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I came across a Tumblr user who posts videos of himself pole dancing; a self-described 'diva'. It is, for me at least, a bit of a tough watch, especially with the total dissonance between what any neutral observer can see versus what he claims to see. No hips to speak of with shoulders 1.5x as wide, a 5 o'clock shadow, a tasteful girlbulge and a massive gut to top it all off. You were warned.
The way he's winded and has to stop to rest after the smallest bit of exertion is so humiliating, why do they post this stuff?
Here are some more images of him including an occupation reveal as a teacher, which he does of course frame sexually. Hopefully he's just a TA at a university or something and not working with kids.
And some posts he's made, nothing too crazy honestly but the posts about being a real woman are staggering to me after seeing the video. He says he has chronic pain and diabetes but don't worry, awkwardly climbing up that trembling pole for an hour and slamming onto the floor over and over just so happens not to trigger it, and that's definitely not because the pain is just something he made up to get out of doing things that aren't fun fetish activities. He also references his 'girlballs,' revealing that he doesn't have a simulacrum of a vagina, but still mentions that emotions are stored 'in the pussy'.
