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[Magic Pickle]

Federal Breast Inspector: a troon attempts to compare and contrast his gynecomastic development with the breasts of a female coworker only to be put in the hot seat when he realizes she caught him red-handed. Rather than extend any sort of feminine sympathy and realize the coworker may have felt objectified by his ogling, OP worries instead that she views him as what he truly is: a man - something so wretched and vile that even as a word, it merits censorship.
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Did something I'm ashamed and embarrassed of at work​

The other day at my job, I got caught staring at a female co-workers chest. I'm not attracted to her but the reason I was looking isn't any better my boobs are starting to get noticeable but I still feel self concious, I noticed my Coworker and thought oh wow we have similar chest I guess mine aren't so bad, but she noticed I was staring and fuck my life I am so ashamed and she probably thinks I'm just a creepy ass m**. I don't know if I should apologise and explain or of that will make it worse

A young FTM is devastated to watch puberty carry her brother from boyhood to manhood, barely able to tolerate him speaking around her without becoming sick with envy. Transgender jealousy towards their normal siblings is a tale as old as time, but this one is a bit extra funny because OP is already on testosterone, and watching her brother grow up is making her realize that it's not exactly the transformative man-goo she was told it was.
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My brother is hitting puberty and I don't know what to do.​

My brother (13) has very suddenly started hitting puberty. I feel so many terrible emotions about it which I am not coping with. It is something I have been fearing for years. I can't exactly explain how I feel, it's jealousy, shame, anger, self-hatred. Every time I hear his voice I feel a horrible pit within me and I get nauseous. For reference, I've been on T for nearly 3 years, but I am not entirely comfortable with where I'm at with it. I am very short and my voice never got as deep as I wanted it. Somebody please help, I really cannot cope.

Upon the moment a man reveals to his wife that he has succumb to troonacy, she whips out the silver bullet of divorce before he has the chance to turn and wreak havoc on the lives of her and their daughter. But OP isn't budging on his desire to continue feminizing as he seeks out getting an orchiectomy - or more - on the dime of his ex-wife's insurance, which naturally leads her to retaliate and question his love for their child. Another situation that would be taken care of readily under Pickle's Law, which entitles spouses of troons 'n' poons a sack of doorknobs to beat them with; for the daughter, we'll send along a junior sack as a gift.
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Ex wants me to share transition medical plans​

Hey all. 45MtF, been on HRT for about nine months. When I told my wife I was trans, her immediate response was "well then I guess we're getting divorced." That was last April. I moved out in September, we submitted our divorce papers in November, etc. We have a young child who stays with me every other weekend. She loves and accepts me. My ex claims to support my transition, and I'll be on her insurance for about a year after the divorce is final. But she can't stand seeing me presenting as a woman, has claimed that dressing femme around her is "rubbing (her) face in it," and has a tendency to tell me how I made this decision and am to blame for everything, framing it as my blowing up/ruining our child's life.
When I started HRT, surgery wasn't really a consideration. I don't hate what's in my pants. Don't like them either, just... they're there. Recently I've been discussing with my PCP getting a consult for an orchi, possibly more. I mentioned this to her and now she's big mad, wants me to tell her everything about what I'm planning transition-wise, and "you didn't learn anything, don't have surprises that will ruin (child's) life, how will you explain to her," and so on. I chafe at the idea of having to justify my own medical decisions to her. I don't think she needs to know anything other than, hey, I might be in recovery from surgery for a few days or a week sometime later this year...
I don't really know what I'm looking for posting this. She's always been a control freak, and expects everyone to act and live and dress as she demands. Part of me wonders if being on her insurance, or co-parenting with her, actually justifies her involvement in my medical decisions. I'm honestly just trying to avoid a conversation with her because she's judgmental and angry and I'm conflict-avoidant. I probably should be more open with her about what I'm doing, but I really don't need her judging and demeaning and accusations. Ugh. What do.

During treatment for syphilis, a TiM notices that some of the side effects of his medication include masculinizing qualities such as the return of bonerized mornings and the reduction of sensitivity in his chest - which he finds more bothersome than having literal fucking syphilis. The casual approach people are taking towards popping antibiotics like they're candy means that I'm going to be proactive and say that I, for one, welcome our new antibiotic-resistant superbug overlords and I’d like to remind them as a trusted Kiwi Farms poster I can be helpful in rounding up others to toil in the underground orgy caves.
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Spiro stopped working because of an antibiotic​

So. I was treated with IV penicillin for a few days, and I am on doxycycline due to a syphilis infection. Been taking antibiotics for about a week now.
Apparently that's enough of an excuse for spiro to stop doing it's job. I'm starting to get morning wood and produce semen again. My breasts are no longer sore.
Obviously I'm not going to stop the antibiotic because my spiro isn't working well enough. But I have 2 more weeks of this antibiotic. Having to tolerate my t coming back is not a good feeling lmao.
Has anyone else experienced this?

As a teenager, a MTF had an ICD - or an implantable cardioverter-defibrillator - installed in his chest to keep him from doing fucked up shit like "dying early from a preventable death." But now that he's lived long enough to get his neghole pozzed by transgenderism, he resents the actions his parents took to extend his life because, I kid you not, his ICD gets in the way of him wearing fake titties convincingly. Damn this transphobic heart of his!
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Trans ICD Vent​

I've never spoken about this before, but it's become more of an issue as of late so I just can't keep quiet about it anymore. Long story short, I have a less than perfect heart and I had an ICD put in when I was a teenager. Literally no one asked me if I wanted one, give me any kind of option, told me the risks, etc because I was a teenager so no one cared what I thought. Granted I'm well aware of why it happened, but it still pissed me off how I was defacto ignored by the people acting in my "best interest".
Now as to why I'm posting this here as the above was just context. I haven't medically transitioned yet and as a result I often wear breast forms for gender euphoria reasons. Only recently have I finally gotten a good grasp on how a bra should fit. My complaint is that my ICD was surgically placed under my skin such that the bottom of it is only just under 2 inches above one of my nipples. As a result, every breast form I have ever tried sits partially on top of it. This means that form won't fit flush against my skin and presses further out than the other one. As such it makes the form "fit" weird, it induces a weird asymmetry between the two forms, and overall I hate it. So yeah, TLDR I found another way my parents fucked my trans-self over years before I even knew I was trans. Thanks for listening.
Also, a sidenote. My lovely heart hates testosterone (so there's at least one of my body parts I'm in agreement with). On the brightside, E and anti-T has been shown in case studies to help the few trans women who also have what I have. On the flipside, my heart still breaks that the opposite is true for trans men who have what I have who are taking T.

On the flip side, this guy doesn't have to use chicken cutlets to create cleavage - but that's not enough for him as he believes he's been robbed of his big-breasted birthright... especially because he's jeered at those in his gene pool often enough to realize they all share rather massive measurements, so it's clearly an act of injustice that as a lad, he's left out of the line-up. Creepy!
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5 Years HRT and I'm only a B cup but every woman in my family on both sides has large breasts. What gives?​

Question in title. 5 years of E and 4 years of prog. I WAS on pills for E early on but switched to injections around year 3.
The only thing I can think of as a reason is that I'm not fat enough. I've always had a high metabolism and have never exceeded 200 lbs, usually I feel comfortable around 150-160. But I have always wanted bigger boobs and when I started I was convinced I was set for that because everyone in my family has big boobs, my mom, my aunts, my cousins, it's like, a thing. Genetically I SHOULD be predisposed to having large breasts but I topped out at a B cup and haven't seen any significant growth in the past year. It feels like I got the short end of the stick and I'm actually a tad bit salty about it. Augmentation is like $8000 wtf a girl supposed to do out here?

A woman senses where the winds are going when her boyfriend makes noises about trooning out and puts her foot down so fast, his spine is crushed along with it. But if there's anything notable about the tranny Neurax Worm, it's that it's very capable of manipulating its hosts into demolishing their lives for the sake of the coom: as you can see here, where proto-TiM OP seesaws between "[I'm] not even sure [I'm] trans yet" and "[I've] even done some DIY estrogen injections somewhat sporadically over the last 3-4 months." Girl, get out of there, and if there's panties you love that you can't find when you're packing, just hold a Viking funeral for them instead - because whatever you'd get back wouldn't be coming back right.
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My gf made me promise I won't transition​

I (26M(TF?)) just had a long talk with my gf of 4 years and I'm really tired and emotionally exhausted. Basically she made me promise I will never transition and she won't give me any time to talk to a therapist or reflect on it more.
She's OK with me being trans and cross dressing and stuff but just not transitioning. She also said she was bi before but apparently not enough.
I'm not even sure I'm trans yet but I've been thinking seriously about transitioning for a long time and even done some DIY estrogen injections somewhat sporadically over the last 3-4 months, which made me feel good.
I will feel like a terrible person if I break the promise and when I made it I felt numb and like all joy was sucked out of me. I also feel like a terrible person for having made the promise...
I'm afraid of being alone and dating as a trans woman seemingly sucks really bad. There's also so much hate and ridicule towards trans women. There's no rational solution and I'm equally scared of it festering and getting worse over the years and then reaching a breaking point when I've mqsculinized even more and lost even more time. I'm 26 and 6'2 which also makes me very scared of transitioning.
How do I even begin to fix this?

A TiM wants to share the bathroom at work with his female colleagues, but the TERF on his shoulder keeps insisting that he use the men's room instead for their safety, which has lead him to being outed a few times to new men who arrive at work. This level of self-awareness is always fascinating because one would think it might mean you'd know better than to transition at all, but cognitive dissonance is a ferocious dragon to best in battle.
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I'm scared to use the women's restroom because I don't want to seem predatory​

I hate how as a trans woman you're made to feel like you are a danger to cis women, and how cis women are told we exist purely to violate their privacy and harm them.
I came out as a trans woman at work over a year ago and I'd like to think I'm friends with a lot of my female coworkers, and I'm nearing 2 years on hormones, but I still almost never use the women's restroom because I'm terrified of making another woman uncomfortable. If the private restroom isn't available I always go to the mens and every single time I get stared at, or a man will double check that he's in the right restroom.
It's embarrassing and constantly outs me to any new male coworkers who get hired. But I'd rather out myself and make men uncomfortable than risk a woman clocking me and making HER feel unsafe. Does that make me a bad person? I just don't want to ever feel like a DANGER to someone due to my identity and I know men won't feel that way.

Uncomely comb-over: a ginger male market failure is mocked mercilessly by his mother for his most miserable mane. This one definitely invites a dramatic reading if just because it has the cadence of a harried Discord call with a very unwell pervert caught in the throes of a breakdown by a parent who only interrupted to remind him that his nuggies are fresh out of the oven.
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Mother put a masc pic of me as her wallpaper and chases me around with it​

I have a beard and everything on it and she keeps shoving it in my phace #.#
Anyway, we were outside on Friday doing errands and stuff and when we got home she started berating me. "Oh you didn't see how much people were staring at you, it's because of your hair it's disgusting" Like first of all, people have been staring at me for fucking ages thank you for noticing, second of all they are staring because they can't tell if I'm a boy or a girl and third of all WHAT DO YOU MEAN DISGUSTING, then she started showing me pics from when I was cis (which ewww) and was telling me such lovely things such as : "your hair is like straw" (yea i have hair type LITERALLY CALLED STRAW LIKE RRRRRRR) "it's so fucking long" (which yea that's the point rrrr) and my favorite "it's so fucking ginger" (LIKE YEA THAT IS INDEED A COLOR SOME PEOPLE HAVE AND MINE HAPPENS TO HAVE A LITTLE REDISH ORANGE TINT TO IT THANK YOU FOR NOTICING) and obviously telling me to "shave that shit off" which no thanks, maybe look at that purple fucking birds nests on your scalp that you wash once a blue moon
I made her breakfast and lunch and then she went and shat all over her daughters, BEAUTIFUL MIGHT I ADD, hair. And then she had the audacity to ask me to play Monopoly with her in the evening smh

A guy in a dress has the mortifying realization that many feminine beauty rituals are actually a whole bunch of hullabaloo - but nonetheless he remains shackled to his vanity lest driven to insanity by gender-fixed inanity.
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I thought doing girl things was supposed to feel good​

But nope. It just feels like work. And not only that, I do all this work to try and look fem and still end up looking like some disgusting ugly man in a dress. Even if I manage to trick myself into believing I’m pretty, I still go out and get misgendered. And I know I don’t pass and I know I don’t pass because I’m not trying hard enough to cover all the bad parts of my body (literally just about everything) and I’m gonna need to pay some dude 50 grand to peel my face off, break my bones and glue me back together like some Frankenstein monster. But even if I DID pass, I would still have to put in hours of work into my appearance every day just to be treated as anything more than a man. Cis women don’t gotta deal with this shit. If they don’t try at worst they’re not conventionally attractive. But they’re still women. And are treated as such. Me? Nah. Even if I did pass I’ll never pass naturally. I’ll always have to fake it with makeup and forcing my voice to sound fem and constantly correcting my posture, my face, the way I walk, the way I look at people, the way I blink, how I breathe, how my heart beats, etc, etc, etc for the rest of my life. And that’s assuming I have the time to focus on all that shit 24/7, WHICH I DONT BTW. It’s so unfair. I honestly think the idea of “gender euphoria” is either a straight up lie or just a new word that trans women who were born pretty use to make everyone else feel like they’re not enough. I’ve never looked at myself in the mirror and went “mmm yes I’m *euphoric* about this”. At best sometimes I feel like I can just barely handle not ripping the throat out of that ugly bitch in the mirror. AT BEST. Anyways feel free to tell me how horrible and unhealthy my life is in the comments.

A li'l dood yearns to find herself a better half but has certain roadblocks on the road to love such as "being autistic," "never leaving the house" and "having an anxious compulsion to control the thoughts of those around her in case they see her as being a fat little neurotic instead of the cool yaoi boy she wishes she were." The sad part about this is that she's gotten decently into her transition - though remains off of testosterone - and yet the treadmill of trauma continues to race inescapably beneath her feet. But hey, you know, transition saves lives!
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I feel like I need to give up on ever finding a partner​

Potential TW for dysphoria, as well as NSFW for mentioning sex related things
Been feeling like this for a while, I have yearned for romantic love for as long as I can remember without ever getting it, and it truly feels impossible. Not only because I am trans, but also gay and autistic as well as not open to using dating apps. I barely leave the house, can rarely see my friends because of distance or busy schedules. I do go to uni but don’t talk to anyone there and ever since I started going my dysphoria has increased significantly. My dysphoria at this point in my life is mostly social, as I have gotten top surgery, as well as legal documentation changed, but I am not on T. Most people in my life do know me exclusively as a man and respect me as such, some of them are not even aware of my transness, the issue is I’m getting misgendered quite a lot by strangers, despite my decently deep voice. I also look quite androgynous which isn’t in itself a problem, but because of this I feel like no one would ever want to date me unless they are a chaser or just don’t see me as a man, which would make me miserable. Even dating a bi/pan guy scares me because I’ll be paranoid of him not seeing me as a man. I’ve also come to the realization that I could never have a normal sex life, it just won’t ever be possible because of my dysphoria and anatomical restrictions. There are days where I don’t feel as bad but today is a particularly hard day.

Saving the best for last: a tranny is denied an invitation to the funeral of his wife's grandmother because her family thinks he's a fucking clown and they don't want to have to tolerate his nonsense during a somber memorial ceremony. This one seems almost unfair at first - if he is to be believed that he and Granny had any sort of connection, of course - but when you look at what this retard wears on a regular basis, you'll understand quite aptly why he was barred from entry.
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Been told by wife’s family I am not welcome at a funeral because I’m trans​

Me and my wife have been together for nearly 18 years and I’ve always had a really good relationship with her family.
Her Gran passed away recently and the funeral is next month. I really loved her Gran she always made me feel welcome. In fact she was the first person to treat me as family.
I had always gotten in well with all her family. But since I came out that seems to have changed.
I had already been told not to visit her gran when she got sick as it would be “confusing” and I brushed that off as she was 90+ and her brain wasn’t there so, fine I guess.
Then I wasn’t allowed on the Xmas calls because it would be confusing for her Niece (who is like 12) and that I had to wait till I explained everything to her one to one. Her parents were not going to tell her, instead they expected me to be the parent.
*Note on our Niece, I would have answered any questions that came up of course, but my issues is why do I have to be the one to explain queer and trans people to their child. Surely this is something a parent would do. I am not a parent so i find it hard to judge but if I was, I would want to be the one to have that conversation.
Anyway, now I find out I am not welcome back for the funeral because I’m trans and it will be too stressful and too much work.
Like I’m not gonna be hanging around, I wanted to go to be there for my wife and to say goodbye to someone I loved.
I am sooooo angry and upset. I am slowly losing all family. My own family is fubar and now my own Mum doesn’t talk to me. I had thought I was still part of this family, but turns out not.
I am also scared that this gonna end up driving me and my wife apart as she is super close to her mum and if her mum pushed enough I don’t know if she would choose me over her.
Rant over.

Spoiler: Are you hoping to resurrect her through laughter?

 

[Sinner's Sandwich]

Perverted tranny fetishist killed himself in a treehouse because he wasn't allowed to wear a french maid outfit at work. He also has a tranny brother. His deranged parents are screaming discrimination & blaming the pastor for telling the tranny degenerate to wear normal clothes at work and are trying to sue the church but no lawyer wants to touch this shit with a ten foot pole.

You can't make this shit up.

Nothing of value was lost here. Perverted Goblins like this need to be told to fuck off or otherwise they will use your space as their personal goon cave.

https://open.substack.com/pub/exulansic/p/dead-names-entry-joshua-a-nomad-naomi?utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&utm_medium=web

https://www.bnd.com/news/local/article314214214.html#storylink=cpy

Metro-east family asks for tolerance after suicide of transgender child​

Toni and Kevin Link don’t completely understand why their youngest child struggled with gender dysphoria, dressed like a “cat maid” or became despondent after losing her job as a church custodian. But the Pontoon Beach couple said the 24-year-old, Naomi Link, died by suicide in 2024, compelling them to share their story and ask religious leaders and others in the community to show love and tolerance when dealing with transgender young people. “It just seems like these kids today don’t have a chance,” said Toni, 56, a homemaker.

“You’ve got a lot of judgment out there, people slandering them, making fun of them, taking their rights away. They can’t do this. They can’t do that. It’s just so sad. I feel like they’re human, too.” Naomi was an introverted but good-hearted person, an animal lover and avid online gamer who received positive reviews for her “mods” – video-game modifications — according to her parents.

The Links said Naomi was fired from her job as a custodian at St. John Lutheran Church in Granite City because she wouldn’t sign a document agreeing to wear a shirt, pants and shoes to work instead of a French maid outfit with cat ears, a tail and stocking feet. Less than a week later, Naomi was dead. She had lost the sense of value and purpose that the job provided, her parents said. The Rev. Bill Hale, St. John’s pastor, said church leaders asked that Naomi follow a dress code, not to discriminate or deter her gender transition, but to address safety concerns and establish appropriate attire for maintenance staff at a Christian church.

“We did not at the time, nor do we now, view it as a (gender issue),” Hale said last week. Naomi Link, right in cat-maid outfit, is shown with, clockwise from top left, father Kevin Link, great uncle Harry Hagopian and sibling Sophia Link at a family birthday party. Provided Found dead in treehouse According to Madison County coroner’s office records, a 24-year-old male legally named Joshua Link was found dead Sept. 2, 2024, in a treehouse in a wooded area behind the Link family’s home in Pontoon Beach.

The cause of death was listed as suicide. Naomi had been transitioning to female for about two years and planned to change her name legally and undergo sex-reassignment surgery, Toni said. Most people knew her as “Nomad Thunder.” “That was his gaming name,” Toni said. “We had been calling him that for years. He didn’t like the name Joshua.” The Links said they loved their child and supported her transition, but now that Naomi is gone, they feel most comfortable using the name Joshua with male pronouns.

The BND is using the name and pronouns corresponding with her most recent gender identity, except in quotations. Toni and Kevin also have another transgender child, Sophia, 30, whose transition has included hormone therapy and a legal name change. She lives with them and works at a pizza restaurant. The Links said they believe Hale and church leaders are partly responsible for Naomi’s death because they showed little empathy or concern and gave her an ultimatum that led to a mental health crisis.

“(The pastor) wasn’t worried about her well-being or her state of mind,” Sophia said. “He was worried about her clothes.” Toni and Kevin said they wanted to sue the church but couldn’t find an attorney to take the case. They filed a formal complaint with its governing body, The Lutheran Church–Missouri Synod. The synod did not respond to BND requests for comment. “People deserve to know when those who claim to represent Christian values fail to uphold them, especially when the public continues to support such institutions financially,” said Kevin, 62, a former property investor and landlord now in lawn maintenance.

Pastor defends church actions Hale disputed the Links’ characterization that he lacked empathy or concern for Naomi in a recent BND interview that included Church President Brian Schuelke and Chief Elder Joel West. Hale said church leaders had multiple conversations with Naomi about appropriate work attire for a year, at one point discussing compromises such as her wearing coveralls over the French maid outfit.

“If we did not have any empathy for the situation that the family was in, we could have easily terminated him immediately,” Hale said. Naomi had been working as church custodian for more than four years. In the beginning, she wore traditional men’s clothing. It is unclear when she switched to the cat-maid outfit.

Church leaders initially set a deadline of July 21, 2024, for Naomi to sign a document agreeing to abide by an employee handbook with a dress code, giving her a month to review it, according to letters between the Links and Hale shared with the BND. The Links said that prompted Naomi — who had suffered from depression but had only been treated for attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder by a family doctor — to have a "mental breakdown" and get an emergency evaluation at a St. Louis hospital.

Kevin wrote St. John leaders and asked for a deadline extension, stating that he and Toni hoped to obtain a doctor's note regarding Naomi’s "mental health needs" and the importance of her current attire. Kevin argued that an extension would be a "reasonable accommodation" under the Americans with Disabilities Act. Hale noted that Kevin was not a legal spokesman for his adult child, and that as a pastor he could not reveal the content of his private conversations with Naomi. That prompted her to send a letter.

“I really like my job as your church custodian these last 4+ years,” she wrote. “I really try hard to keep your church clean. The job is very important to me and I hope you will let me keep it. “I do not fully understand the legal papers Pastor Bill wishes me to sign. Please consider this letter as my permission to have my Mom (Toni) or Dad (Kevin) speak and sign on my behalf.” Naomi signed the letter as “Nomad (Joshua) Link.”

Rising tensions with family As the signing deadline approached, tensions rose between the Links and Hale, based on their letters. Kevin accused the pastor of behaving in an "impersonal, uncaring and unloving way." Kevin wrote that Naomi had been in a "fragile state of mind" for years and was increasingly isolated, and that church actions had created feelings of anxiety and "worthlessness."

Hale said church leaders believed that custodians should dress according to their tasks, but they never asked Naomi to wear "gender appropriate" clothing, noting that gender-neutral pants would have been acceptable with a provided St. John-labeled work shirt. "Frankly, the wearing of a French maid’s costume, and working in stocking feet, is not only unhygienic, it poses a risk of injury when handling equipment and abrasive cleaners," Hale wrote in one letter to the Links. “As we have insisted in the past, custodial work is not a gender issue.

The work to be performed is to be done in a professional manner and in a manner conducive of work being performed at a Christian church.” Hale stated that he also wouldn’t allow swimwear, MAGA (Make America Great Again) hats or other politically or culturally controversial clothing, and that he knows of no other employers who would condone employees wearing “costumes” on the job.

Kevin responded that Naomi’s work did not involve heavy machinery or dangerous substances, and that it was unfair for the church to suddenly change policy after initially allowing her to wear the cat-maid outfit as long as she used a back door and stayed out of sight. Ultimately, church leaders extended the deadline to Aug. 27, 2024, for Naomi to sign the document. Failure to do so, they warned, would be considered a resignation.

She did not sign. On Sept. 2, 2024, it was Kevin who found Naomi dead in the treehouse, which had served as a refuge since childhood. Her obituary, listed under Joshua “Nomad” Link, featured a photo of her in a cat-maid outfit. She was buried in St. John Cemetery. Toni later sent two complaint letters to The Lutheran Church–Missouri Synod, based in St Louis, demanding accountability, but no one replied, according to the Links. “I don’t want to see another family ever get hurt like we got hurt,” Toni said this month.

What is gender dysphoria?

“Gender dysphoria” is generally defined as “a distressed state arising from conflict between a person’s gender identity and the sex the person was identified as having at birth.” The American Medical Association and other major U.S. medical groups recognize a spectrum of gender identities and take the position that “gender-affirming care” – ranging from hormonal therapy to surgery – is medically necessary as determined by doctor and patient. That view runs contrary to the doctrines of many religious organizations, including The Lutheran Church–Missouri Synod, a Protestant denomination with about 6,000 congregations in the United States.

The synod’s website includes a letter from President Matthew Harrison and a statement on sexual orientation and gender identity. Both affirm the church’s belief that homosexuality is a sin and that God created humanity with two sexes, male and female. “Unfortunately, society has increasingly walked away from the clear biblical teaching of human sexuality and an individual’s God-given sex,” Harrison wrote.

“Many have been deceived and confused by this false humanistic teaching.” On the other hand, the statement recognizes all people as “neighbors,” condemns abuse of those who experience same-sex attraction or “gender-identity confusion,” and encourages churches to "minister compassionately" to them and their families. Hale said St. John services focus on worshiping God, preaching his word and administering the sacraments, not on social, political or cultural issues. “We don’t exclude (people in the LGBTQ community),” he said. “We’re welcoming. But we also are a scripturally based Christian church.”


Clothing as expression

Christy Ferguson, director of the women’s, gender and sexuality studies program at Southern Illinois University Edwardsville, said she could not speak on Naomi’s case but noted that clothing can be important for people exploring their gender identities.

“Generally, a main representation of our gender is the outfit that we wear,” she said. “It’s the person that we’re presenting to the world in the ways that feel most comfortable to us. “Clothing does make a big impact, especially for some people who feel they don’t fit the binary world of male-female or she-him.” Cat-maid characters — human maids with feline traits — are common in Japanese anime, and outfits can be purchased online.

They are popular among cosplayers and “femboys,” a slang term for males who express themselves in traditionally feminine ways. According to Sophia, cat-maid outfits were key to Naomi’s expression of identity. That was all she would wear. Workplace discrimination based on sexual orientation or transgender status is prohibited under the Civil Rights Act of 1964, as interpreted by the U.S. Supreme Court.

However, the government’s approach to gender issues took a sharp turn last year, when President Donald Trump began his second term. He signed an executive order stating that the United States recognized only two sexes, male and female, and his administration began pulling back on transgender rights. The executive order decried "an ongoing and purposeful attack against the ordinary and longstanding use and understanding of biological and scientific terms, replacing the immutable biological reality of sex with an internal, fluid, and subjective sense of self unmoored from biological facts."


Father grew up in church

Kevin began attending St. John Lutheran Church as a child. He met Toni, a 17-year-old new to the area, at church in the 1980s. Later, as a married couple with two children, they continued to attend, and Kevin served as council member and property trustee. The Links said the family’s problems at church began in 2022, when Sophia became depressed and suicidal over feelings of gender dysphoria and started wearing women’s clothing and makeup.

The Links said two private meetings with church leaders turned ugly after the leaders began reading Bible verses and implying that Sophia’s behavior was wrong. “At that point, the whole family stopped attending services,” Kevin said. “We started watching them at home.” Today, the Links attend Harvest Community Church, a non-denominational church in Granite City, where they said the congregation has been welcoming and nonjudgmental.

Hale, who has served as St. John’s pastor since 2017, said its leaders never barred Sophia from services or pushed her to change her gender identity, but he did stop administering the sacrament of communion after she “declared denial of faith in Christ.” Sophia suspects that she lost her part-time job in lawn maintenance at the church due to her transitioning. Schuelke said that’s not true. He said financial constraints on the small congregation forced leaders to eliminate the position, and volunteers took over duties.

Hale said church members continue to pray for the Link family. “We feel for them,” he said. “No family should ever have to go through the tragic events which led up to and resulted in the death of their son.” The Links said they did their best as parents to provide love and support while not fully grasping Naomi’s internal or external pressures or the world of video gaming that so consumed her.

They continue to be haunted by how her life ended and encourage other parents, community leaders and ordinary citizens to be mindful of what young people with gender dysphoria may be experiencing. “Joshua would say, ‘People don’t accept me for who I am,’ and I’d say, ‘Mom and Dad accept you,’” Toni said. “And he’d say, ‘Well, other people out in the world don’t accept me.’ And then he’d say, ‘What’s the use, Mom? What’s the use?’”

 

[Sean Andalou]

When a man "identifies" as a woman, the question remains what kind of woman. Right?

... a french maid ...

A very old school sort of fetish.
Why can't he aspire to be an anime waifu like a normal troon?

 

[Syikeblade]

Perverted tranny fetishist killed himself in a treehouse because he wasn't allowed to wear a french maid outfit at work. He also has a tranny brother. His deranged parents are screaming discrimination & blaming the pastor for telling the tranny degenerate to wear normal clothes at work and are trying to sue the church but no lawyer wants to touch this shit with a ten foot pole.

This is one of the most retarded things I've read and sadly I can see this being an actual story.

 

[Law]

Why can't he aspire to be an anime waifu like a normal troon?

The maid outfit also had cat ears

 

[Dante Alighieri]

No you don't understand, I absolutely MUST dress up in my fetish outfit to work.

 

[Stan]

I'm on injections and in 5months, I've lost 2" height, a shoe size, my knuckles are slimmer, and then there's of course going from flat to 38C

No he didn't.

Perverted tranny fetishist killed himself in a treehouse because he wasn't allowed to wear a french maid outfit at work. He also has a tranny brother. His deranged parents are screaming discrimination & blaming the pastor for telling the tranny degenerate to wear normal clothes at work and are trying to sue the church but no lawyer wants to touch this shit with a ten foot pole.

You can't make this shit up.

Nothing of value was lost here. Perverted Goblins like this need to be told to fuck off or otherwise they will use your space as their personal goon cave.

I am so happy our Sexton doesn't act like this. He's hot, around my age, smokes cigarettes and usually smells of tobacco. Usually puttering around with earbuds in. If I had to deal with a miao miao catgirl sexton I would lose my patience. It'd be like "Hi Josh I need you to go to Costco and buy more juice boxes for Sunday School" or "Hi Josh, there's snow in the forecast plz salt the sidewalk," "Hi Josh, we have a building rental on the 23rd pls tell me if you can make it there's a $100 fee in it for you" "Hi Josh can you please hang this Lent Banner" and he'd be like "Nyao my name is Nomad stop it~~!" And I'd be like "Oof Melanie... this is beyond the limit. Why is he wearing fetish gear and lingerie to work? Can we please ask him to stop? I feel uncomfortable trying to give him directions. It's really just me and him alone in here sometimes."

And then Vestry has a talk and something like this agreement turns up. And OFC it's not good enough. The Tranny Sexton must be allowed to fix the dishwasher in a faggot maid costume or we're heckkin transphobic. That's a diagnosis w teeth in our diocese too. The Bishop made all our confirmands pin an index card to their chests with name and pronouns, there's literally one ambiguous confirmand but he's still male, just very scrawny with long hair and a girly name (think "Sasha"). I'm irritated on Peter and Isabelle's behalf that they had to wear pronoun cards on their chests at their confirmation. Bishop Curry was not confused about the pronouns "Margaret" would use. Fuckin weird.

 

[DYLAN ‘DIELAWN’ VOLK]

I grew up in a Lutheran –Missouri Synod church, they are insanely strict and tight knit. I don't think they would have allowed them to bring their two troon sons there at all if the dad wasn't a property trustee and long term member. It's kind of a super conservative schitzo church. That lawsuit is literally never happening.

 

[Sean Andalou]

The maid outfit also had cat ears

Something old, something new. tee hee

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Nested levels of confusion here, tempered by a fear of being transphobic.


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I'd prefer a trans bf over a cis bf but I feel so bad about it. I'm somewhere on the aroace spectrum and phobic about pregnancy but I still find myself liking men. The mere idea of being physically close or alone with one repulses me though and part of the reason is what is inside their pants. If the same guy told me he's trans though, I'd be on my knees in an instant (given we already vibed prior obviously). I wouldn't care at all if he'd getting surgery or has been taking hormones already. All my repulsions would be gone and all aromanticism would be forgotten, i think

But I feel awful about this. I feel guilty and as if I wouldn't see them as man but what they were.

Is it actually hurtful and offensive or rather reassuring because, to me, that's my ideal partner?

Consensus in comments is she's not transphobic.
What a relief.

 

[PigFarm]

When I'm wasting time, I like to play a little game where I predict the post history of the people posted here.

It's amazing how often you can accurately predict who will be unemployed, still living with their parents, have an autistic obsession with videogames like Baldurs Gate or post obsessively on disgusting fetish subs.

It's like they all follow a script. To troon out, you must be an active member of 12 video game subs and tell strangers about your asshole at least 6 times a week.

 

[AskMeAnything]

That falsetto voice though.

When you accidentally book the knock off voice coach.

Not far off Gen X and boomers really, and boomers more permissive. And us milenials

I still don't know what those age related terms mean. Why not just say people in the their 20s or 60s or whatever, so everyone knows what you're talking about.

Perverted tranny fetishist killed himself in a treehouse

Quite niche, as far as suicides go.

 

[Waifuchu]

I still don't know what those age related terms mean. Why not just say people in the their 20s or 60s or whatever, so everyone knows what you're talking about.

Because a person born in 2005 isn't going to be in their 20s forever, but they'll always be a zoomer.

 

[skunt]

The Links said Naomi was fired from her job as a custodian at St. John Lutheran Church in Granite City because she wouldn’t sign a document agreeing to wear a shirt, pants and shoes to work instead of a French maid outfit with cat ears, a tail and stocking feet.

The Links said they loved their child and supported her transition, but now that Naomi is gone, they feel most comfortable using the name Joshua with male pronouns.

A story as old as time. No doubt the tombstone will say "here lies Joshua Link, son of [whatever]" too.
The absolute brass balls you'd need to ask a pastor if you can wear a french maid costume and cat ears while working in the church is so other-worldly.

 

[AskMeAnything]

Because a person born in 2005 isn't going to be in their 20s forever, but they'll always be a zoomer.

It's an incredibly retarded system. Believing that millions of people, who just happened to be born between certain years all have the same attitudes and beliefs is beyond stupid.

But, teenagers are always obviously teenagers and people in their 20s, 30s, 40s etc are always going to act pretty much their age too.

 

[Commander Suzdal]

@Sinner's Sandwich wrote:

Naomi was an introverted but good-hearted person, an animal lover

I do not doubt it

 

[Colress]

The absolute brass balls you'd need to ask a pastor if you can wear a french maid costume and cat ears while working in the church is so other-worldly.

Apparently he'd been allowed to for a long time beforehand.

 

[Newton Pud]

Perverted tranny fetishist killed himself in a treehouse because he wasn't allowed to wear a french maid outfit at work. He also has a tranny brother. His deranged parents are screaming discrimination & blaming the pastor for telling the tranny degenerate to wear normal clothes at work and are trying to sue the church but no lawyer wants to touch this shit with a ten foot pole.

I love the fact that this grown ass man didn’t have the courtesy to wear a modest dress for church. To him, it was either wearing a maid outfit or being buried with his real name.

 

[Dante Alighieri]

I love the fact that this grown ass man didn’t have the courtesy to wear a modest dress for church. To him, it was either wearing a maid outfit or being buried with his real name.

No you don't understand, I absolutely MUST dress up in my fetish outfit to work.

 

[AskMeAnything]

Perverted tranny fetishist killed himself in a treehouse because he wasn't allowed to wear a french maid outfit at work.

I'm intrigued by this story. I keep picturing him in the treehouse with his French maid's outfit on.
But what happened next?

And not to be pedantic but treehouses are supposed to be up in a tree aren't they?



Great Uncle Harry must have been pleased with how his nephews turned out anyway.




He was totally getting off by cleaning the church in that outfit wasn't he.

 

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Great Uncle Harry must have been pleased with how his nephews turned out anyway.

Imagine fighting for the kikes in WW2 only for the kikes to import a billion niggers and troon out your grandkids. Bleak.