Subjectivity certainly makes it hard, but I'm curious if there is some common through line. But yes, I see your point.
Thanks for these. I think I do well with most of those. I'd like to think I'm a decent provider, cook, and baker, but how do I convey this without seeming like a bragadotious douche?
Why not a block of Havarti or wedge of Manchego?
Some people have VASTLY different sex drives, and those drives change throughout life. I highly doubt that you're asexual. And if I am bei g frank she sounds VERY coom brained and porn pilled. It could also be a chemistry issue. You might have pair well with her and genuinely liked her but on a biological/pheromonal level, just didn't match.
give away some baked goods. If you want it to be low-pressure you could bring some to mixed sex groups, or you could have a bunch of small portions that you give to people that are your friends in addition to women you like. word will get around & people are so thrilled to get things for free they don't usually even care if you brag. If you like someone at a place where it is appropriate to host a pot luck (like work, or church, etc) that's always an option, too. There is really no downside to either thing except the monetary cost, everyone will like you more if you give them food.
Your ex sounds a little coombrained but you also sound low T. I know what it's like feeling like your partner wants way more sex than you but that was with a girl who wanted it 3+ times a day. If your lady is literally THIRSTING for it and you can't even bend her over the kitchen counter every now and then you got problems bro.
is this something women do for each other or do you only expect it from your partner?
Well if she was into CNC, that's a whole different ballgame, and I don't blame him for not making advances. I don't trust anyone with a rape fetish
Good news is I do bring baked goods to a tavern I frequent for some of the staff and any other regulars that come in, and they are always happy to receive (someone, likely staff, covered my lunch cost one time.) Romantic interests there or not, it makes me happy seeing them happy.
I heard a coworker say she loves sloths, so next time I was at the bookstore I saw this cute sloth notebook on sale and bought it for her. I've had other women do similar stuff for me before. It's normal.
The greatest handgun ever made. The Colt Single Action Army. Six bullets... More than enough to kill anything that moves.
the cx4 storm is a cool carbine i shot one once
Honestly, so many goddamn men over 35 are sexually fucked up, so you're not alone. I think it's the daily jorkin' it and the autoeroticism.
I've heard Hi-Point carbines are pretty good, but they jam if you use second market magazines.
That's the thing, this feels like something that only happens in porn
I'm 22 lmao
You're not asexual if you experience a sex drive. Your ex is fucking insane, holy shit. You don't need to want to "smash that box" (as our dear ooperator would put it) 24/7 to be considered normal. Wanting to cuddle is perfectly fine and a lot of women would be extremely happy with that. You can want intimacy without having sex without having that be labeled as "weak", "childish" or whatever other bullshit they're going to call you in a desperate attempt to get what they want.
Not sure why that's a lmao... that's really fuckin sad but also, typical
I called her crazy because she's insulting him for having different needs, calling him "childish".
Sex bent over a counter or table? No, it's not. But I'm not talking about CNC, which is a very specific and fairly extreme thing, especially as a specific interest at a quite young age.
I think there's a long way between a lively, even crazy, sex life and playing at rape, and a long way between a lively sex life and no/ rare/ only very careful sex. I wonder if she really wanted CNC or just wanted to feel desired but has adopted current-day lingo, which categories and pathologizes everything.
i like any gun with wood. i could post a lot of attractive guns i prefer more, but when it comes to appearances alone, it's pretty undeniable the Beretta 92 is the best.
Yes, women do this for whoever they care about a lot, but generally only one person at a time. It is like you take the part of the brain that tries to solve your own problems subconsciously, but you dedicate it to someone elses life instead of yours for awhile. It is really useful for before children learn to speak well, for a couple of years your entire day is just trying to figure out wtf they need. The ease with which women learn to do this makes them really puzzled at why men can't seem to do it at all, for the most part. I think they're just generally not as relationship oriented, they tend to think about things way more often than people.