Rewatching the whole King Snake/Kino arc through TBS... it really does vindicate so much of what people say about Phil, and also how (alotofpeepol at least) don't pull punches anymore.
Phil repeatedly confirmed that things he said about his wife/his family/his pets being sick was either a lie or, at the very least, an exaggeration to get the Kino Casino to believe him to be genuine and to use whenever convenient to get out of doing something because he was just faking his affection towards them.
Remember that Phil made those DMs public, so Phil outed himself as somebody who used family members as a tool for work-related benefit, as Phil has said, he used the Kino Casino to both show he wasn't a whipping boy (which benefits his business) and to make money (which Phil says is business talk and OK).
So when Phil rants about people talking about his family, buddy, you've made your family, including your wife & your parents, a means to an end in terms of bettering your business. They are free game. And while at one point I, and I'm sure others, felt bad about mentioning your wife, you gave us the green light. Enjoy sharing the house with somebody who looks like female RTU (btw I'm sure you have seen RTU's tits more than your wife's).