“it scares me that by the virtue of how i was born i wont be able to provide pleasure for my partner like other women can. and when i think about this fear, it just makes me feel worthless honestly.”
There’s that misogyny again, right on schedule. He’s basically saying that a woman’s sole purpose and worth is rooted entirely in her being a quiet, obedient fuckhole for men to fill with cum, and nothing else. Shameful.
A proper response would be to make him aware of this^, then point out that he’s been in a gay relationship with another man for a while, and that he’s been providing pleasure to his partner this whole time- BECAUSE of how he was born. That, even with an unfuckable, complications-riddled axe wound, he could still provide his boyfriend pleasure. Much like he’s been doing already, he could just continue providing fellatio and letting the boyfriend fuck him in the ass. End the comment with something along the lines of “it’s not that complicated, dude.”
I imagine saying that to a troon would be akin to calling a black person a nigger to their face hahaha.