@Bert killed Ernie. Why? your mention of splitting reminded me of this Rose log from after LS rejected him
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I really need to go back and watch stuff from 2022 and start taking notes. There's so many things he said and did between Bob7, Lav, mrgirl, and Melina that would make it very easy to demonstrate that he is, in fact, a cluster B narcissist and not a colloquial narcissist like Hasan.
I vaguely remember him talking about this technique at the time, too. I want to say he recommended it as a good thing to do when you're going through a break up. He definitely does this with everyone he has a break up with, it's not just women. People gave him a lot of shit because when he broke up with mrgirl he "all of a sudden realized these things about him" but that is actually what happened. Before he put mrgirl in the bad category, he was not able to view him the way everyone else did. It has nothing to do with charitability. Because all of a sudden, once mrgirl was "bad" he was a rapist, he was a narcissist, he was a manipulator, he was a pedophile.
And mrgirl's crime was the same as Pxie's and Brittany Simon. He no longer saw Destiny the way Destiny sees himself. I don't think Destiny usually has to work at making himself feel this way, he does it naturally, but when it comes to Lauren, who didn't see him for what he is, he would have to force himself to do it.
Edit: mrgirl probably is a narcissist, too, by the way. But Lav says he's bpd cause of the common behaviors between the two. But Destiny probably thought mrgirl was going to start pointing out his own narcissism and had to get ahead of it, which means mrgirl can't call HIM a narcissist because it looks like a NO U situation. That's why Max is stuck with the very stupid "he's a sociopath" commentary.
One of the things I would clip from 2022 is when he was talking about how much he hated girls being interested in pop-psychology. Because the obvious thing is that women were calling him a narcissist in DMs and pointing out certain things and he didn't like that. The more people are aware of what NPD is, the more problems he's going to have in his personal life.