Any man who has successfully raised kids to adulthood and a high value man would gladly take a not-so-hot for a partner if she is kind, polite, a good mother, and treats a man the right way, that means things like mutual attraction, showing respect, noticing the 'little things,' admiration, she backs you up and seems loyal, fun to be around, kindness, aligned in life's direction, polarity/complementary energy, she can give and receive, she brings peace not chaos, accountable and honest. All of these things are far more important than "being hot," for me one of the biggest is just backing me up. We can agree later on how things could have gone differently, but in the heat of a struggle or emotion having a partner than you can count on to back you up is worth more than anything.
That said, I've seen mine, and seen a few pics of you, and I'll gladly keep mine even though she might have a few years extra on her.