Asking a girl for a number

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funkybitch

funkybitch

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How eould I go about picking up a woman I find attractive?
I had 3 girlfriends in my lifetime but each time it was them that did the first move.
Now I'm in a situation where I find a girl attractive but can't seem to find a courage to talk to her. I feel like a bitch and a pussy.
Fucking retarded as shit.
Everytime I get close to talking to ger I make an excuse in my head like "she probably has a guy already, is too old for me" etc.

What do I even say to her. How would I get all that information like whats her age, if shes single,... so sad, just realized all those eomen that asked me out fucked my game up, I never had to do any progress in actual making a first step. Am I doomed?????

Tell me some good tips please
 
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Oliver Onions said:
Don't listen to all these kissless virgins OP. Take some real advice from a master of seduction:
https://youtube.com/watch?v=Zq_LakJTsIE:230
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Best me to it. Serious answer op work on being a normal person and not sharing with a group of Internet weirdos that you want to dig in a woman's ass and that you think she wants you to breed her but are also too scared to display romantic intent.
 
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Learn about her hobbies and ask her questions that show you're interested in what she likes. I've heard a lot of complaints from straight women that men don't seem interested enough in getting to know them with questions on dates. This was a skill I had to learn being someone who's pretty tistic myself, and it's valuable in making friends too, not just dating. The best way to bond with someone in my experience is to participate in each other's hobbies. I also like asking people to share their Spotify playlists with me.
 
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Mister Mint said:
Just do it. Worst she can say is
"Hahahahaha are you fucking kidding? Me? YOU?" *gets on a group chat with your three exs and every other girl you've ever liked* "Look at this shit! Shrimp dick just tried to ask me out! hahaha I know right? What a fucking loser!" *makes several posts across social media smearing you and spreading your secrets that you told your exs in a moment of vulnerability, they all pool together to buy a billboard in your hometown talking about your subpar sexual performance and then they get you booked as a sex pest for harassing her.*

Go for it! You got this!
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You joke but some people get off on that.
 
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Don't get wrapped around the axle deciding THIS GIRL is the one, then shoot your shot.

Just letting a girl know you're interested in her gives you a huge bonus towards her being interested in you.

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i don't recommend this, but hey, if it works you get a keeper ...
 
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funkybitch said:
Now I'm in a situation where I find a girl attractive but can't seem to find a courage to talk to her. I feel like a bitch and a pussy.
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That's because you are.
Regardless, invite them to drink. If they are uninterested don't bother with them further.
It is also easier if you don't value them at all or just don't see a reason to be with them. Just ask. More you think about it worse it gets.
 
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