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They think that everyone affirming them and using their preferred pronouns is because they all actually believe he is a true and honest member of the opposite sex.
When in reality, it's that normies are conflict averse and don't wish to deal with the temper tantrums of a willfully confused narcissist.
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Probably because they are special ed kids. Some special ed kids don’t know they’re special ed, especially if the parents have money. Consider the very special boy who is responsible for the existence Kiwi Farms. Chris didn’t need special education. He was *autistic.*
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New to the thread but I've been seeing this happen more and more. Narcissistic TIM goes into Reddit specifically made for women with large breast problems and complaints of pain and oversexualization to intrude and spread his creepy desire to be a walking sex doll irregardless of the health complications of it. Women constantly have to close their DMs in this group because of creeps DMing them, so this is an even bigger slap in the face. The more you read it the worse it gets.
Refusal to integrate, creates entire new thread instead of reading the subreddit for 5 seconds.
'Soft mommy energy'... really giving more of a 'molester in the library bathroom' energy...
Refusal to integrate, creates entire new thread instead of reading the subreddit for 5 seconds.
'Soft mommy energy'... really giving more of a 'molester in the library bathroom' energy...
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That's a very sexualized post. No one in that reddit needed (or wanted) to know about his ~ideal body soft-mommy form~ he's clearly typing one handed.
Also, gastric bypass for only 70 pounds seems drastic. Have the standards for who's eligible for bypass changed that much?
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The frustrating thing about this to me is exactly the same thing as when they loudly scream "fuck Nazis" and other tripe in public. Things that are absolutely fucking stupid, but are completely impossible to engage with without losing at their game.
All these gestures are, when you really look at them, are just ways that they can instigate fights but in a way that leaves them as the victim in the situation. They absolutely have malicious intent and are absolutely starved for conflict, but they need to engineer it in such a way that it seems like they have the moral high ground, so they go around craning their neck out, begging anyone who's willing to listen to say something worthy of crucifixion.
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Went and checked his profile. He posts in the WoW and antiwork subreddits, because of course he does.
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T-Rex and the City: a tranny dreams of the glamour of working a "pretty girl job," which he describes as having a work-life balance in which he can do yoga and live "the soft life" by working merely 3 days a week. Puzzlingly, he considers escorting to be one of these "pretty girl jobs" and seems convinced that escorting involves attending charm school and hosting dinner parties rather than getting your orifices blown out by pig-men old enough to be your grandfather. Talk about sheltered!
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The "fun" in funeral: this brave ally would love to know what the proper protocol is when it comes to disrupting the funeral of a dead troon whose family dared to acknowledge the truth of their son, so naturally, one must take to Reddit for advice. All of these comments are pretty hilarious if just because I would be in a front row seat for any cop cams featuring a family brawl at a tranny funeral. And of course, I'll make enough popcorn for all of the hungry Kiwis joining me. 
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A TiF is feeling left behind after a dinner with her friends, many of whom are now married and making moves to build families within the next few years while she still feels entrenched in her freewheeling 20s. This is something I can be sympathetic to as I think we really ought to support people not having children (especially troons 'n' poons), but the fact that the commenters echo a similar sentiment of feeling like they were "reset" by their transition echoes a Peter Pan syndrome that I find intolerable.
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No room for Kens in this toy box: remember that post @Syikeblade shared about the poons who were fighting against their Alicean overlords to have the cries of their people heard? Well, that post got locked - naturally, as no one worships girl cock the way the mods of r/FTM do - but the girls are not taking this one lying down!
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After engaging with media featuring the most milquetoast and watered down of lesbian experiences, a man longs for what he can never have, nor be - but with years of repression under his belt and a newfound bout of unemployment, the siren call of fetishism is tempting him to bash himself against the rocks of troonacy in hopes of finding his own way to the Isle of Lesbos.Even before I knew I was trans I was jealous of "pretty girl jobs" but do they exist?
Pretty girl jobs--a myth?
From the outside, idk, over the course of years ive seen positions that seem to qualify and offer low stress, seemingly decent pay
I do get that Im putting the cart way before the horse here because there's a chance I dont even end up qualifying at all. But like ffs I want the soft life. Wake up, do yoga focus on my body, my peace of mind, limberness.
Make basically full time pay for like 3 days of work.
Hell if there are like ***actual*** escorts. Like for idk dinner parties or dates or whatever, id go to charm school or something and be good at.
I guess I'm just wondering how--if I do end up getting lucky/liking the way i look--is there some cushy way out of the grind it out type of jobs or no?
(No, right? Beautiful women looking for basically entry level jobs are a dime a dozen so Im gonna need a plan, a degree, hope that im able to hide from transphobia and probably still a lot of luck because the market is just that fucking bad right now...?)
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End-stage AGP: this MTF fetishizes womanhood so completely and totally that he even gets off to the idea of going through a female puberty and becoming a mother, as well as "girl talk," "laughing as a woman" and "women supporting me as being a woman." But there's just one itsy-bitsy problem: he only experiences these desires when he's horny, and the moment that post-nut clarity busts down the door of his mind, the inclinations vanish. Other highlights to this post include that he is a fucking teacher and feels arousal at the idea of being a female teacher as well as his blatant attempt to trick other Redditors into sexually affirming his kink.
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A man who wears women's clothing asks other men in women's clothing as to why those weird genetic girlies don't like them being around in the bathroom, because apparently he has lived under a rock for the past 10 years. He seems convinced that he's different from his fellow perverts because he got the dick enripulation already taken care of, but fellas, even without a fishing rod, the ladies can tell you're a fisherman. But let's see what the Troon Tribe has to say!
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[–]Fun_Tell_7441
I don't want to really discuss stuff at the moment but "Biological women" is a fascist dog whistle. Use "cis women" instead. Trans* women are, by all means, biological and women.
[–]Koolio_Koala
The reality is no-one needs to “dress as a woman” to harass and assault women in bathrooms or elsewhere. Women’s toilet/locker bans don’t deter rapists or do anything to protect any women and girls, they only negatively affect trans women who don’t “pass” and cis women who don’t “look woman enough”. And it’s that kind of “but it’ll stop all of these [non-existent] men from pretending to be women!” thinking that does absolutely nothing to help women, but actually harms many.
Some cis women are “concerned” because the media has made up a story, pushed by politicians and predominantly right wing/religious groups, that droves of men are invading toilets and using subterfuge to assault women, and somehow getting away with it claiming they are trans. By drumming up false fear, conflating being trans with being decietful and a rapist, authoritarian and populist politicians can use that fear to push regressive policies to better control men and women. It’s a oretty simple equation used by fascist regimes worldwide and for centuries: “choose a small group that can’t defned themselves, make them a ‘strong’ enemy with ‘deep, hidden influence’, tie them to big societal problems like the economy or crime, eliminate the ‘enemy’ while restricting all freedoms (it’s ‘acceptable’ to people if it also removes the ‘enemies’ freedoms), shout ‘we’ve fixed society’, then ride the populism”.
Plus, no-ones going around exposing their junk to people in changing rooms either, and trans people are hyperconscious about it because it’s their safety and their lives on the line from the reactions of others. Seeing genitals that look different to yours in a place you expect to see genitals, shouldn’t be something “uncomfortable” or “scary”, like seeing someone with a visible difference or disability.
Older laws forbade people with visible disfigurements, missing limbs or scarring from being visible in public because it’d “cause offence” or “disturb sensibilities”. Just because someone’s body doesn’t look how you expect it to, doesn’t mean your internalised feelings supercede their very real existence. My take is: so what if someone has scarring, has faced FGM, has a penis, has a colostomy bag, an insulin pump, missing limbs? It doesn’t impact you, it’s not “disgusting” and any “discomfort” is your own, so mind your business.
[–]Minyassa
I have never read a single case where a predator went to the trouble of posing as a woman to harass women in bathrooms. It is easy for a man to sneak into a women's bathroom if he wants to. It is not easy to pose as a woman. A cis man would not be able to pull it off without a lot of expense and practice, and in the time all that takes he could have perved in dozens of bathrooms already. It's just not a thing outside of an alarmist hypothetical designed to get people's panties in a wad over trans folks.
Why? Because trans folks are a low-hanging fruit to paint as an enemy that politicians can then pretend to protect people from. That's all there is to that whole issue.
I'd argue that 90% of people making this argument aren't biological women at all but rather (old) men that use it as a dogwhistle to further push/excuse their transphobia
Interesting, but I heard from a cis woman how much a man in a women's bathroom bothers them, even if that person looks like a woman and does what all the other women do in the women's bathroom.
I've heard the opposite too. That trans women shouldn't use the men's bathrooms either as it would "make men uncomfortable". Which to me was very enlightening. My take away was that there are a lot of people who are tying the existence of genitals to arousal. Which is bizzare and I don't get it.
genuinely, how are these women identifying which of the people who look like women and are acting normal in the bathroom are actually men?
What you heard of is not proof of anything. Substantiate your claims with non-anedoctal evidence or just acknowledge you don’t know what you’re talking about
[–]Fun_Tell_7441
I don't want to really discuss stuff at the moment but "Biological women" is a fascist dog whistle. Use "cis women" instead. Trans* women are, by all means, biological and women.
ok sorry i didn't know that and actually i use biological woman
Not in this place but somewhere else.
It's fine, that's why I'm mentioning it. Propaganda works on all of us.
Maybe don't
There is no such thing as biological women. Every living individual is “biological”.
What you probably wanted to say is “biological females” which is mostly used to support biological-existentialist ideology in debates.
Bottom line, if you don’t want to sound hateful or stupid, don’t use it.
[–]Koolio_Koala
I’m aware of one case in south korea where some creep cis guy installed cameras and was rightfully charged and sentenced, but otherwise it’s just a nonsense bogeyman argument used to justify hate. It’s not a ‘thing’ and doesn’t really happen. It’s a common piece of propaganda though, a trope that stokes fear and pushes the blame away from the men who might actually commit those crimes, onto the women who just wanna pee in peace. The usual media outlets like to push the trope, but never provide evidence of back up the fearmongering, just saying shit like “well, it could have happened!”.
The reality is no-one needs to “dress as a woman” to harass and assault women in bathrooms or elsewhere. Women’s toilet/locker bans don’t deter rapists or do anything to protect any women and girls, they only negatively affect trans women who don’t “pass” and cis women who don’t “look woman enough”. And it’s that kind of “but it’ll stop all of these [non-existent] men from pretending to be women!” thinking that does absolutely nothing to help women, but actually harms many.
Some cis women are “concerned” because the media has made up a story, pushed by politicians and predominantly right wing/religious groups, that droves of men are invading toilets and using subterfuge to assault women, and somehow getting away with it claiming they are trans. By drumming up false fear, conflating being trans with being decietful and a rapist, authoritarian and populist politicians can use that fear to push regressive policies to better control men and women. It’s a oretty simple equation used by fascist regimes worldwide and for centuries: “choose a small group that can’t defned themselves, make them a ‘strong’ enemy with ‘deep, hidden influence’, tie them to big societal problems like the economy or crime, eliminate the ‘enemy’ while restricting all freedoms (it’s ‘acceptable’ to people if it also removes the ‘enemies’ freedoms), shout ‘we’ve fixed society’, then ride the populism”.
Plus, no-ones going around exposing their junk to people in changing rooms either, and trans people are hyperconscious about it because it’s their safety and their lives on the line from the reactions of others. Seeing genitals that look different to yours in a place you expect to see genitals, shouldn’t be something “uncomfortable” or “scary”, like seeing someone with a visible difference or disability.
Older laws forbade people with visible disfigurements, missing limbs or scarring from being visible in public because it’d “cause offence” or “disturb sensibilities”. Just because someone’s body doesn’t look how you expect it to, doesn’t mean your internalised feelings supercede their very real existence. My take is: so what if someone has scarring, has faced FGM, has a penis, has a colostomy bag, an insulin pump, missing limbs? It doesn’t impact you, it’s not “disgusting” and any “discomfort” is your own, so mind your business.
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I have never read a single case where a predator went to the trouble of posing as a woman to harass women in bathrooms. It is easy for a man to sneak into a women's bathroom if he wants to. It is not easy to pose as a woman. A cis man would not be able to pull it off without a lot of expense and practice, and in the time all that takes he could have perved in dozens of bathrooms already. It's just not a thing outside of an alarmist hypothetical designed to get people's panties in a wad over trans folks.
Why? Because trans folks are a low-hanging fruit to paint as an enemy that politicians can then pretend to protect people from. That's all there is to that whole issue.
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[–]Dawniechi
I saw a video recently of a guy who went to his friend's funeral only to find out that his friend was transmasc. He saw his friend as a guy, and it upset him to see that his friend was put in a dress, disrespecting his identity. So he made an effort to derail as much as possible and blame the people there.
As a trans woman, when I eventually pass, if I am put in some suit and have my hair cut, please make a mockery of my funeral. Megaphones, air horns, the whole works. Hell, start doing my makeup right then and there at the casket.
While I am not your neighbor, I can tell you that she will 100% get heavily disrespected at her own funeral. If you don't want to cause some massive scene like I described above, then just be there and provide your own speech, using proper pronouns and name. Have at least one person there that gets it.
[–]RobIsInTheSky
openly blame them for the suicide if they do
[–]Lupulus_
I'm very sorry for your loss, and also thankful people like you are around as our friends and neighbors x
Honestly while rage or forcing politeness from bigots feels tempting, what might help grief most is just offering to host a separate DIY ceremony for people who actually knew her as her. It can be simple as meeting somewhere to swap stories and photos over some easy shareable food, then visiting her grave together. When it's my turn, the place my corpse ends up isn't what will make it my funeral. Where my friends and actual family gather to remember me will be.
If you're not aware, Trans Day of Rememberence is 20th November every year. Finding a local event and lighting a candle can be just as moving and important as some expensive church affair.
[–]1i2728
For Those Whose Dying Breaths Were Silenced Please read this short piece.
It doesn't matter that you didn't know her well. You knew her better than her own mother, and that means you have a right to speak over her.
I don't hold any superstitions nor religious beliefs about my corpse having any connection to my soul after I die - I don't place any stock in funerary rites - but if my folks held a transphobic funeral for me, I would consider it my dying wish for somebody - anybody - to disrupt it.
Please do.
Make a eulogy. PM me if you want, and I'll help you write it. Call these people out in the harshest way possible. Go with a friend. Put that shit on You Tube. Shame these bastards in any way you can think of.
Every trans suicide is a murder, and I guarantee you the killer will be in that room.
[–]ChickinSammich
If it were me, I'd want anyone who was gonna misgender or deadname me to not be invited to my funeral. Unfortunately, since the people running the funeral are those people, I don't think that has a good chance of happening.
They're almost certainly going to deadname and misgender her on purpose. You can and probably should speak up in her defense. You will probably be accused of making a scene and will probably be asked or told to leave. I'm not telling you not to do it, I'm just saying that anything you do to honor her that's blatant enough to call out the transphobia will also be used as justification to accuse you of "causing drama" or "starting trouble" or something similar.
So if that's your plan, make sure you go into it with that in mind. Good luck, OP.
[–]spacek56
This is truly horrific. I am so sorry to hear this. I would be worried too. You could gently restate her name nd pronouns in conversations every time it comes up. Or if there is a section where they let anyone else speak, you could go up and bring this up. You could be more aggressive like you say, but at the end of the day the funeral is for the family and friends of her and not for her. It is everyone else's way to begin the grieving process so it might not be worth it to make a massive fuss. I would if I was closer to the person, but this is just a very tough situation in general.
[–]hommenym
Shout her name at her funeral! Every time someone fucks up! LOUD ENOUGH FOR THE DEAD TO HEAR!!
[–]Furie_216
IF YOU ARE COMFORTABLE! TELL HER STORY!!! When they have thr moment people can get up and talk. Use her name and tell them SHE was trans and the unacceptance amd lack of support of people is what caused her to do what she did. It doesn't matter if you were not super close, no one knows that. You were close enough to care about her being deadnamed.
[–]SocialPsychProj
Do that goofy shit in honor of her and her name she'll've appreciated it
I saw a video recently of a guy who went to his friend's funeral only to find out that his friend was transmasc. He saw his friend as a guy, and it upset him to see that his friend was put in a dress, disrespecting his identity. So he made an effort to derail as much as possible and blame the people there.
As a trans woman, when I eventually pass, if I am put in some suit and have my hair cut, please make a mockery of my funeral. Megaphones, air horns, the whole works. Hell, start doing my makeup right then and there at the casket.
While I am not your neighbor, I can tell you that she will 100% get heavily disrespected at her own funeral. If you don't want to cause some massive scene like I described above, then just be there and provide your own speech, using proper pronouns and name. Have at least one person there that gets it.
That feels good - but does it really help the rest of us, in the public's eye?
In the aftermath of such a display, do you think legislation would relax - or clamp down more?
It really doesn't matter what we do, they want us gone. We've not been in the public eye for decades and then been dragged out as scape goats by politicians so they can do what ever they want while the public is busy trying to erase us
I understand the sentiment, but when it comes to the disrespect of our own deaths, I simply cannot stand by idly. We spend much of our lives trying to be perfect role models just to hope and pray that some bigot doesn't point at us and accuse us of heinous things without a single ounce of evidence and be believed implicitly by society.
When it comes to the procedures of our own deaths, and how we will spend the rest of our lives dressed and displayed amongst the dirt, I refuse to just let the bigots have another victory over us. If I die young and am made to present masculinely in a casket, I beg and plead that my partner make a mockery of it all. The final disrespect we get should be among the living, not among the dead.
[–]RobIsInTheSky
openly blame them for the suicide if they do
Blame them where? At the funeral home?
When going up to speak, “I wish I knew, name better but from what I’ve seen here today I no longer wonder why she chose to kill herself because you have given a perfect explanation by denying her very identity in an attempt to make her something she was not and could never be. It truly is something else when even after she’s dead and gone, you still cling to a past illusion which was the very reason she’s gone…” name and shame at a funeral, is it fucked up to have to do? Yes, if I was being dead named and crap, I’d want someone to do that though.
Words well said, I'd want this to be said too to relatives if they would go deep and hard with their misgendering and deadnaming. I don't think it will occur in my case, but otherwise I will probably still need some clause in my testament, in case of emergency.
Definitely do it at the end because nobody knows what they'll do
[–]Lupulus_
I'm very sorry for your loss, and also thankful people like you are around as our friends and neighbors x
Honestly while rage or forcing politeness from bigots feels tempting, what might help grief most is just offering to host a separate DIY ceremony for people who actually knew her as her. It can be simple as meeting somewhere to swap stories and photos over some easy shareable food, then visiting her grave together. When it's my turn, the place my corpse ends up isn't what will make it my funeral. Where my friends and actual family gather to remember me will be.
If you're not aware, Trans Day of Rememberence is 20th November every year. Finding a local event and lighting a candle can be just as moving and important as some expensive church affair.
[–]1i2728
For Those Whose Dying Breaths Were Silenced Please read this short piece.
It doesn't matter that you didn't know her well. You knew her better than her own mother, and that means you have a right to speak over her.
I don't hold any superstitions nor religious beliefs about my corpse having any connection to my soul after I die - I don't place any stock in funerary rites - but if my folks held a transphobic funeral for me, I would consider it my dying wish for somebody - anybody - to disrupt it.
Please do.
Make a eulogy. PM me if you want, and I'll help you write it. Call these people out in the harshest way possible. Go with a friend. Put that shit on You Tube. Shame these bastards in any way you can think of.
Every trans suicide is a murder, and I guarantee you the killer will be in that room.
[–]ChickinSammich
If it were me, I'd want anyone who was gonna misgender or deadname me to not be invited to my funeral. Unfortunately, since the people running the funeral are those people, I don't think that has a good chance of happening.
They're almost certainly going to deadname and misgender her on purpose. You can and probably should speak up in her defense. You will probably be accused of making a scene and will probably be asked or told to leave. I'm not telling you not to do it, I'm just saying that anything you do to honor her that's blatant enough to call out the transphobia will also be used as justification to accuse you of "causing drama" or "starting trouble" or something similar.
So if that's your plan, make sure you go into it with that in mind. Good luck, OP.
[–]spacek56
This is truly horrific. I am so sorry to hear this. I would be worried too. You could gently restate her name nd pronouns in conversations every time it comes up. Or if there is a section where they let anyone else speak, you could go up and bring this up. You could be more aggressive like you say, but at the end of the day the funeral is for the family and friends of her and not for her. It is everyone else's way to begin the grieving process so it might not be worth it to make a massive fuss. I would if I was closer to the person, but this is just a very tough situation in general.
I couldn’t disagree more. People who have terminal illness help plan their own funeral, they pick songs they’d like played. It’s as much about them as people as it is for any family or friends that attend. The funeral is their opportunity to say goodbye, and deadnaming and misgendering the deceased is incredibly offensive.
If I had a funeral I’d had any role in planning and thought that might happen, I’d leave explicit instructions that those people be told to fuck off.
[–]hommenym
Shout her name at her funeral! Every time someone fucks up! LOUD ENOUGH FOR THE DEAD TO HEAR!!
[–]Furie_216
IF YOU ARE COMFORTABLE! TELL HER STORY!!! When they have thr moment people can get up and talk. Use her name and tell them SHE was trans and the unacceptance amd lack of support of people is what caused her to do what she did. It doesn't matter if you were not super close, no one knows that. You were close enough to care about her being deadnamed.
[–]SocialPsychProj
Do that goofy shit in honor of her and her name she'll've appreciated it
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[–]Jarmanip950
I understand this so much. I don't want any kids ever and marriage maybe but not a priority. It started feeling weird in my circle of friends especially since for some reason straight women no matter how carefree and confident they are in college and young adult life they all seem to cave in to patriarchy and societal pressure. I've seen it happen to close friends of mine. It's like they are scared of being "left out" or seen as unsuccessful once they get in their late 20's.
Being queer we don't have the same measurements of success, we often have so much battle to fight before even thinking of settling down and being at peace with ourselves is what matters first. We don't have the same timeline and that's okay.
Just make sure you know who you are and know how you want your life to look like. There's so much more to say about this topic than I have words for right now. But don't internalise anything they feel, it's about them and not you.
[–]TheWhiteCrowParade
I'll be honest with you, the nice thing about being LGBT is that there isn't really a blueprint for what your life is supposed to be like. Cishet folk have a lot of expectations on them. For many years we didn't so we could make our own way. Like for example, a 60 year old cishet guy living alone with no kids is sad. But not really a 60 year old gay guy or trans guy.
If anything not conforming to those expectations frees you up. For example, the people I admired the most as a teen didn't have kids. But were able to touch the lives of many. For example, Tom of Finland, Marsha P. Johnson, Harvey Milk, Sylvia Rivera to name a few.
[–]DrawingMost5200
I’m 31, just had top surgery the beginning of this year.I feel like I’m finally starting to live the life I’ve wanted. “Luckily” for me the “friends” I had prior to realizing my truth are no longer in the picture. Like others have said, just realizing what my goals and aspirations are for my life— but also just living in the moment because we aren’t promised anything. I don’t want kids but I do plan to marry my partner in the near future. My fiancé is very much on the same page as our number one priority was getting me top surgery. Now we are focused on other goals. I think it’s important to note that while you can and should socialize with others who have differing views, I will not be around those who try to dictate and throw their agenda onto me. I’ve been there and clawed my way out of that— I will not go back. Live YOUR life FOR YOU, dude.I’m convinced most people have kids to try to prove to themselves they are better parents than those who raised them but that’s just my opinion.
I understand this so much. I don't want any kids ever and marriage maybe but not a priority. It started feeling weird in my circle of friends especially since for some reason straight women no matter how carefree and confident they are in college and young adult life they all seem to cave in to patriarchy and societal pressure. I've seen it happen to close friends of mine. It's like they are scared of being "left out" or seen as unsuccessful once they get in their late 20's.
Being queer we don't have the same measurements of success, we often have so much battle to fight before even thinking of settling down and being at peace with ourselves is what matters first. We don't have the same timeline and that's okay.
Just make sure you know who you are and know how you want your life to look like. There's so much more to say about this topic than I have words for right now. But don't internalise anything they feel, it's about them and not you.
Yes, reminding myself of that is so important to me. After realizing I was transmasc and nonbinary in my mid 20s I felt like I hit the reset button and mentally went back to being a dorky, carefree teenager lol!
And thank you for your words, they’re helping me validate my feelings
You're welcome, I'm just telling you what I wish someone told me when I was younger so I'm glad it helps.I just had top surgery 2 months ago at 31 and also feel like it was a reset, I feel like I was supposed to feel in my early 20's, living fully, not hiding and experiencing life the way majority of people were able to do. So like I said our timeline is completely different to theirs.
[–]TheWhiteCrowParade
I'll be honest with you, the nice thing about being LGBT is that there isn't really a blueprint for what your life is supposed to be like. Cishet folk have a lot of expectations on them. For many years we didn't so we could make our own way. Like for example, a 60 year old cishet guy living alone with no kids is sad. But not really a 60 year old gay guy or trans guy.
If anything not conforming to those expectations frees you up. For example, the people I admired the most as a teen didn't have kids. But were able to touch the lives of many. For example, Tom of Finland, Marsha P. Johnson, Harvey Milk, Sylvia Rivera to name a few.
[–]DrawingMost5200
I’m 31, just had top surgery the beginning of this year.I feel like I’m finally starting to live the life I’ve wanted. “Luckily” for me the “friends” I had prior to realizing my truth are no longer in the picture. Like others have said, just realizing what my goals and aspirations are for my life— but also just living in the moment because we aren’t promised anything. I don’t want kids but I do plan to marry my partner in the near future. My fiancé is very much on the same page as our number one priority was getting me top surgery. Now we are focused on other goals. I think it’s important to note that while you can and should socialize with others who have differing views, I will not be around those who try to dictate and throw their agenda onto me. I’ve been there and clawed my way out of that— I will not go back. Live YOUR life FOR YOU, dude.I’m convinced most people have kids to try to prove to themselves they are better parents than those who raised them but that’s just my opinion.
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“be seen, not heard,and keep a smile on your face” sounds a whole lot like when we were raised as girls. It’s frustrating that we aren’t free of that yet. Everyone should be heard.
[–]grimbarkjade
I'm with you on this, I can definitely tell through your writing that you're super frustrated and I get it. It's very tiring being unable to speak freely in our own community without being told off for being too loud or just being fully silenced. Sometimes feels like we're not allowed to have any discussions solely centering our experiences.
[–]Myseelium-
Waiting to see how quickly this very valid post gets removed, flooded with people telling OP the problems in there don't matter, aren't real, or don't matter as much as other trans people's problems. Waiting for all of the MRA comments, all of the incel, and men are garbage comments as well.
I am also fed up. Seriously considered leaving every trans subreddit I am in because for some reason it has been particularly heinous today. There is nowhere to exist peacefully it feels like.
[–]miscount_detected
i genuinely had a breakdown about this the other night it sucks so much
[–]bgsonln
If you want a space to be honest in then make it. I hear a lot of other FtMs say this and it's getting extremely tiring to hear people constantly complaining and doing nothing. You are just as capable of honing your own platform as any other trans person and I think that if you want your opinion to be heard then you should put it out there rather than complaining about the lack thereof. People accusing you of transmisogyny or whatever other pejorative term people hurl at trans men truly only matters if you are electively choosing to let that get to you.
“be seen, not heard,and keep a smile on your face” sounds a whole lot like when we were raised as girls. It’s frustrating that we aren’t free of that yet. Everyone should be heard.
[–]grimbarkjade
I'm with you on this, I can definitely tell through your writing that you're super frustrated and I get it. It's very tiring being unable to speak freely in our own community without being told off for being too loud or just being fully silenced. Sometimes feels like we're not allowed to have any discussions solely centering our experiences.
[–]Myseelium-
Waiting to see how quickly this very valid post gets removed, flooded with people telling OP the problems in there don't matter, aren't real, or don't matter as much as other trans people's problems. Waiting for all of the MRA comments, all of the incel, and men are garbage comments as well.
I am also fed up. Seriously considered leaving every trans subreddit I am in because for some reason it has been particularly heinous today. There is nowhere to exist peacefully it feels like.
[–]miscount_detected
i genuinely had a breakdown about this the other night it sucks so much
[–]bgsonln
If you want a space to be honest in then make it. I hear a lot of other FtMs say this and it's getting extremely tiring to hear people constantly complaining and doing nothing. You are just as capable of honing your own platform as any other trans person and I think that if you want your opinion to be heard then you should put it out there rather than complaining about the lack thereof. People accusing you of transmisogyny or whatever other pejorative term people hurl at trans men truly only matters if you are electively choosing to let that get to you.
Spaces that are generally for trans people should be open to hearing transmasc experiences. Go to any general trans subreddit and youll count on your left hand how many times you see ANYTHING from a trans man. Thats the issue, spaces that SHOULD be for us are completely intolerant of our presence the second it becomes even slightly complicated.
It’s the fact their they’re complaining in a space saying they’re not allowed to complain anywhere.
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Still can’t believe this became a super serial civil rights movement.
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They’re so fucking disgusting, I hate them all.
Sorry if this has already been posted, I’ve been offline a bit. I saw this on my YouTube feed today and felt obligated to share the background of this dude (or at least part of it.)
If you don’t have time to watch, just assume he’s the disgusting freak he looks like, and pray for his child on the way.
Edit: I’m still watching, he pulled his wife into the video to talk about his infidelity and she ends up embarrassing HIM by the end. Maybe her kid will be okay.
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Protip: don't hold any funerals for your 41% son or daughter, considering the kind of nutty "friends" they have.
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>the bbc
>writes factual statements
I mean, I can agree that it would be out of character.
Bullying should not only be allowed but encouraged. Specimen like this should be examined for any faulty wiring and childhood abuse. This kind of extreme non-self-awareness is a special type.
I have the rule for it; if I use “him”, you’re doing your job of playing woman incorrectly. You’ve tried and failed. Your masculine aura is showing. Only once I say “her” without thinking, you’ve made it, you’re a “woman” in my eyes. You will not force me to say one thing above the other, you will be spoken to as I see fit. But referring to them as “the abominable” comes off a bit harsh so I’ll just stick to “him” instead.
This is the kind of guy who says “trans people don’t come up in your personal spaces so why care so much about them”. Delusional.
Syikeblade
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Found this comment on how even the older trannies don't respect them lol.
Figured I'd just attach this post instead of making it separate.
Some trannies who are settling with pooner's.
Of course then not having real dicks is a turn off for most of them.
Funny how this guy has a preference for actual men, even though TIF's are suppose to be identical to real men.
And a surprise to no one familiar with this thread, most TIF's are just straight with a fetish for gay men.
And not the cross dressing ones.
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Necrosan
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It's honestly impressive how each idea is worse than the previous one. They really think they are living in a movie.
I can't believe this isn't someone trying to troll them.
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HERE COMES THE THE COCK BOAT! Set sail for dick.
True & Honest Fan
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What straight man doesn't like a big booty Latina?
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That looks like the standard "dress up as a woman for shit and giggles" that some people do on Carnival.
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This is hilarious to me because the phrase "X deserves love" is absolutely incel shit they'd decry if it were coming out of a different mouth.
Candidate No 7
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Isn't this one bait, with the 5 o'clock shadow? The picture looks familiar from a few years ago.
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It's Jacob Tobia, famous from this Vice article: Why Can't My Famous Gender Noncomforming Friends Get Laid
Sadly, they changed the header photo. When we previously talked about this article they used an absolutely ridiculous photo of the three faggots in question.
Here you go, retarded tranny. It does happen! You're just not looking for it.
That article is from a twanzphobic website, so here it is covered by a local news station: Sex offender dressed as woman allegedly took photos of women in restroom, pulled pepper ball gun at Hulen Mall
Basically, a sex offender was caught in a mall in DFW taking pictures of women, while wearing a dress. He was chased out of the bathroom and pursued by good ol' Texas gentlemen, the kind who don't put up with that nonsense. When he was cornered, he was in the process of changing back into men's clothes he'd stashed.
LaughJoke2.0
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Troons share one major common theme with the body positive movement and that's No Matter How Repulsive I am You Should Want to Fuck Me.