Tismguide
kiwifarms.net
- Joined
- Feb 24, 2020
That creepy collar he wears everywhere is a BDSM submissive thing. His husband "Elly" (who also works at Google and likely has power, influence, and money of his own) wrote about it here:Probably a power differential. I bet the common thread is that all of his partners are easy to control, and won't speak up to contradict him.
Elly Fong-Jones said:In our relationship the transfer of power is somewhat overt - I am the dominant partner and Liz is the submissive partner (usually!) and this is the way we both enjoy it. Liz enjoys being... well, dominated, for want of a better term - having a partner that is more confident and powerful than she is. I enjoy being that partner.
Obviously power as a fetish and actual power don't have to be the same thing, and it sounds like he's into switch too, so you could still be right, but I think the simpler explanation is that his partners share his kinks like someone wrote above. It makes a lot of sense to me that if your entire lifestyle is a fetish, instead of attractive partners you just need ones that reinforce that fetish, since your fetish has completely replaced normal human sexuality.