Wow, there's so many subgenres of bearded insane women
The problem with having a community of not like other girls is that once you get a large enough group of not like other girls, you suddenly are very much like other girls/people again.
This means NLOGs who transitioned for an exclusionist group they could control (as they couldn't be queen bees in high school) split into smaller, more exclusionary groups to exclude others and control the ingroup from without other wannabe queen bee competition. These are not the majority, these are just the loudest and most destructive.
The NLOGs who transitioned due to having no personality and gained one while transitioning suddenly lost their uniqueness and in their mind, their personality/persona as a whole. To share a group of small labels with 5 other people is easier than 50 other people for them, as they have a very bad sense of self.
The NLOGs who transitioned due to rebellion obviously hate how many people came to their spaces, so they must be the more hardcore ones or the more unique ones.
The NLOGs who transitioned thanks to genuinely not fitting in and having bad social cues will fall wherever their non-fair-weather friends take them. There's several who will find themselves waking up with no trans men/trans masc friends because the ones they had fought with each other, now the autists who didn't pick a side is kicked to the curve/the one who doesn't align enough with their beliefs and STILL talks to that bitch Becky. They'll pick niches for themselves, but they'll still feel disconnected and might realize how disconnecting being a pooner really is (but usually do nothing once they do because sunk cost).
These are some of the many reasons for transmen/transmasc/women screaming they're NOT women atomization of a community. These are just the easiest to observe.
Edit: Almost all pooners chose to transition/call themselves trans because they hate themselves. Some found out that they just hated the idea of being called a woman or competing with them (as they would compare themselves or be compared by family/hometown culture of Stacy) and become male in pronouns only. They found that they had an easier time loving themselves when they slotted themselves into "male" instead of "woman", and these women are usually the girliest of pooners who dress femininely and do their makeup. While the word game is nuts, they are usually not sane themselves and aren't sure how to work out their issues with it - those that do are obviously not pooners. Point is, "feminine/nb" pooners have their self esteem reaffirmed with this one simple jedi mind trick. Meanwhile, masucline pooners are those who just hate or aren't a fan of anything feminine and get reassurance from being masculine, bringing their self confidence up. This naturally leads to clashes when Aiden comes in with
her his new dress and twirls while insisting on being he/him and Caden doesn't feel comfortable anymore. The entire thing is a game of self hate and stupidity but it's hard to get women who are in it away from it since so many either feel a desire to belong to a group, fix their problems by pooning/nb without going through the actual rough patches of dealing with their own self hate, and general self destruction. And of course, porn addicted BL idioticy doesn't help.