female is haram, and yaoi is their dogwhistle for traditional female heterosexuality.

Woke leftism hates and wants to subvert all traditional principles. The traditional Western relationship ideal, grounded in biological instincts, is a man and a woman, monogamous, committed, raising biological children together. The traditional man is the leader and provider of the household, while the traditional woman is the nurturer and maintainer of the household. Woke leftism subverts the relationship ideal to encourage short-term unstable relationships, homosexuality, non-committal sex with multiple partners, and single motherhood or permanent childlessness. The subverted man is sensitive and submissive to authority, while the subverted woman is abrasive and locked in a gender war against men. The traditional ideal is seen as a great evil within woke leftism that must be criticized and destroyed.

Woke leftism has a chokehold on Western women, and ideology is more like game theory for them than something they genuinely believe in. If everyone in their social circle believes in something, they must agree with it or risk social suicide. However, their biological desire for the traditional relationship ideal is still there. They're stuck in a tough place: they cannot explicitly declare to their woke social circle that they are heterosexual feminine white women who desire a monogamous marriage and biological children with a masculine white man, because the religion of woke leftism has taught them that this is an evil sin that will be punished by social rejection and spousal abuse. Other women, even those with the exact same desire, will scorn anyone who admits the truth to demonstrate their faith in the religion.

An outside observer would conclude that this is self-inflicted suffering, because all woke women need to do is renounce leftism and they can live the life they dream about. But the punishment of being hated by their entire social circle is too great. Instead, they come up with a compromise: write the traditional relationship fantasies they biologically desire, but with just the minimum amount of subversion to receive the Progressive™️ stamp of approval. Homosexuality is both the least intrusive of the woke leftist relationship ideals and (in the 1990s-2000s when fujoshism was gaining ground) an easy filter for fellow progressives because conservative women hated fag ships. At first, fujoshis simulated heterosexual relationships by making the shorter guy girly, emotional, and taking it up the ass. Then troonism arrived, and once fujoshis realized that gender non-conforming heterosexual (relative to their birth sex) trannies occupy a very high position in the oppression hierarchy, they had their trump Kamala card. Now they can write feminine female characters with fertile wombs and vaginas openly without violating the woke commandments, as long as they used he/him pronouns. They can pair the he/him female with a white masculine alpha male werewolf CEO prince who impregnates the female, ensures that the relationship remains monogamous, and forces the female into a tradwife role. Nobody can say the fujoshis are sinning against progressivism because the feminine pregnant mother is actually a POONER and the relationship is GAY which makes it super subversive.

This also explains fujoshism's other consequences:
  • Poonerism - woke women want to BE the yaoi because that's the only woke-acceptable way to live life as a feminine heterosexual female.
  • Erasure of fictional women - all women in Modern Audience media are written according to the subversive female archetype. Nobody likes abrasive women with eternal victim complexes, including woke women themselves. But they cannot make her "nicer" because reducing subversiveness is haram in wokeism, so they quietly memory hole these characters.
  • Slant eye fujoshis - same origin as Western ones. Feminist propaganda tells them that women in heterosexual marriages are abused house slaves and creates the same "heterosexual female = bad" culture.
 
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Fujoshis are heterosexual girls of all persuasions who have been browbeaten by woke leftism that being a traditional heterosexual female is haram, and yaoi is their dogwhistle for traditional female heterosexuality.
Fujoshit is popular in MENA and Southeast Asia. You can't convince me these regions are all superwoke and superleftism.
 
Fujoshit is popular in MENA and Southeast Asia. You can't convince me these regions are all superwoke and superleftism.
In a conservative region, the intrigue of fujoshism is the taboo relationship. The "Our love is illegal" trope. Not relevant in regions that blow smoke up the collective asses of the LGTV+. But the ideological theory also applies somewhat to conservative regions based on how a lot of SEA fujoshis come from wealthy English-speaking backgrounds (relative to the average SEAmonkey) and are exposed to a lot of Western discourse. If you're poor in a MENA/SEA shithole, you're not reading and writing fanfiction on the internet.
 
would be making a point if not for the fact most of those "shows about women" SUCK. Either woke shit or yuricuck moe bait. Not much choice. I remember as kid being a fan of 90s female lead shows like Buffy, Charmed (yeah I know it didn't age well) and Xena. Movies like The Craft or Ginger Snaps. You can probably pinpoint the difference between what these media pieces did VS the nu current year.
That might've been the case at one point, but we've had excellent female characters in certain IPs - Studio Ghibli is one example - so now it's a matter of fujos simply not interacting with them because they don't like them. They will admit they are jealous or threatened by the woman and will not read wlw because it focuses too much on the female experience. The things they hate in "hetslop" they will heartily consume in omegaverse, for example.
Fujoshit is popular in MENA and Southeast Asia. You can't convince me these regions are all superwoke and superleftism.
Yaoi and yuri has its start in Japan and China is actually big on yaoi ships, regardless of the CCP's ban on AO3 and the production of said products. Thailand also has a market of BL dramas, but as you can imagine, only the pale ones sell, lmao.

It seems, though, that even the Japanese are noticing that fujos are incredibly misogynistic and other fujos who are in it for the love of pretty boy dick don't like the influx of trans men.

Btw, here's another source on the demographic makeup of AO3. Asians are 7%, and that's only East Asians. Southeast Asians are not included.
 
Fujoshis are heterosexual girls of all persuasions who have been browbeaten by woke leftism that being a traditional heterosexual female is haram, and yaoi is their dogwhistle for traditional female heterosexuality.
Fujoshi-ism started in Japan in 1970s and started in America in 2000s. No girl who wrote fanfiction and jerked off to hetalia was bullied by woke leftism into doing this when hetalia was the "current thing".
 
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This statistical anomaly within a white female supermajority paints a clear picture: AO3 and everything associated with it is a model example of social failure caused by destructive ideologies driven by female peer pressure. I would like to propose a Unifying Autistic Theory of Fujoshis originating from this principle to explain the explosion of fujoshism itself in the 21st century.
This honestly might explain why LGBTQ yaoi/yuri stories are bigger than straight stories. I discussed this in the Serious LGBTQ discussions thread but will say here. The center argument for why "queer" stuff is so big right now with people like this is because its a "trend" but here's the problem. How long has this trend lasted? It feels like its been going on for over 10 years now. I mean I've herd that Covid lockdowns didn't help because that's also where transgender identification rose, but even still I feel like the whole being "queer" has evolved into something that's more than a trend. I've seen people change the definition of queer to where its now define as being "Cool, rebellious, a logical thinker, and different" and its like these people are adopting the LGBTQ as something that you aren't born into, but an alternative cool life style. Its pretty much become a new kinda religion to them. To these people above, I truly believe that they've brainwashed themselves by social justice to where they've convinced themselves that straight ships are "oppressive, anti LGBT, etc" and have to queerify a ship, unless you're seen as a "heretic". I've seen this in real time where this one Twitter user I follow claimed to be a "cis, straight, white boy" and loved this one popular straight ship. Nowadays, he identifies as a demiboy and he now trans the straight ships to make it queer because his followers most likely convinced him of how "boring" the straight ships are. Dude even uses terms like "Hetslop" for any new straight ships despite the fact that he still claims to be straight.
 
Fujoshi-ism started in Japan in 1970s and started in America in 2000s. No girl who wrote fanfiction and jerked off to hetalia was bullied by woke leftism into doing this when hetalia was the "current thing".
I was focusing on cultures that had already accepted and embraced faggots in the analysis. For cultures that hadn't, such as pre-2000s America and pre-2010s Japan, the motivation was the taboo of an illegal relationship.

I think that acknowledging the different motivation of conservative cultures is a good addition to complete the theory because of how the first phase leads to the second - straight women who have no idea what fags are really like are attracted by the taboo, create a sympathetic image of fags in their fiction, women who read this fiction believe the sympathetic image and push for the normalization of faggotry, then when faggotry has become idealized in the mainstream heterosexuality is denounced.
 
But how many of them are those mythical majority of women who write straight couple fics?
Straight couple fics are not being written by men. Straight shippers are mostly women, just as Harlequin romance readers or Hallmark watchers are mostly women. The non-shipping gen fics are mostly written by women or girls, too.

Men just aren't a big part of the fanfic world. To the point that I assume most people out there saying they're men are transguys. While they do exist, as a group, nerdy men are more into collecting and analyzing information about their fandoms than transforming it.

All the actual men I have known who are into fanfic (all two of them) are gay men reading and writing gay porn.

I'm also shocked anybody still uses fanfiction.net, much less that it's 50% male. I'd believe maybe 30%, I'll never buy that it's higher than that. The rest are trans guys.
 
Ah jeez what a topic. I feel weird engaging with this but it fujos make me curious.
In a conservative region, the intrigue of fujoshism is the taboo relationship. The "Our love is illegal" trope. Not relevant in regions that blow smoke up the collective asses of the LGTV+. But the ideological theory also applies somewhat to conservative regions based on how a lot of SEA fujoshis come from wealthy English-speaking backgrounds (relative to the average SEAmonkey) and are exposed to a lot of Western discourse. If you're poor in a MENA/SEA shithole, you're not reading and writing fanfiction on the internet.
If this is true then that means Fujos are kind of similar to other people really into stuff like incest. The community of the players and the author of the coffin of Andy and LeyLey provides some good evidence for this.

Pornography that breaks social taboos a little bit seems to a regular sort of thing within human history. Back in the day before the 2000s and a little bit into the early 2000s lesbians were kind of still taboo a little bit which made them a pornography category that was decently popular.

Also worth pointing out the difference between casual use of pornography vs addicted use of pornography. As people fail to build irl relationships they increasingly fall down the pornography addiction rabbit hole. Becoming trans is one of the ways men can fall down that rabbit hole which does serious irrecoverable damage to them. Fujocontent is similar but less destructive to women's future.
"a lesbian can get sexually aroused by gay porn because she's actually into the emotions, not the two hung jocks".
I think it is worthwhile to comment on the different elements present within pornography here. A sexual fantasy doesn't have to just contain one thing it can appeal to multiple elements of attraction.

For example a man really into Mother-incest pornography is engaging in a degenerate practice without a doubt. But that pornography also contains elements that are normal. It makes a lot of sense and it is true that men will be attracted to traits in women that signal successful motherhood as it increases the chance of successful offspring. This normal element is also present in the Mother-Incest pornography.

I bring this up to point out that if you want to understand the omegaverse stuff it is true that it does contain emotional stories that are normal to be attracted to even if the rest isn't.

(god these couple of comments were so weird to write out :( )
 
Something people should also consider is things that attract people to particular narratives. For a certain type of creative mind that likes to write tragic romances of the forbidden kind are very romantic and give you a lot of conflict in the plot to explore. Plots need conflict after all. However writing anything in a modern setting doesn't really allow for this. There are soft guard rails but realistically there's nothing stopping anyone from going after someone of outside their class, race, etc. But there's still gay shit. I think that was what appealed to a lot of OG fujos. There is also the aspect of faggotry being sterilized due to pretty boy cartoons and such that most of it was centered on. To say nothing of the fact that anal is clearly treated in fujo fic most of the time as a stand in for vaginal intercourse (where the women would be already aroused and ready no less).

Also, I think like another user said it's to lampshade (white) heterosexuality. Most of the writers are of course severely amateur to horrific so they create stupid ways to fumble around this. I think a lot of them implicitly thought there would be passes given if their content was "intersectional" in other ways outside race. I also think it's a similar thing to the vampire phenomenon and is the reason vampires became less scary monsters and more perfected love interests in the minds of many. You can wax poetic about doll like ethereal beauty and alabaster skin and etc. and well, that's just vampire shit! nothing to do explicitly with race at all! You can of course describe characters as pale but not in a way that's meant to frame them as very attractive explicitly because of pale skin or euro/white typical traits.

And to add to this train of thought it's also why human/monster ships where the monster isn't scary or has mostly human features is a thing in some circles. It's about adding conflict to the romance plot by giving an easy way they're not meant to be together or have difficulties.

It would step on a lot of toes if you wrote a romance with the conflict of them being together being more realistic like they're both from different countries and struggling with racial/cultural differences and the disapproval/bewilderment of one or both of their families. So it all has to be contrived fantastical stuff.
 
Straight couple fics are not being written by men. Straight shippers are mostly women, just as Harlequin romance readers or Hallmark watchers are mostly women. The non-shipping gen fics are mostly written by women or girls, too.
There is a support to the claim with the statistic provided by @Iodine with which I can't argue against.

But at the same time, male writers can probably just not attend such surveys. I know it's a cope on my part, but I have stumbled upon many clearly man-written Ao3 fics that were marked Anonymous. 4chan has separate dedicated threads to fanfiction about basically AnonXcharacter. Not just green texts mind you, but files and links shared around. And not all of them are of the gay kind. It's probably not enough to claim that men take a 50/50 part in fanfiction, but it's definitely an unspoken 30%. And it's often very noticible if we take into account JUST the straight couple pairing ships of Ao3 or similar places.

I'm also shocked anybody still uses fanfiction.net, much less that it's 50% male
One word.

MLP

The AO3 survey contained another alarming statistic: 90% of the userbase, which is 97% female and 68% white (79% if mutts, spics and kikes are included), identifies as LGBTQ+.

This is very telling. Jokes write themselves. The surveys are clearing up the picture a lot, thank you.

Fujoshis are heterosexual girls of all persuasions who have been browbeaten by woke leftism that being a traditional heterosexual female is haram, and yaoi is their dogwhistle for traditional female heterosexuality.
A few users had already mentioned it, but yaoi as a phenomenon starts it's roots in countries that are instead insanely traditional, with stricter chokehold around how women and men must behave. Mainly Asian countries, early 70s in it's modern understanding, through fanfiction and fan circles around media with mainly male cast and very limited or sexist female depictions. The slash fanfiction in west also has similar starting with fanfiction around media like Star trek (while outstanding with representation for it's day, the narrative is dominated by male characters while the female ones often are used for sex appeal). That is to say, the dreaded woke West had also been (and still is in places, with wokeshit highlighting said places. Not addressing or debating sense, mind you, but *highlighting* through mistakingly showing restrictive sexist stereotypes as something liberating) traditionalist around gender roles at the time.

In a conservative region, the intrigue of fujoshism is the taboo relationship. The "Our love is illegal" trope
Following your logic of debunking theories, if that was solely the case, why couldn't these fujoshit women be into the opposite sexed dynamic of forbidden lovers instead? You would say that's because to an average fujoshi woman there are no cases when realistically a man and woman couldn't be together in the modern world, but the imagination/reality are endless with possibilities and all sorts of situations. They aren't as interested in forbidden love between women either, usually depicting lesbians as a happy couple on the background. And do you think western fujoshi wouldn't name a similar reason to like yaoi? It's like their cliche response, no matter the country
Sure, the trope itself is very popular with all women of all sorts of demographics but to argue that's the only reason of yaoi's popularity is lacking in my opinion. It's a boost for sure, hovewer.

My main theory still stands on young women's (and men's in case of himejoshi) insecurities around sex and gender role fixation that is so deeply embedded in their heads they don't even notice how they keep affirming it. Messages that are considered woke leftist by our modern standarts are not uniquely western either. In fact, many leftist breadtubers sign japanese media from 20th century as a representation of the kind of gender/sexual identiy ideals they aim for now. Androgyny, men that look extremely pretty that they are basically women, lesbian/gay love being this ultimate bond that is both traditional (bottom/top dynamics) but also punk and transcending the limited heterosexual dynamic etc. This is why they are obsessed over things like Sailor Moon or Cardcaptor Sakura and shill it as an inspiration everywhere in western media. You think the people making things like these back in Japan were really thinking different? Read their commentary on their own stories - with high certainty you will find the fujo writers mentioning things like "I wanted to show love that transcend gender" or "I wanted to cross the line between male and female to create something otherworldly and third gender-like", "yaoi hole is like this third genital mix between ass and vagina". This is light! woke shit coated in "artistic vision" excuse.

These people were fighting against the norms that were pressuring on them. But the conclusions they made out of their negative experiences with social expectations and desire to defy them were horrendous. Both in the west and the east.

I believe it's impossible to pinpoint the cause of fujoshi as phenomenon while only taking the western part into account while dismissing the rest of the world as "well, they just like two guys instead of one!". This way you are minimizing the scale of the problem worldwide. It's not just USA with it's wokeshit. It's Japan, China, Korea, the rest of asian countries. It's Slavic countries like Russia, Poland or Belarus. It's Europe. South America. Hell, of you scratch around Africa, you will find women like these there as well. It's no coincidence it all started to grow right after sexual revolution.

An already altered and deformed view on sexuality, influenced by decades/centuries of inflicted restricted views on both men and women, was let out loose. Fujoshi is just a part of the whole iceberg.
 
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This is going to be a very long post so I apologize but this thread gets to the core of what is going on for men and women in relation to basically everyone's culture's ability to produce successful heterosexual relationships. Basically everywhere worldwide except for a few places that haven't industrialized or a couple other exception cannot do successful relationship formation for broad segments of society.

I like learning and testing theories on this stuff because I want to identify what has gone wrong and what needs to be done to try and fix it.
My main theory still stands on young women's (and men's in case of himejoshi) insecurities around sex and gender role fixation that is so deeply embedded in their heads they don't even notice how they keep affirming it
These people were fighting against the norms that were pressuring on them. But the conclusions they made out of their negative experiences with social expectations and desire to defy them were horrendous. Both in the west and the east.
This is a fantastically excellent point about what I wouldn't call necessarily the cause but definitely the mechanism of the Fujoshi impulse. It especially gets interesting when you think about this in the context of teenage girls having trouble figuring out how to integrate sexual attraction and relationships into their lives successfully. In a way even the like 40 year old women gooning to fujoslop are in that mold of that young woman frustrated about the role she can't fulfill.

One thing that our past pre-industrial prepost-modern societies used to do better was communicate to young people how to grow into adults. There were plenty of role models for children to look to and there was a set sort of pattern of development that young people would get funneled into. This has withered and faded. Bureaucratization of everything leads to impersonal relationships for young people with the adults they interact with. The internet and isolation means having regular normal relationships with other people outside your family is harder and rarer. Sit in your pod and have arbitrary things happen to you that you don't understand but causes you to feel emotion.

I'll make one final related note. Some of this reeks of autism to me. But it would be insane for such large segments of the population to be autistic. What I actually think is happening is a pseudo-autism where the person doesn't actually have autism but due to the difficulty of learning to interact with real people social development is hampered. This can be exacerbated by something like some kind of minor or major trauma or a broken home or similar.
This is why they are obsessed over things like Sailor Moon or Cardcaptor Sakura and shill it as an inspiration everywhere in western media. You think the people making things like these back in Japan were really thinking different? Read their commentary on their own stories - with high certainty you will find the fujo writers mentioning things like "I wanted to show love that transcend gender" or "I wanted to cross the line between male and female to create something otherworldly and third gender-like", "yaoi hole is like this third genital mix between ass and vagina". This is light! woke shit coated in "artistic vision" excuse.
This is so good and such an excellent observation. Very Very good.

Fujoshism from Japan/East Asia is so fascinating because it has advanced much more in those place than in the west which is really strange because the west has been developed/industrialized/post modern for much longer.

I think there are three factors as to why this is.

First The west is much more of a guilt ordered society and less of a shame ordered society. The thing about East Asia and shame is that it is very inflexible. You have this exactly form fitting image that everyone has pressure to map onto perfectly. Think about the need to be the stereotypical salaryman. Whereas western guilt based order of things makes culture and relationships more flexible. If your family life is not picture perfect like in the 1950s working husband housewife image its not looked down upon. There is a low resolution image of family life you have to fit that has shifted and changed across the decades but kept a lot of important things intact(at least until more recently :().

Japan and China/Korea/Vietnam have lacked historical Puritanical Christianity. As has France which also developed a culture of weird sexual fetishes which one shudders to imagine (120 days in sodom). Puritanism is looked down upon by most everyone today and it isn't fun or super appealing and you don't get to feel good and positive and carefree but it managed to kill a lot of incredibly bad and harmful ways humans have interacted sexually. Old civilizations can grow incredible wisdom through the centuries but they can also develop in cancerous ways growing and developing aspects of themselves they should have killed.

The final reason is something also kind of tied to Christianity in the west. Before Christianity became a major cultural force in Rome and the post Roman empire world and waged a war upon it in the west there was all kinds of strange sexual degeneracy including sodomy. Think of stuff like bacchanalian rites and Xenophon talking about of Greek Soldiers stealing Persian Empire boys to be sex slaves. There is a lot of debate how prevalent this stuff was and how people viewed it etc. But it is absolutely fair to say that Christianity harshened the views on things like sodomy. East Asia had none of this and while that sort of thing was probably kind of frowned upon it didn't carry the same "you'll be tortured for all eternity if you do this belief". This influenced the creation of the fujoshi culture.

An already altered and deformed view on sexuality, influenced by decades/centuries of inflicted restricted views on both men and women, was let out loose. Fujoshi is just a part of the whole iceberg.
I think this is wrong and betrays an unfortunate misunderstanding of the past. It's hard for us with our modern and post-modern ways of thought to understand what life was like for the people in the past. This is true of me too and I feel like I've gotten a better view than most.

Strong "Gender Roles" were not constraining in those time periods or at least not in the way we would think. This is hard for us to understand but the best I can do is compare it to a job. It really sucks to work a job you are a poor fit for so you want to find something that fits who you are. This is the same for these Gender Roles. They communicate to you and help you realize and be prepared for doing the roles and functions that you are best at on a small family farm in a rural village. The man realizes that he needs to be the one who does all the hard labor that benefits from increased strength and stamina and he learns to do so willingly and so benefits. The woman realizes she has a role to fulfill that she is good at and can do better than her husband and make things easier for everyone. Without this there would be endless confusion and anger between couples because running a rural pre-modern subsistence farm is very difficult and you can't fight over who does what when.

Our understanding of Patriarchy is wrong too as the whole family on a farm thing is different from the modern day ease and comfort. If the wife stops cooking and cleaning and mending the clothes because these people had to make their own clothes everything falls apart. Also in the background there is the village acting as a totalitarian panopticon to keep you honest and fair because if your entire world is a couple hundred people everyone really knows everyone. If you mistreat your wife everyone will know and everyone will look down on you for doing that. Whereas nowadays you can just keep moving around never being held accountable.

The problem occurs not from strong "Gender Roles" but from a mismatch and failure of those Gender Roles to provide the correct sort of behaviors one should display in order to build a successful life. It sort of like being unfit for a job and so trying to invent a new job you feel you can be good at. But it is the immutable differences between the sexes.
They aren't as interested in forbidden love between women either, usually depicting lesbians as a happy couple on the background. And do you think western fujoshi wouldn't name a similar reason to like yaoi? It's like their cliche response, no matter the country
Sure, the trope itself is very popular with all women of all sorts of demographics but to argue that's the only reason of yaoi's popularity is lacking in my opinion. It's a boost for sure, hovewer.
This is dumb because straight heterosexual women aren't going to be attracted to lesbians for the same reason straight men aren't attracted to gay porn. This is kind of the point I was trying to make with the bottom half of my earlier post. It's not only the taboo nature that is appealing it is also the other stuff that goes along with it that is necessary. And the sexual desire to break taboos being present is connected to a failure of current societal expectations regarding your Gender role working for you. If that happens to you then you feel a need to break out or escape from those expectations and even to flaunt them.

Something people should also consider is things that attract people to particular narratives. For a certain type of creative mind that likes to write tragic romances of the forbidden kind are very romantic and give you a lot of conflict in the plot to explore.
Very true. This reminds me of the joke that is the FTM and MTF heterosexual relationship. You went a long distance to just get to where you started because in order for things to work properly you need certain things.
And to add to this train of thought it's also why human/monster ships where the monster isn't scary or has mostly human features is a thing in some circles. It's about adding conflict to the romance plot by giving an easy way they're not meant to be together or have difficulties.

I think its less than that actually. I do really find the gooner slop stories with the weird fairy king or the monster man to be incredibly funny. But I acknowledge what is going on with them and I actually don't find them that weird. These are intensifying agents. Where before you had the super powerful and mysterious man it becomes super intense and manifests as the fairy king. The caveman grok who is strong and likes to hit things hard becomes the monster man who is even more ferocious and scary. It's the same thing as giving a woman large breasts and large buttocks in male centered pornography.

Also, I think like another user said it's to lampshade (white) heterosexuality. Most of the writers are of course severely amateur to horrific so they create stupid ways to fumble around this. I think a lot of them implicitly thought there would be passes given if their content was "intersectional" in other ways outside race. I also think it's a similar thing to the vampire phenomenon and is the reason vampires became less scary monsters and more perfected love interests in the minds of many. You can wax poetic about doll like ethereal beauty and alabaster skin and etc. and well, that's just vampire shit! nothing to do explicitly with race at all! You can of course describe characters as pale but not in a way that's meant to frame them as very attractive explicitly because of pale skin or euro/white typical traits.
This is absolutely occurring. There is a weird game going on where some stuff is banned and you really cannot cross the line, but you can't have stuff that is too vanilla or conventional because its boring.
 
There are no restrictive gender roles in the west rn. LMAO

My sort of point is that it's an entirely ideological. These girls are browbeaten to believe certain things and internalize that.

The restrictions that exist are internal and biologically driven and I think a lot of young(er) people's confusion stems from that.
 
My main theory still stands on young women's (and men's in case of himejoshi) insecurities around sex and gender role fixation that is so deeply embedded in their heads they don't even notice how they keep affirming it.
Pardon me, but I don't get your theory. Are you saying that restrictive gender roles are causing mental stress to people and encouraging them to turn to fantasies that break gender roles, or that a certain group of people are so autistic about gender roles that they fantasize about breaking them (but fail and loop back to affirming gender roles because they're too autistic to think out of the box)?
An already altered and deformed view on sexuality, influenced by decades/centuries of inflicted restricted views on both men and women, was let out loose. Fujoshi is just a part of the whole iceberg.
I agree with this, but I sense that we believe the origin of the "deformed view of sexuality" is different. My theory is that the "deformed view of sexuality" is the leftist view that blindly subverts traditional gender roles 'cause tradition le bad o algo. The problem is, traditional gender roles arose from biological constraints that humans still face. People who subscribe to the deformed view of sexuality (leftists) waste a lot of their mental energy fighting against biology and turn to strange copes that ultimately embrace biology, like fujoshism, to relieve the mental stress of this one-sided fight.
Following your logic of debunking theories, if that was solely the case, why couldn't these fujoshit women be into the opposite sexed dynamic of forbidden lovers instead? You would say that's because to an average fujoshi woman there are no cases when realistically a man and woman couldn't be together in the modern world, but the imagination/reality are endless with possibilities and all sorts of situations. They aren't as interested in forbidden love between women either, usually depicting lesbians as a happy couple on the background. And do you think western fujoshi wouldn't name a similar reason to like yaoi? It's like their cliche response, no matter the country
Sure, the trope itself is very popular with all women of all sorts of demographics but to argue that's the only reason of yaoi's popularity is lacking in my opinion. It's a boost for sure, hovewer.
To be clear, I'm not negating the effect of "two guys are hotter than one guy" for a straight woman. It's definitely in there. But the output of this desire is unexpected when you compare it to the male equivalent. Lesbian porn for men always contains two feminine women who are both attractive to the male viewer, while gay porn for women contains one masculine man who is attractive to the female viewer and one feminine man who is a stand-in for the female viewer. What's up with that? You'll never see a butch dyke meant to be a male lesbian porn viewer's stand-in. Something must have been twisted from the base biological desire of "males are hot" to use a male-in-name-only as a stand-in for a female. You could say that female sexuality is inclined to self-insert, but why not self-insert as a normal female instead of a small-chested female using he/him pronouns? The noticeable trend is that as a culture gets woker, female depictions of homosexual males become more heterosexual. Long-haired twinks taking it up the ass in yaoi from fag-hating countries become pooners with breasts and vaginas in the MMIWG2SLGBTQQIA+ worshipping West. That's why I believe that wokeness has something to do with it.

As for why straight forbidden romances are avoided, I agree this is one of the reasons. Woke online communities will reee at people for writing a female, shitskin or tranny character "problematically", which in practice means writing them at all. Any male-only group, including fags, are exempted because men are more privileged than women on the oppression hierarchy, so female writers writing men "problematically" is yass and slay.
It would step on a lot of toes if you wrote a romance with the conflict of them being together being more realistic like they're both from different countries and struggling with racial/cultural differences and the disapproval/bewilderment of one or both of their families. So it all has to be contrived fantastical stuff.
The other reason is that a lot of heterosexual forbidden or taboo romance dynamics include at least one unattractive character to people without a fetish for that specific trait. Age gap? Old is unattractive. Poor male-rich female? Poor male is unattractive. Short male-tall female? Short male is unattractive. Race gap? Non-white is unattractive. Wokeness reees at the remaining attractive taboo dynamics (rich/powerful male-poor female, illegal taboos) as problematic, so faggotry is the only remaining option.

Of course, I'll acknowledge there's a gap in my knowledge because I don't read yaoi and fanfiction itself, much less foreign ones. I can only observe yaoi fans in my online hobby communities, most of whom are Western women.
 
Pardon me, but I don't get your theory. Are you saying that restrictive gender roles are causing mental stress to people and encouraging them to turn to fantasies that break gender roles, or that a certain group of people are so autistic about gender roles that they fantasize about breaking them (but fail and loop back to affirming gender roles because they're too autistic to think out of the box)?
They don't actually break gender roles. Here is a thread from someone who wrote one about a man getting jealous over his own children as a cutesy kink. It's an omegaverse AU and is the shortest way to get into their way of thinking. If you think this is anything other than a bodice ripper Bridgerton knockoff, you're a transphobe. First archive. Second Archive.
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Immediately writing the Latino as a sexually aggressive deadbeat? Say no more, these bitches got you covered,
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Calling the slim white (wo)man "mommy"? Check. It's not hetslop, you uneducated bigot. Look at those feminine mannerisms!
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A deadbeat dad suddenly deciding he'll risk it all for a MILFy, stick-thin tuberculin governess? Say no more.
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Only alphas can growl at other alphas. They establish dominance that way. Grrr.
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Omegas cannot talk back against alpha dukes. They need to know their place!
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Alphas respect violence only. Acting too feminine and settling arguments through talking is for omegas. He's yelling like that to three-year-olds btw, who speak like they're seven.
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ME ALPHA. ME NO RAISE CHILDREN. THAT FOR FEMININE PEOPLE. OMEGA.
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ME ALPHA SAVE THE SAY. ME ALPHA GET SEXUAL REWARD?!
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The classic Victorian ankle scene. 😍🥵
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I skipped ahead because this bitch just. Keeps. Going.
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Alphas can't be expected to know where their clothes are. That's for dainty omegas.
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Omegas have to cook, clean, and do feminine things like embroidery. It is known.
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He was about to enter Rage mode but vanilla Bath and Body Works saved him.
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Uh oh, his baby mamma ain't happy! Wait till she finds out he yells at three year olds on the regular.
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Makes you wonder why they're given male names if they're functionally female.
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Only alpha males inherit land, titles and property? Whoa! That's heckin' sexist!

And yes, baby momma, your alpha male son yells at their year olds.
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Another skip because it just kept going.
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ME ALPHA! ME MOUNT OMEGA LIKE DOG! BARK BARK! ME CLAIM TERRITORY. OBEY ALPHA
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"You don't want me alpha 🥺"
"ME ALPHA CLAIM! ME KNOT YOU! 🐺"
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Good alphas get submissive and breedable omegas.
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"He could be submissive and live only to please him" very feminist.
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A sexually aggressive alpha male Latino, you say? White women really need those tacos seasoned.
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"I'm ready to be submissive and breedable, Alpha."
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Dick so big it's dismembering him like a broomstick. True Alpha Male Status.
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They're all like this, btw.
Be your true alpha self. Run around growling and expelling your bodily fluids to establish dominance.
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