- Joined
- Jul 16, 2021
“idk if this is rude but what are your pronouns”. Me being a constantly anxious mess and not knowing what to say, I answered honestly and they proceeded to ask if I went by a name other than my license and if I wanted to change it in their system.
That's about as passive and accepting as it's possible to be (as I'd expect from a dispensary worker), and it's still sending this troon spiraling. These are the most insecure people on earth.I told them the name but I felt so embarrassed in the moment and I’m still thinking about it nearly 12 hours later.
I was just wearing a hoodie and sweatpants, nothing specifically feminine and I don’t even know how they clocked me tbh
I'm sure it's a complete mystery.
I was wearing one of my dog collars with a tag that has my chose name on it, and I guess that could be a trans marker especially with the transfem puppygirl stereotype (I was puppy before it was mainstream!!!) but I wear a collar all the time and have worn it to that specific dispensary multiple times as well.
Okay, not that much of a mystery. I bet they talk about this sicko all the time.
