"Giving a damn and doing what is right are rewards in themselves."
-Eliot Coleman
The quick version: I'm a transgender, autistic, queer, aromantic, biracial, non-monogamous switch, top, furry, little, leatherman, sadomasochist, and ponyboy. I'm a writer, artist, gardener, dancer, academic, agnostic, socialist, environmentalist, and househusband.
Active community kinkster endlessly indulging in the extravagant and bizarre: Agalmatophilia, masks, hoods, silicone, prosthetics, inflatables, latex, fursuits, bitchsuits, mannequins, dolls, pooltoys, plushies, clowns, jesters. But most of the time, just a stallion here to give a cart ride or a good dicking.
If you are intrigued, read on! But as a fair warning: I am quite verbose.
- I am vaxxed and boosted and still masking up.
- I am currently not looking for any new partners, but I am willing to play with others at events.
- I only friend people who I have met face-to-face, either in person or online, with a few exceptions.
- I have VERY LITTLE patience for cishet nonsense! If I think you're a chaser, you will be blocked immediately.
- I use he/him pronouns only.
Best Writings of Mine
More Info About My Kinks and Interests
Catalog of my Gear
What I've Learned From Six Years in the Community
What I've Learned From Five Years In The Community
What I've Learned From Four Years In The Community
What I've Learned From Three Years In The Community
What I've Learned From Two Years In The Community
What I've Learned From A Year In The Community
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Name: Drummer
Breed: Friesian
Sex: Stallion
Age: Young Adult
Color: Black
Temperament: Friendly and obedient but will bite or wander away if ignored. Attention whore.
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How To Interact With Drummer in Ponyspace
About Me
Hello, I am Drummer. You might also know me as SovereignCervine, or Kelston. Most people just call me "pony."
I've had a number of people describe me as
wise, mature, and grounded. Many of my friends call me a
druid. My mother says I'm an old man trapped in a young man's body. I would also describe myself as rather goofy, dramatic, creative, occasionally quite grumpy, mildly reclusive, and maybe a little bit vain.
I have a
very strong sense of who I am and what I enjoy in life. I allow myself to become excited about the world and to love everything without reservation. I am a man of conviction and passion for what I think is right and I aspire to be a force of good.
I am a transgender man. I am
not a "tomboy," "butch lesbian," or "dyke," nor am I a "twink," "femboy," "cuntboy" or "boi." My beard is probably longer than yours. I have been on testosterone since 2016 and had top surgery in 2017, and I am considering getting a metoidioplasty in the near future. I use he/him pronouns
only, I do not like being called they/them. I refer to my genitals using masculine terminology, such as "cock/dick." I have a very binary sense of my own gender, and a very traditionally masculine gender expression, but I do like to play with femininity a bit within kink.
I identify as
queer and with all the socially deviant, historical and political connotations that come with it. In gay taxonomical terms, I'm a bit of an otter. But as for my sexual orientation, I am best described by the pansexual label, although I do lean more towards masculinity and other trans individuals. I am mostly T4T.
I am also autistic. You can read about this at length here. I'm not "brutally honest" but I am very matter-of-fact. Some of my special interests include plants, insects, seed dispersal mechanisms, literary analysis,
Frankenstein, and Rimworld.
Kink
Who is Drummer? Well, Drummer is a horse. He's a friesian, a breeding stallion, a show pony, a physical therapy animal, and a light work horse. He's docile, curious, and a massive attention whore.
The name "Drummer" came from another pony, who I had told that I used to be a percussionist in marching band during one of my first munches. On my very first dungeon night, he noticed how much fun I was having stomping around, playing with my hooves and clacking them together. He suggested the name "Drummer," and it stuck.
My first and foremost kink is ponyplay. I am a
breeding pony, and while I may be submissive to my handler, I am largely dominant towards other pets. But outside of sex, ponyplay is a way to be silly and fun and explore a relaxing headspace. I enjoy being a beautiful, sexy, masculine creature to be pampered and admired, and I enjoy the service that comes with being a work horse. If you see me while geared up, I am more than happy to accept pets, brushes, or give people cart rides.
I have been a member of the Rocky Mountain Pony Herd for almost six years.
I host the RMPH Greeley munch, which is on a three-month rotation of regular munches, crafting days, and backyard pony events. The RMPH is my family, and it is thanks to my mentor, Tromper, that I had such a safe and wonderful introduction and upbringing into kink and that I found such a supportive community so quickly. I consider myself
very fortunate to have the opportunities and support that I do.
Kink is an important part of my identity and life. It's an environment where I can feel I all the facets of myself can shine at once, where I can be my most "authentic." It is a way for me to reconcile with and dissect my own relationship with sensation, taboo, history, culture and identity. It's the community I always yearned for, but never had. Its also a creative outlet and a way to explore intimacy and connection in an increasingly alienated world.
Although ponyplay is my frontal kink identity, I have a very broad range of kinks, many of which fall into the object fetishism category. I also identify strongly with being a little boy, sadomasochist, and switch.
I am
HIGHLY community oriented. I do not play with or engage with people who are not at least interested in being part of a kink community, attending workshops, munches, events, or classes. None of that "just in the bedroom" or "discreet" nonsense. I also am not very interested in engaging with swingers or swinging spaces. I am a very
strict ethical non-monogamist, and the breed of nonmonogamy I practice is relationship anarchy.
Non-Kink
As for my non-kink life, although the two are undoubtedly intertwined, I'm a writer, artist, and gardener.
I write nonfiction essays, creative nonfiction, poetry, and my favorite fiction genres to write are horror and fantasy. Most of the art I do is digital, multimedia, pen and ink, painting, or costume/gear making.
I also play a lot of video games. My favorite game for the past few years has been a sci-fi colony sim called Rimworld.
I recently graduated with degree in Environment and Sustainability with a minor in Diversities and Humanities. I managed a food forest on my campus and am very familiar with the principles and practices of permaculture, which I am also currently enrolled in a class on. I also have an Associate's in English, a bit of professional writing experience, and I really, REALLY enjoy critical analysis of both film and literature.
I am a
very political person and I tend to prefer the company of others who share my passion for social justice and activism. I view the world through a strongly sociological, and often very external, lens. I do not strictly align with any specific leftist ideology but I generally call myself a socialist. Some of my top priorities are labor rights, habitat restoration, regenerative agriculture, environmental justice, and food security. I also care a lot about queer liberation, reproductive rights, and prison reform.
I am not a huge drug user but I am 420-friendly and I drink occasionally. The substances I am most interested in are psychedelics.
Finally, I'm a furry artist. You can see my art over on Furaffinity and also on my Telegram Channel, which also happens to be the best way to reach me.
