Slightly gender non conforming woman -------> Pooner in real time.
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I find the complaint about her therapist "judging" her by "binary standards" rather ironic. Non-binary as a concept, while somewhat comprehensible in the most abstract sense, is ultimately nonsensical given that 99% of individuals feel their gender aligns with their sex; Thus they will always be judged by a binary standard. You're inevitably going to be judged either a man or a woman, doesn't matter how you dress or if you're "coded" a particular way. Really the only way you can distinguish yourself is if you dress like an absolute schizoid/autistic retard.
The problem with doing that is that you other yourself to the rest of society. If you step out of the overton window of fashion a little too far in everyday life you run the risk of being perceived as mentally ill. Normal people do not take mentally ill people seriously, and I'm not talking about a manic or depressed person, I'm talking about being seen as seriously disturbed.
Maybe if some of you enby clowns made a few attempts at being understood, other than dressing like schizoids, you would be viewed in a slightly better light, as apposed to currently being viewed as incomprehensible visual noise.
Even though you are vanishingly few, there must be some of you that have a modicum of artistic or rhetorical talent. I'm not asking for some Aristotle or Dostoevsky type savants, all I'm asking for is something comprehensible to the average person.