During a trip to a women's restroom, a pooner's packer cascades out of her underwear and into the sight of a woman in the stall beside hers, which prompts the stranger to lash out in disgust. Personally, I find it weird to think of someone in another stall peering into my pants, but this feels like a problem with a very easy solution, which is "don't wear packers."
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I was in a Wendy’s and in a rush. I’m not passing enough for the men’s room. I always get comments and stares.
So I’m in the woman’s, drop my pants, packer, lovely thing, flops out of the jockstrap and into my pants. The lady in the stall next to mine saw it and started screaming. Calling me disgusting and a pervert for using a dildo in a public restroom. 
I will shit my pants before I enter another public bathroom. 
I’m just glad it fell into my pants and not in the floor.
Pretty sure she would’ve been real mad if I rinsed it off in the sink/j
Bitterness stews in this tranny's heart as he watches life move on without him, choosing to stunt his own personal development by longing for experiences that he wouldn't have gotten even if the genetic coin flip had fallen differently.
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I’m posting this just to see if I’m the bad person or if it’s like semi-common.
At literally any major life event for someone I know I’m just simmering with jealousy to an honestly absurd degree.
Friends wedding? “Must be nice not to worry about if marriage is legal for you…”
Nieces sweet 16? “Must be nice to have a big party where everyone talks you ‘becoming a woman…”
My dad and brother going on a camping trip? “I miss doing guy activities without feeling fake…”
Literally me graduating? “This would be better if I was cis like xyz”
It’s just so annoying.
When I was younger and not out as trans it was more just a sad yearning for “girlhood” or whatever, but nowadays it’s just a simmering snippy anger I have at anything. Now anything being labeled as “girlhood/boyhood” or “womanhood/manhood” just pisses me off.
It sucks obviously that at any event where I’m meant to be happy for someone and celebrating I wallow in jealousy and self-loathing. But it also sucks because I feel like a complete asshole!
Like why am I jealous of a flower girl? Get over yourself, this is embarrassing…
It’s not even some deep poetic sadness, it’s an incredibly shallow non-sensical irritability that will be set off by literally anything and anyone.
I’m at least young and able to hide it now, but
one of my fears is that I’m gonna become some constantly old bitter woman who can’t smile at any event.
Anyway I’m gonna go smoke and whinge to myself about a party I’ll forget about in 4 years. But I gotta know if this is anyone else’s experience? Peace out
As a member of the Lollipop Guild, a li'l dood can hardly bare another second on this earth as a FTM (female-to-manlet), despairing over the 'big humiliation ritual' she calls life. Still, she remains with us, if only to disprove to those nasty transphobes that she didn't die because of 'trans brainwashing.' Yeah, because living your truth seems to be going so well for you, isn't it?
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I am a tiny, deformed ‘male’ and extremely autistic and socially inept. It’s a miserable life.
I could have had a true, fulfilling life had I been born male. But of course, it wasn’t meant to be.
Life is one big humiliation ritual.
It is probably impossible for anyone besides a chaser to date me. Not even mentioning the lack of dick, nobody wants to look like they’re dating a child, and they are completely justified to not want to.
The humiliation of having to shop in the boys section as an adult is too much to bear. Being in my 20’s and looking 15 is degrading. To make it worse, I’m genuinely just ugly.
I only have tiny things in my life I enjoy.
I would probably be gone if not for the fact I’m sure my suicide would be blamed on “trans brainwashing”.
A pooner is sent into a stress spiral when the truth of her surgeries are revealed to her best friend's boyfriend - you know, on account of the best friend agreeing to play caregiver as she recovers from her rotdog installation, which is a
pretty major surgery for those who do not peruse the SRS thread. Now instead of being euphoric about the impending arrival of her bouncing baby boy, OP is hyperanalyzing all the other 'tells' that she frets about, such as her munchkin hands, her mysteriously bald arm and the remnants of her titchop. Hopefully she can turn things around and make her bestie seem like the weirdo!
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Found out that my best friend told her boyfriend that she will be helping me recover from bottom surgery. It’s just so disappointing and
I don’t understand why someone would even think that is an ok thing to share about someone else. Ever since I started T 5 years ago I have never come out to a single other person and even talking to my friend (knew her pre-t) I am extremely vague and have only brought up my transness in relation to my surgeries. So from my perspective it is extremely obvious that I am not open about this.
I have also mentioned before that she could just tell him it’s a urethral surgery, which double makes it obvious that I did not want him to know.
Now I’m stuck just feeling disgusted when I think about his perception of me.
I hate people knowing that I don’t have a dick. I feel extra scrutinized for things that could “expose” that I’m trans, like I have small hands and feet, the hair missing from my arm for electrolysis, the small section of top surgery scar that pokes out from my shirt when I wear a tank top etc.
Maybe I’ll ask if she also told him what my hysterectomy was and if she expanded at all on “bottom surgery.” If I ask her to from now on refer to it as urethral surgery maybe he’ll just think it was weird she referred to it as bottom surgery one time lol
A straight couple is bothered by the fact that people recognize their relationship is straight. Historically, gay couples have hoped against hope that many would never catch on to the more romantic elements of their companionship, so it's definitely weird to see a man and a woman upset that people can see them as they are.
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Ok so basically
I am in a relationship with a cisgender guy, it's his first relationship ever and we've been together for almost six months. We have a friend group in common (even tho they're a bit closer with him than they are with me) and I noticed some weird behaviors from them. First of all,
the first thing one of them said to me as soon as he found out about our relationship was "Great, now it'll be even more difficult to not see you as a girl" and like... excuse me?
Then another one of them called my boyfriend a "poser of homosexuality", which clearly stems from the fact that I'm "not a real boy" and therefore a relationship with me is not "actually gay". And
they also ask a lot of questions about my genitals and the way we have sex, almost "making sure" that I won't get a penis... I don't know what to expect by posting this, I just needed to tell someone.
I feel like they treat this relationship like some sort of "phase" and that they expect that we'll eventually break up and my boyfriend will get with a cisgender girl, "as it should be", and my boyfriend himself is really bothered because he feels like they assume that he obviously sees me as a girl.
This post is not one of the first I've read about "tboy wrestling," which - to my understanding - is just a bunch of really fucking ugly chicks wrestling in oil, water or some other kind of presumably lubricated substance. But it's funny nonetheless to see the comments describe it essentially as softcore porn, as many are bothered by seeing shots of FTMs making out with one another, pinning each other down and, based on description, acting out stereotypical porn scenes. Still, I don't know why you would
ever assume a "queer event" isn't going to be an immediate escalation into orgy.
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I’m a black transman, he/him, almost 26 years old. There was a video on instagram talking about how one of the founders or whatever of Tboy wrestling is in some hot water. I scrolled through the comments of everyone saying how they feel, right? So I joined in.
I never liked the vibe Tboy wrestling gave me, but it’s not like I ever acted on it. Just didn’t engage cause it’s not for me. Yay for yall for finding something fun to do tho.
What I said was “I had a bad feeling about it only cause it’s so sexualized, but this is wild lol.” I guess according to others, I should have made it like this “TO PREFACE: ADULTS ARE ALLOWED TO DO AS THEY PLEASE AND EVEN IF YOU WERE TO PARTICIPATE IN A SEXUAL ACT, YOU ARE VALUED AND LOVED AND IMPORTANT
Tboy wrestling is not inherently sexual, and I’m just weird for not wanting to be in a space that uses sexual energy for clips and entertainment, and then rubbing bodies all over each other. Regardless of my own trauma or experience with spaces like that, I should shut up and never speak on my own behalf
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There’s easy proof of sexual and kinky things happening at these events so it’s not like I’m pulling shit out of thin air. I’m really confused on how people took me speaking on myself, as a ploy to convince others that Tboy wrestling is an orgy party waiting to happen. So many people said I was weird for feeling that way.
Yall hype up sex workers all day but don’t wanna hear from those with sexual trauma? Makes no sense to me.
The queer community feels like it’s becoming a toxic positivity echo chamber where no one can have a differing opinion. There’s so much more I could speak on but I’ll save it for another day.
During a fight over Thanksgiving plans, a troon tells his pooner girlfriend that he hopes her family discards her and forces her to detransition, seemingly all because her family doesn't care very deeply about him. I'm sure that OP will continue staying in this warm, healthy relationship, because if there's anything FTMs can't stop themselves from, it's shacking up with toxic trannies.
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My girlfriend (26) and I (24) are both trans. She is MtF and I'm FtM. For some back ground
my family has been very weird about their acceptance of me. They get my name right but still constantly miss gender me. My mom is also voicing her concerns about me transitioning. They don't say they don't want me to, but they act so weird about it. Back to what was going on.
My girlfriend and I had an argument because I said something about Thanksgiving and she said she doesn't care about going because my family never cared about her. I got upset and said I don't ever say bad things about her family. It's true. I don't talk crap about her family. That made her pretty mad.
She later told me she hopes they never accept me and if I have to live with them she hopes they stop me from transitioning. That rightfully really upset me. I asked her why she would say that? It's a fucked up thing to say. I would never tell her I hope her family stops accepting her.
