My issue isn't with the occasional strop, hell I can't think of anyone I wouldn't have a wobble at if stuck in an enclosed space for long enough, my issue is more about how if it's persistent and humiliating then the relationship is fundamentally broken.
I've been in long term relationships where there's been barely any arguments at all because THAT'S WHAT A RELATIONSHIP SHOULD LOOK LIKE. Hell I broke up with my fiance mutually over kids and we remained good friends ever since. On the flip side I've broken up with plenty of women who started out great but then drastically changed after settling in. Some of them were complete smoke shows to where I still have a few friends ask me how I fumbled X, no matter how many times I explained that she was trouble.
You see here's the thing, I'm entirely 100% happy when I'm single. This isn't a cope, I'm genuinely happy. Much like the worker who has received a huge inheritance and can go up to his boss and demand a comfier schedule because he's got absolutely nothing to lose, I have absolutely nothing to lose by giving women ultimatums for bad behaviour because if they say NO I can just break up with them and kick them out. They know this, therefore they put up and shut up.
And here's the big issue I see with a lot of Kiwis on here who claim to be 100% happy when single, when put to the test they will cave and do anything to keep their woman as their relationship is built on the fear of not getting anyone as good as them again, which is a laughably toxic way of playing house. So any man on here who is having wife/girlfriend trouble I suggest you think about what you enjoyed doing the most back when you were single and do a little bit more of that, be more independent and enjoy the little things in life. If wife/girlfriend wants to get in the way of that, you know exactly where you stand if she's willing to impede your personal happiness. The big question is, are you man enough to tell her to leave?