I suspect that the more competent ones, like Liz and Alicia, fall for the love bombing and the goth bad boy persona at first, but quickly outgrow the bad boy and realize the love bombing is bullshit. I mean, it's clear that ol Tarl promised Samantha more than he could deliver, and the love bombing stage was over once he hucked a phone and ranted and raved at her in New Orleans.
Some of these ladies learn a valuable lesson, make like a bakery truck and haul buns outta there, and never look back. Others are not nearly as smart about it, and/or suck at taking responsibility for their own actions.
It's got to be a very humbling experience, realizing that one got taken for a ride by Tarl Fucking Warwick, and humility is not some of these ladies' strong suits. More fool them; there's nothing to be had by continuing to orbit him in some dumb attempt to get revenge. They only embarrass themselves more, whereas they could be living well if they'd just let it go.